ok well most of you know I am single. I have been talking to my friend (Jeff) he told me after me an mike broke up we could hang out an date when I was ready to.. he was willing to wait for me. but I talked to him today about it an he is going after another girl! I just don't understand him... we have been friends for prob 2 years now..when I was single before he didn't want anything to do with me but every time I'm with someone he wants me BAD.. but now that I am single again..nothing!! I can't ever get a break!! so now to add to my heartbreak!

never give up thats called failure.

Goes back to the saying:
"Always wanting something you cannot have."
I totally understand..been there done that.

he wants what he cant have. Enjoys the chase.. Women do it all the time. Drives me friggin crazy. You don't have to worry your beautiful someone will be lucky to have ya. Just gotta wait.

Seriously..take this from an old broad. Your young, enjoy your freedom and dont worry about NOT having a man.

that really suxi know what thats like

While youth still flows
let things come to you
running to something
may result in hitting a brick wall, (like the face thing you used to express anger/fustration)
Waiting will age you
but
just like wine
Waiting may create things for the better

Your young, enjoy your life.... don't worry about "Men" they aren't all what they are cracked up to be..... LOL Plenty of time to find the right one.....

Dont worry sweetheart. There is someone better out there for you. Believe me, i completely understand. I have been looking for a year and a half and still nothing. Lots of friendships though. I have had my letdowns and been stood up on a date 3 or 4 times. So hang in there. God has a purpose for us all and not all men are jerks but there are alot of them out there. Take care and keep your chin up1

yea an I seem to only go after the jerks.. need to change

Life is to short to worry over things like this...be patient...

I know but it just hurts

Wait til your over 40 and then panic... ..Seriously..do not worry about it, enjoy your life now.

Men, our work is almost done here

Atleast you got to know that without having to be in a relastionship with him. It would of hurt more after giving more of yourself emotionally to him.

Here is a happy thought. If you always get the jerks, date someone differnt then the type of guys you normally go after. That way you get to have lots of new expierences and there is a good chance they won't be jerks.

There's no quick fix here. There's a four letter word that applies. TIME.

TIME to reflect
TIME to know yourself
TIME to mourn the loss
TIME to be comfortable being alone
and then...

TIME to move on and get into another crazy relationship.

If you don't take that TIME, will be the end result every TIME, as the conflicts that are of your own making are repeated, TIME after TIME.

At your age, you have plenty of TIME.

Emoticons added for 2 reasons.

1) So you don't have to read, just following the bouncing balls
2) I like the new toys.

People get a charge out of playing mind games with others. I'm sorry that happened to you, I understand exactly how you feel friend He isn't the guy for you, you deserve so much better than games.

patience, when the right guy for you comes into your life you'll know it. Enjoy the single life for now. take this time to discover you.

Never hold anyone to expectations, because you are then disappointed or you settle for great things (and by that, I mean not let them excite you). Take life for what it is, there is many new things to experience. Let life shock and awe you. You are still young, take pleasures in getting to know yourself and experience all you can before you decide to share your life with someone.

That's right, I said "Share your life with someone". You do not "Build your life with someone", because the moment things do not work out, you are like a halfway built house. Then you are left with asking yourself how you can complete yourself for someone to take a look at you and see what a beautiful "temple" you are.


Don't get down so easily, life will teach you that age is more than just a number. It is strength beyond measure. Learn from older folks in your life, they have gone though much more than you have and know all the heart aches and repairs. You will find that you have more in common and that there is much more to learn than you think.


Hope this helps.


Faust