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joseph771's photo
Thu 06/26/08 10:39 PM
He is right...you are very hot. Though dating is also hot...you know what I'm saying...you get burned.

More impoirtantly though you get caught up in your own ideas. Take some chance///change things up.

For me I had to realize that there are certain things the women need to have to feel comfortable to continue. I had to learn to find out what those are and how to SAFELY give them when/and if I feel it is a good thing to give to beguin with.

they say its not a game but there are puzzles to solve. Figure out what a man wants. Be consistent in yourself: thats the hard part-and try new things. Bith sides are confusing that much is now very clear to me!

Trust your self to be a lot and you will be!

Beth219's photo
Thu 06/26/08 10:45 PM
I fell that way all the time but you just have to push through it. things will get better in time. "Be strong now, Because things will get better,it might be stormy now, But it cant rain forever" and just remember " what that does not kill you only makes you stronger"

brooke007's photo
Thu 06/26/08 10:48 PM

like just completely given up..


oh i think sometimes its beter to just take a break, regroup, figure out what it is u want.

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Thu 06/26/08 10:53 PM


like just completely given up..


oh i think sometimes its beter to just take a break, regroup, figure out what it is u want.



That too. Which is why bad crap happens. It helps you find yourself and not look at the silly things that you THINK you want. You tend to focus on what's more important when you burn up from every day crap. Then like a Phoenix, you are reborn and fly away, a whole new you for the world to view. That's just the way live is.

wraithme66's photo
Thu 06/26/08 10:56 PM




like just completely given up..



Dude, stop it. Just stop it. You are very young and probably one of the cutest things I have ever seen. Don't stress so much sweetheart. Things will get better, you got plenty of years ahead of you. Right now you can afford to be picky, you can afford to be stuck up, you can get by on just your good looks alone. Take no worries in whatever it is you are going through, because I promise you. Things will get better.


--Faust

thanks.but i feel like ive let down everyone.I completely ignored my friends just for guys,who ended up not being there for me in the end anyways,and i have soo many problems with my family,i feel like theres no where left to go.



Well I am going to tell you this once love. Right now you are perfect prey for some weak ass dude to feed upon and manipulate like a vampire. Pull yourself together and remind yourself of the good things. Stay strong in the dark times, because if you look for the easy way out (a guy to save you), things will get much worse. You are going to find a guy who is not yet a man, he will seek the weakened girl to evaluate him as a man (which is wrong by the way, but I will not get into that), and then all hell breaks loose for you both.

I am sorry that you are going through things, and I would offer to discuss whatever it is you are going through in a way to help. Although I fear that if I do, I would be looked at as the weak guy who preys on the weakened innocent girl and cannot allow that to happen. I do wish you the best in finding a solution to what is at hand right now. I suppose things always do get worse before they get better. But keep your chin up, these things are necessary to build you into a fine young woman. Just depends on how you roll with the punches, these times in your youth can make or break you. But you seem to have a good head on your shoulders and I am sure you will pull right through. I bet you haven't even read all this huh? LOL Youth.... It's lovely I swear!


Spoken like a true saint...

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Thu 06/26/08 10:58 PM





like just completely given up..



Dude, stop it. Just stop it. You are very young and probably one of the cutest things I have ever seen. Don't stress so much sweetheart. Things will get better, you got plenty of years ahead of you. Right now you can afford to be picky, you can afford to be stuck up, you can get by on just your good looks alone. Take no worries in whatever it is you are going through, because I promise you. Things will get better.


--Faust

thanks.but i feel like ive let down everyone.I completely ignored my friends just for guys,who ended up not being there for me in the end anyways,and i have soo many problems with my family,i feel like theres no where left to go.



Well I am going to tell you this once love. Right now you are perfect prey for some weak ass dude to feed upon and manipulate like a vampire. Pull yourself together and remind yourself of the good things. Stay strong in the dark times, because if you look for the easy way out (a guy to save you), things will get much worse. You are going to find a guy who is not yet a man, he will seek the weakened girl to evaluate him as a man (which is wrong by the way, but I will not get into that), and then all hell breaks loose for you both.

I am sorry that you are going through things, and I would offer to discuss whatever it is you are going through in a way to help. Although I fear that if I do, I would be looked at as the weak guy who preys on the weakened innocent girl and cannot allow that to happen. I do wish you the best in finding a solution to what is at hand right now. I suppose things always do get worse before they get better. But keep your chin up, these things are necessary to build you into a fine young woman. Just depends on how you roll with the punches, these times in your youth can make or break you. But you seem to have a good head on your shoulders and I am sure you will pull right through. I bet you haven't even read all this huh? LOL Youth.... It's lovely I swear!


Spoken like a true saint...



laugh What?! LOL

wilkit's photo
Thu 06/26/08 10:59 PM



like just completely given up..



Dude, stop it. Just stop it. You are very young and probably one of the cutest things I have ever seen. Don't stress so much sweetheart. Things will get better, you got plenty of years ahead of you. Right now you can afford to be picky, you can afford to be stuck up, you can get by on just your good looks alone. Take no worries in whatever it is you are going through, because I promise you. Things will get better.


--Faust

thanks.but i feel like ive let down everyone.I completely ignored my friends just for guys,who ended up not being there for me in the end anyways,and i have soo many problems with my family,i feel like theres no where left to go.



There is never any reason to give up, imo. You are much too young to have such a negative outlook. Could be you have been through some crap, btdt, if you'd like to talk without judgment I'm available any time. The way I see it you can choose to be happy or not, a good friend taught me that. Yes we'll all go through sad times but we can choose to perpetuate that or get through it and be happy with ourselves. Ultimately we are in control of our own happiness.

flowerforyou
drinker

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Thu 06/26/08 11:09 PM
Oh yeah Love, that reminds me... *ahem!* Me me me meeeeeeeeeee....

The sun'll come out
Tomorrow
Bet your bottom dollar
That tomorrow
There'll be sun!

Just thinkin' about
Tomorrow
Clears away the cobwebs,
And the sorrow
'Til there's none!

When I'm stuck a day
That's gray,
And lonely,
I just stick out my chin
And Grin,
And Say,
Oh!

The sun'll come out
Tomorrow
So ya gotta hang on
'Til tomorrow
Come what may

Tomorrow! Tomorrow!
I love ya Tomorrow!
You're always
A day
A way!


When I'm stuck a day
That's gray,
And lonely,
I just stick out my chin
And Grin,
And Say!!!!
Oh!!!

The sun'll come out
Tomorrow
So ya gotta hang on
'Til tomorrow
Come what may


Tomorrow! Tomorrow!
I love ya Tomorrow!
You're always
A day
A way!

Tomorrow! Tomorrow!
I love ya Tomorrow!
You're always
A day!
A way!

******************************************


laugh Sorry, I couldn't resist.

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