my grandpa alwasy said that the reason men stare at boobs is because men
are like deer caught in the "headlights"

hold on,,,,,,that other topic was on S-E-X ??????? !!!!!!

hippie and papa, there is a diference from looking to
staring.................lolol

my eyes are hazel {smile}

I agree with the idea, most men say they want the wong things frst.
Part of being taught , this is how you look macho.
Reality is TOTALLY different. when men really grow up, they learn it is
OK to speak from the heart, not this false macho thing, without loseing
thier masculinity. Real problem is education of the masses, teach them
differently & you'll get different results.

Old dogs can be the worst students.

Reality is all women & men want the same things from a RELATIONSHIP,
men; in general; have a hard time admitting it.

well put Oldsage

When I feel crazy, I post in those other threads; knowing it ain't
happening. I don't think of this as a dating site. Odds of even
meeting 20 people from here are damn slim, let alone dating anyone from
here. Only person from my area, I reccommended & is a friend. I look
on anything that isn't a good serious exchange of ideas, as a ****'s &
grins thing. No serioue value to it.

Slow, they look at the smaller ones, too, and, for that matter, if
they're not looking at my boobs, then they're looking at my legs.

And hey, don't get me wrong..that's GREAT!!!

BUT..this is the point I'm trying to make..and that is, that there is a
lot more to me (and to any other woman) besides boobs and legs.

And, even though I think that certain comments that are made are made
"in jest," the fact that they're still being made are, in a real sense,
patronizing and demeaning. It's as though everything we say is being
totally ignored and being made into a joke.

I can't speak for other women, but I don't want anything to do with any
man who cannot appreciate me for all the qualities I have, both physical
and intellectual, etc.

I can fix just about anything mechanical, (have fixed my lawnmower,
rototiller, washing machine, etc.) I know a fair bit about auto
mechanics. I know how to change my oil and fix the brakes on my car,
change fuses, etc.

I can discuss just about any topic there is to discuss, I do all the
outside chores in my yard, even though, with two degenerated disks in my
lower back, the pain is sometimes excruciating...

I can also be the best friend, companion and lover a man could ever
want.

But to be thought of as ONLY "eye-candy" is highly insulting, IMO.

my point exactly sheila. when i take a woman out, if i'm staring/looking
at her breasts, i'm not sure it will be a long evening.....lol

now don't get me wrong, we all look. it's just being a little discreet
about it. and if that's all i want a woman for is her
boobs........wowwwwwww i'm in trouble..........lol

Jean, truthfully NO man wants a woman JUST for EYE CANDY. NOT REALLY.
We want all the same things you ladies do.

LOVE, I think this one four letter word says it all.
Make all the lists you want, bottom line I want to be LOVED.
All the rest is in there.

Had it, if it comes again, I'll know.
Otherwise, I'll find her again, in the nxt life.

please tell your boobs to stop staring at my eyes

Old Sage, I do believe you but, if men want to convince women of that,
then they need to stop making juvenile comments, such as, "Tell your
boobs to stop staring at my face."

sigh...

Fine. Then tell the bulge in your crotch to stop staring at mine.

I take a lot of things in life with a grain of salt & a SMILE.
Life to short to SWEAT th SMALL STUFF.
It's all small stuff, REALLY.

I had a talk with Mr. Bulge Jean, he doesn't seem to want to bend. LOL

I have a comment on this subject...

When I am in the forums, I joke around with everyone...This gives me a
sense of who they are all about...It does not mean that I just want sex
from them...I learn about them here, and that is how I decide on who I
am going to talk to...

I have alot of friends, I have met them all throughout the forums. When
we are talking, the conversations are real...They are not just about
sex.

LMAO@SCOTT

Jean, if I may I would like to ask you a question.

Do you enjoy people appreciating you beauty & thinky of you as hot/sexy?

4fun06 awwwwwwwwwwwwwww thats not true

I can joke around, too, but, IMO, there's a time and place for
everything. I think it'd be nice to see men speak to and about women for
a change that demonstrates they're appreciative of them for more than
what they can do for them sexually, that's all. It's almost as though
they're ashamed to admit it.

And even with relationships, like being referred to as "the old ball and
chain" and stuff like that.

When a man truly loves "his" woman, it shows. You can see it in his
eyes, you can see it in his mannerisms, you can see it in the way he is
attentive to her, listening to what she has to say, you can see it by
the expression in his eyes and on his face when he looks at her...

And seeing a man who does that is very rare. It's so refreshing and
gives one hope that maybe there are some decent men left in this world
who don't spend every waking moment thinking about getting his willy
waid..er...laid.