Topic: WHY AM I MISUNDERSTOOD
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Sat 06/28/08 07:13 AM



I speak English well. I have good grammatical skills. I can string words to make complete sentences/thoughts. Thought I expressed myself well. Yet I find that I am frequently misunderstood.

I dont take things personally especially things online, I try and bring humor to the forums (granted not the best comedian), I do learn from some of the postings of fellow members. I can go on and on but I wont - ok stepping off my soap box... just venting thanks for listening flowerforyou guess I just need a hug

Uhhhh..... Me no understand...... big words.........laugh


{{{johnnyboy}}} let me help you

I needed a hug

just kidding, was just venting flowers




Me gived Fran a big hug......bigsmile

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Sat 06/28/08 07:14 AM
purty flowers.......bigsmile :wink:

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Sat 06/28/08 07:16 AM

Fran, just keep in mind what you are dealing with here. The pool consists of people that range from highly intelligent to barely literate. So if people are misunderstanding, perhaps they are not capable of grasping complex thoughts. It's not their fault.

I need to keep reminding myself of that.



I love you Nora flowers

hikerchick's photo
Sat 06/28/08 07:17 AM


Fran, just keep in mind what you are dealing with here. The pool consists of people that range from highly intelligent to barely literate. So if people are misunderstanding, perhaps they are not capable of grasping complex thoughts. It's not their fault.

I need to keep reminding myself of that.



I love you Nora flowers


I love you too. You seem to be able to understand where I am coming from even when it's a different place than yours (which it usually is.)

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Sat 06/28/08 07:18 AM
I completely enjoy the amount of ignorance people have...... The amount of people on here uncapable of using words with more than 2 syllables.......laugh We as a nation have become ignorant........ No child left behind........ hmmmmmm.......

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Sat 06/28/08 07:18 AM




I speak English well. I have good grammatical skills. I can string words to make complete sentences/thoughts. Thought I expressed myself well. Yet I find that I am frequently misunderstood.

I dont take things personally especially things online, I try and bring humor to the forums (granted not the best comedian), I do learn from some of the postings of fellow members. I can go on and on but I wont - ok stepping off my soap box... just venting thanks for listening flowerforyou guess I just need a hug

Uhhhh..... Me no understand...... big words.........laugh


{{{johnnyboy}}} let me help you

I needed a hug

just kidding, was just venting flowers




Me gived Fran a big hug......bigsmile


me can :heart: ju long long time nice man:smile:

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Sat 06/28/08 07:20 AM



Fran, just keep in mind what you are dealing with here. The pool consists of people that range from highly intelligent to barely literate. So if people are misunderstanding, perhaps they are not capable of grasping complex thoughts. It's not their fault.

I need to keep reminding myself of that.



I love you Nora flowers


I love you too. You seem to be able to understand where I am coming from even when it's a different place than yours (which it usually is.)



Oh ya .. I 'get ya' .. but to be honest it did take a while. I think we are both on the same intellectual level, but becuz our perspectives are so opposite frustrated that was the glitch.

Now? You DA woman flowers

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 06/28/08 07:20 AM

I completely enjoy the amount of ignorance people have...... The amount of people on here uncapable of using words with more than 2 syllables.......laugh We as a nation have become ignorant........ No child left behind........ hmmmmmm.......



Ya I hear ya babe

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Sat 06/28/08 07:21 AM


Fran, just keep in mind what you are dealing with here. The pool consists of people that range from highly intelligent to barely literate. So if people are misunderstanding, perhaps they are not capable of grasping complex thoughts. It's not their fault.

I need to keep reminding myself of that.



I love you Nora flowers


{{{{{{ladies}}}}} that's it in a nutshell.

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Sat 06/28/08 07:21 AM




Fran, just keep in mind what you are dealing with here. The pool consists of people that range from highly intelligent to barely literate. So if people are misunderstanding, perhaps they are not capable of grasping complex thoughts. It's not their fault.

I need to keep reminding myself of that.



I love you Nora flowers


I love you too. You seem to be able to understand where I am coming from even when it's a different place than yours (which it usually is.)



Oh ya .. I 'get ya' .. but to be honest it did take a while. I think we are both on the same intellectual level, but becuz our perspectives are so opposite frustrated that was the glitch.

Now? You DA woman flowers
Yet, you, unlike others, chose not to take my words as an attack on YOU, but merely as a reflection of my own style of behavior. You are a smart woman, Fade.

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Sat 06/28/08 07:22 AM




Fran, just keep in mind what you are dealing with here. The pool consists of people that range from highly intelligent to barely literate. So if people are misunderstanding, perhaps they are not capable of grasping complex thoughts. It's not their fault.

I need to keep reminding myself of that.



I love you Nora flowers


I love you too. You seem to be able to understand where I am coming from even when it's a different place than yours (which it usually is.)



Oh ya .. I 'get ya' .. but to be honest it did take a while. I think we are both on the same intellectual level, but becuz our perspectives are so opposite frustrated that was the glitch.

Now? You DA woman flowers



:laughing: Fade :laughing: can I be the ODDA woman :laughing:

differences and diversity is what I thrive on...

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Sat 06/28/08 07:23 AM
(((((FRAN)))))))
(((((Hiker))))flowerforyou flowerforyou

you cannot be witty if they are unarmed!!!:wink:

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Sat 06/28/08 07:24 AM

(((((FRAN)))))))
(((((Hiker))))flowerforyou flowerforyou

you cannot be witty if they are unarmed!!!:wink:


{{{{{{{{wolf}}}}}}} morning


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Sat 06/28/08 07:30 AM
Not everyone has the same sense of humor.20% of the population will get it while the rest think your weird,attacking them or your a jerk with the iq of a kumquat.
Hang in there.At least your noticed.:banana:

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Sat 06/28/08 07:33 AM

Not everyone has the same sense of humor.20% of the population will get it while the rest think your weird,attacking them or your a jerk with the iq of a kumquat.
Hang in there.At least your noticed.:banana:


smile2 granted almost NO ONE has/understands my sarcastic wit

I try and type out words which cannot be misconstrued but they still are (it's ok)

but oh well cant please all of the people all of the time:thumbsup:

to those that think I'm weird, join the club me too

why fit in when we are all meant to stand out

:thumbsup:


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Sat 06/28/08 07:43 AM


Not everyone has the same sense of humor.20% of the population will get it while the rest think your weird,attacking them or your a jerk with the iq of a kumquat.
Hang in there.At least your noticed.:banana:


smile2 granted almost NO ONE has/understands my sarcastic wit

I try and type out words which cannot be misconstrued but they still are (it's ok)

but oh well cant please all of the people all of the time:thumbsup:

to those that think I'm weird, join the club me too

why fit in when we are all meant to stand out

:thumbsup:




I have the same problem with my sarcastic wit .It's a defense mechanism.When I'm nervous the one liners really fly.I make sarcastic observations in public and embarrass my kids.
I make jokes at funerals because I am uncomfortable around dead people.
My mouth moves before my brain can say "stop you fool".

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Sat 06/28/08 07:46 AM
Edited by franshade on Sat 06/28/08 07:47 AM



Not everyone has the same sense of humor.20% of the population will get it while the rest think your weird,attacking them or your a jerk with the iq of a kumquat.
Hang in there.At least your noticed.:banana:


smile2 granted almost NO ONE has/understands my sarcastic wit

I try and type out words which cannot be misconstrued but they still are (it's ok)

but oh well cant please all of the people all of the time:thumbsup:

to those that think I'm weird, join the club me too

why fit in when we are all meant to stand out

:thumbsup:




I have the same problem with my sarcastic wit .It's a defense mechanism.When I'm nervous the one liners really fly.I make sarcastic observations in public and embarrass my kids.
I make jokes at funerals because I am uncomfortable around dead people.
My mouth moves before my brain can say "stop you fool".


awwww cute

I suffer from the same malady but I dont let it out my mouth, but normally take one look at me and there is this smile on my face and a gleam in my eyes. Good thing people cant read my mind, now that would be something.

pitchfork

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Sat 06/28/08 11:36 AM


wow....so mods criticize the site?
yes..they remain human beings with opinions even after attaining modhood.


I don't think you should attempt to speak for the mods here.

What the mods do is remain impartial, unbiased, fair and objective, no matter what their personal opinions are.

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Sat 06/28/08 11:43 AM

I speak English well. I have good grammatical skills. I can string words to make complete sentences/thoughts. Thought I expressed myself well. Yet I find that I am frequently misunderstood.

I dont take things personally especially things online, I try and bring humor to the forums (granted not the best comedian), I do learn from some of the postings of fellow members. I can go on and on but I wont - ok stepping off my soap box... just venting thanks for listening flowerforyou guess I just need a hug
DONT USE THAT TONE WITH ME YOUNG LADY!!!devil explode :wink: laugh laugh laugh laugh jk

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Sun 06/29/08 09:25 AM


I speak English well. I have good grammatical skills. I can string words to make complete sentences/thoughts. Thought I expressed myself well. Yet I find that I am frequently misunderstood.

I dont take things personally especially things online, I try and bring humor to the forums (granted not the best comedian), I do learn from some of the postings of fellow members. I can go on and on but I wont - ok stepping off my soap box... just venting thanks for listening flowerforyou guess I just need a hug
DONT USE THAT TONE WITH ME YOUNG LADY!!!devil explode :wink: laugh laugh laugh laugh jk


ju r so rite Gypsi

happy Sunday {{{{{All}}}}}}}}}