I'll get crap for this but...

I think what most girls are saying is that they want to know where they stand all the time so that they don't get hurt at all, or hurt the least. No one likes being strung along, ignored, pushed to the side, treated as a backup plan or worse. Rarely do the girls realize that they arn't allowed to play games either. Usually means the guy gets hurt, and the girl doesn't, because telling him where she is at, might change things and end up hurting her.

Nah!!! I have no issue with bleeding my heart out. They can take it or leave it. It'll hurt and it'll pass.

Oh puleeze

"Games" by my definition would be:

Not being honest.
Having hidden intentions.
Manipulation: Mind fuc*ing you to the point where you are confused. Turning your thought process upside down. Confusing you to the point where you may lose your own identity. Everything is your fault and you take on all of the accountability because they twist things to make it seem so. They try to corrupt you to the point where you have no confidence or dignity. Then they try to control you by knowing where you are at all times, with whom, and what you are doing. Etc......

It happened to me.. Therefore I do not want any games. So now you have a small glimpse into what "games" are.

thats not games, thats borderline psychotic. I've been there to. I can't imagine many people doing that in relastionships. Atleast i thought to that extent it was rather a rare thing.

Let me elaborate.

Judy and John are dating. John likes another girl. Judy wants john to tell her those things, instead of stringing her along. Judy finds out, the typical female response is yelling 'fine then go be with her' or 'dont talk to her any more'. If john says he needs time, then 9/10 times it ends in a break up.

Judy likes another guy. John wants judy to tell him about these things, so he isnt strung along. John finds out. Johns response is usually 'who's it going to be'. Judy's response is 'i dont know, im so confused. i need time to figure this out.

The thing here is john is expected to make his choice right then and there. Judy has a chance to figure it out, prepare her heart, and emotions, then when everything is set, she can tell john.

Another example would be flirting. Most women consider a guy saying there cute is acceptable and no big deal. The guy shouldn't get mad over it. If the girl catches another girl calling her guy cute, she flips out. It's called a double standard. Guy's have them in differnt area's, like burping and farting. There are exceptions to both rules, just not a ton of them.

It's cool the way you stereotype people and that way you don't have the trouble of getting to know them individually. I am sure it saves lots of time.

Okay so it's psychotic games. But to me it's still games. I also agree with your definition of games. Just happens to be a bit more mild so to speak. lol

hehe yea, i dont think someone who would do that would really care if they read it in your profile or not. Those type of people are incapable of love, because love is understanding. And they simply don't care enough to even try and understand. Check out the character traits of a socialpath. You'll get a kick out of it.