He is right...you are very hot. Though dating is also hot...you know what I'm saying...you get burned.

More impoirtantly though you get caught up in your own ideas. Take some chance///change things up.

For me I had to realize that there are certain things the women need to have to feel comfortable to continue. I had to learn to find out what those are and how to SAFELY give them when/and if I feel it is a good thing to give to beguin with.

they say its not a game but there are puzzles to solve. Figure out what a man wants. Be consistent in yourself: thats the hard part-and try new things. Bith sides are confusing that much is now very clear to me!

Trust your self to be a lot and you will be!