Topic: Please Help Need Advice
MsCarmen's photo
Sun 06/22/08 09:41 PM



Well,there was something she liked in you or she wouldn't have agreed to the date.Just relax,be urself and try to have fun...Oh,and flowerforyou won't hurtbigsmile


How do u relax?

empty the gun before you leave...you know the gun I'm talking about
noway laugh

MrWrongman's photo
Sun 06/22/08 09:41 PM



Well,there was something she liked in you or she wouldn't have agreed to the date.Just relax,be urself and try to have fun...Oh,and flowerforyou won't hurtbigsmile


How do u relax?

empty the gun before you leave...you know the gun I'm talking about


LMAO!!!! Nah man I wanna go loaded

MrWrongman's photo
Sun 06/22/08 09:42 PM

I would be yourself, everything else will fall into place. What kind of date is it? Diner...a movie? That would depend on how you would dress. One thing...I wouldn't bring up old g/f's too much....women HATE that.

laugh :tongue: laugh


I dont do dinners or movie thats boring, ok so no ex's got it:wink:

Blaze1978's photo
Mon 06/23/08 12:47 AM




Be yourself. Everything will work out.


What if she dosent like me



Don't worry about it so much. Just relax.:smile:


Should I bring her a gift?


Don't bring too much or she'll think you want something in return.:wink: :wink:

Sluggo's photo
Mon 06/23/08 01:03 AM
LoL...I was reading your profile and saw:

"Interests: No stalkers!!!!!, I love brunnettes, I only date beautiful women, I'm just a jerk love me for who I am, I dont like needy and insucure women, I dont care what you think of me"


Are we having second guesses here laugh
Just go with being a jerk, tends to work most of the time (and definitely don't bring anything or she might think you're NOT a jerk and try to stick you in the friends zone) :wink:

Sluggo's photo
Mon 06/23/08 01:04 AM
LoL...I was reading your profile and saw:

"Interests: No stalkers!!!!!, I love brunnettes, I only date beautiful women, I'm just a jerk love me for who I am, I dont like needy and insucure women, I dont care what you think of me"


Are we having second guesses here laugh
Just go with being a jerk, tends to work most of the time (and definitely don't bring anything or she might think you're NOT a jerk and try to stick you in the friends zone) :wink:

atleedagod's photo
Mon 06/23/08 01:08 AM
be yourself calm the **** down
and take some advice from 40 year old virgin
if she doesnt like you punch her in the ****ing head

worked for me laugh

s1owhand's photo
Mon 06/23/08 01:11 AM

LoL...I was reading your profile and saw:

"Interests: No stalkers!!!!!, I love brunnettes, I only date beautiful women, I'm just a jerk love me for who I am, I dont like needy and insucure women, I dont care what you think of me"


Are we having second guesses here laugh
Just go with being a jerk, tends to work most of the time (and definitely don't bring anything or she might think you're NOT a jerk and try to stick you in the friends zone) :wink:


laugh

don't care what she thinks of you - everything else will work out

boneyjoe's photo
Mon 06/23/08 01:29 AM
it looks like th ladys has given th best advice,,,just be your self,,,relax,,,,let her see th real u,an don't getscared an silly

Fade2Black's photo
Mon 06/23/08 04:18 AM

Goin out on a date soon, should I bring flowers, candy, etc..How should I dress? Very nervous right nowohwell


If you're going out with who I THINK you're going out with .. you do well to be nervous :tongue:

BUT you'd do best to (((((((((((( RELAX ))))))))))))))

flowerforyou

and I think do something with class ... like a single rose flowerforyou don't go overboard .. that almost as bad as doing nothing glasses

no photo
Mon 06/23/08 05:47 AM
Aww, flowers is a wonderful touch. drinker

*unless she is allergic, of course*

lov2fish's photo
Mon 06/23/08 07:04 AM
bring her a lottery ticket and tell her maybe she'll get lucky tonight...(jk)
I guess it depends on how much you know her or about her already.. have ya'll talked on the phone? Emails,etc.. You can get pretty comfortable with someone prior to actually meeting them.. and if thats the case bring her something that you think she might like.. flowers possibly..
jmodrinker

Citizen_Joe's photo
Mon 06/23/08 03:50 PM

Goin out on a date soon, should I bring flowers, candy, etc..How should I dress? Very nervous right nowohwell


Just keep 2 asprin in your wallet, and at the end of the date, hand them to her. If she says, "I don't have a headache, scream, GOTCHA!". laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh Seriously, just bring yourself, and whatever personality you have, and enjoy the companionship.

Amathyst2's photo
Mon 06/23/08 04:19 PM
Take the advice of the movie Hitch with Will Smith.

Relax. You're going on a date with this woman. That means she said yes when she could of said no. Now it's your job not to screw it up. Do not get roses. That is a little too romantic for a first date. If you're going to do the flower bit, get her an orchid.


Some gift ideas:

Gift certificate to a spa. Women love to be pampered.

A bottle of wine would be a nice gesture. (Only if she drinks.)

hmmm.. I'm trying, but cannot think of more right now.

MOST IMPORTANT thing to remember is listen! Day dreaming if for alone time. And be yourself. Do not talk about past relationships.

Moondark's photo
Mon 06/23/08 04:23 PM
Personally, candy or flowers on a first date seems to be going overboard. It's too much when you don't really know someone. Now if you've know the person a while and this is a first day, it would be okay, because you would have a better idea of the things she likes. Too much too soon could appear over eager.

no photo
Mon 06/23/08 04:24 PM
roofies and a pint of jaeggar.and a collapsable baton to beat her into submission,oh yeah a crispy twenty should help.

no photo
Mon 06/23/08 04:26 PM
moon dark ur f n hot i would like to be ur love slave.....yes i know ur right whats love got to do with it...:wink: :wink: :wink: :wink:

no photo
Mon 06/23/08 04:28 PM
Relax and be yourself. Don't go looking to impress. Just go to have fun.

drinker RELAX AND MAKE HER LAUGHdrinker

buttons's photo
Mon 06/23/08 04:33 PM
i think a flower is very nice on a first dateflowerforyou did ya ever say where you are going? if not to dinner or to a movie? curious...or are ya just meeting as friends for coffee? then maybe no flower till second time you meet laugh

Redshirt's photo
Mon 06/23/08 05:20 PM


Be yourself. Everything will work out.


What if she dosent like me


What if you don't like her? Relax. Remember to breath. Simply enjoy getting to know some one new. flowerforyou