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Topic: Dating a churchgoer
Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Fri 06/27/08 10:01 PM
I have no problem with dating a church going man. But...I would have a problem with someone that was fanatical and combined it with ultra conservative politics.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 06/27/08 10:03 PM
I have no problem with dating a church going man. But...I would have a problem with someone that was fanatical and combined it with ultra conservative politics.

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Fri 06/27/08 10:05 PM
Well, I am a church goer and I have yet to have a man say to me "forget YOU" because of it. I'm a believer, I pray and I have great faith. To some MEN that is an enduring quality.

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14521	Fri 06/27/08 10:09 PM
regular church going kinda guy.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 06/27/08 10:09 PM
I just feel I did my time with the church people.Ugh.

Unique2468 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 964	Fri 06/27/08 10:09 PM
Well, I am a church goer and I have yet to have a man say to me "forget YOU" because of it. I'm a believer, I pray and I have great faith. To some MEN that is an enduring quality. To be fair, i dont think any guy would just out and say 'well the reason i'm not going to be with you is that you go to church! But then again, i doubt you would want to be with someone who had a problem with it.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 06/27/08 10:10 PM
When I read a great profile and then see that the person is very religious, I move on. It's just not something I want in my life again.

boredinaz06 Joined Sun 10/15/06 Posts: 22764	Fri 06/27/08 10:11 PM
I Drove through Utah once and Lived in Mesa,AZ Does that Count?

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Fri 06/27/08 10:11 PM
regular church going kinda guy. Michiganman

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Fri 06/27/08 10:12 PM
Well, I am a church goer and I have yet to have a man say to me "forget YOU" because of it. I'm a believer, I pray and I have great faith. To some MEN that is an enduring quality. To be fair, i dont think any guy would just out and say 'well the reason i'm not going to be with you is that you go to church! But then again, i doubt you would want to be with someone who had a problem with it. You're right! Spending time with anyone who doesn't share faith would not be something I would do. I feel I've done my time in spending time with non going church people......UGG

Unique2468 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 964	Fri 06/27/08 10:12 PM
It wouldn't bother me at all. However the person would need to be respectful. They would need to respect my beliefs, and let me believe them without preaching or trying to change them. I doubt i would hook up with anyone who is ultra conservative either. I don't share similar beliefs. I think it depends if they see me not believing as a bad thing. If they do, they will try to save me, and we will break up. If they think that my faith is a good thing for me, even though its differnt then there beliefs, then i see no problem.

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14521	Fri 06/27/08 10:13 PM
regular church going kinda guy. Michiganman Winx. Moderate politics, honest. Not fanantical either.

trace78 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 284	Fri 06/27/08 10:20 PM
I would date someone who went to church regurlarly, as long as they went alone. One's religious preference is usually not a problem for me, as long its kept seperate and a seperate issue. Most cant share everything in a relationship (then again, what would i know, never been in a relationship??)

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 06/27/08 10:20 PM
I heard an echo...

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 06/27/08 10:21 PM
It's just a big PITA because you have to plan everything around the church..it sucks up time and money like a vaccuum.

whow Joined Thu 05/15/08 Posts: 100	Fri 06/27/08 10:24 PM
It's just a big PITA because you have to plan everything around the church..it sucks up time and money like a vaccuum. I assume you're not a smoker then!

brooke007 Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 5469	Fri 06/27/08 10:25 PM
going to church is a good thing.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 06/27/08 10:26 PM
It's just a big PITA because you have to plan everything around the church..it sucks up time and money like a vaccuum. I assume you're not a smoker then! no- what does smoking have to do with the topic?

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 06/27/08 10:26 PM
going to church is a good thing. only for people who want it. It's not for everyone.

whow Joined Thu 05/15/08 Posts: 100	Fri 06/27/08 10:29 PM
It's just a big PITA because you have to plan everything around the church..it sucks up time and money like a vaccuum. I assume you're not a smoker then! no- what does smoking have to do with the topic? because you have to plan everything around the it..it sucks up time and money like a vaccuum.