Okay guys! We are picky too..... Sometimes we can be stupid in our fantasies of what we think is good for us, when in reality i t isn't. You can't ask for a sweet girl to take home to home, who F%$#s like a champ, looks like a porn star, wants to have your kids, keeps fit, and cooks and cleans. You are asking too much.

But in regards to this thread and to back up what I said.... Sometimes women want too much when they think like this...

Woman: Like, OMG! I want a guy who is a doctor, part time cage fighter, treats me like a princess, massages me when I snap my fingers, automatically knows what I want without me having to tell him, and the list goes on......

How the hell is a doctor or someone who makes a lot of money from a respectable profession like that going to find time to be a part time cage fighter?

Even if he is a fighter, you know you won't have sex that much pending on how much the dude has big fights. It's bad for them during training.


I dunno........ Both sexes need to check themselves.. That's all I am saying.

Like, OMG...A doctor who cage fights??? WOWZERS, LOL!!

Seriously, I get your point. We both can be dumb as rocks in our ways of choosin whom we like or not like.

I know a friend of mine who is gonna become a platic surgeon and knows Kung Fu and kick boxing, does that count?

LOL nah

Here I am

whats wrong with english guys ? what country did you want them from ?

You've found me. I'm a pretty decent guy.

lol... i am always here

What's wrong with one that's a little ruff around the edges?

You don't like to be bad from time to time?

Ha ha, I got the first part down, I'm actually in med school! :-p Cage fighting might take a bit of training though.

you dont like english men , but you're on a american chat site

That's impressive

I think there are a lot of decent guys still out there. The problem is finding the right one for us. And as we are all looking for different things in a mate sometimes it is hard to pair up. I have seen a lot of people say girls are attracted to bad boys. That isn't true for me. I have a lot of friends that are "bad boys". But I would never even consider dating one.

i was in a nine year faithful and loyal relationship, we grew apart, and i just want to have friends now, i'm tired of all of it and i want to be out of the game by choice, but i treated my partner like gold. the relationship was on her terms, and she now realized what she had as of late, but at this stage in the game, it's my time from now on, till the end of my life. there are more guys out there with my style of loyalty that i meet that still want to meet someone, but they are a timid bunch anymore, and they will talk to you like a best friend. that's how to spot them...... good luck.

Maybe... you're attracting them, or not saying no?

good point

Stop looking and you will find him, that is what happened to me

chemistry...it's either there or it's not...next.

thats right