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I guess the only ones who don't are just lucky. Women will say that it's what they want, but it never ends up that way. I'm jaded.
I've been the 'nice guy' all of my life. I always hear that I am a wonderful friend and would be a great father. The ladies run off with all the jerks and I get to hear the sob stories when when it does'nt work out. I love thinking about changing my personality so that a woman can 'discover' or 'bring out' that emotional man hiding inside. It's just great that I have to resort to acting insensitive so that the people that I'm interested in can take notice. It's not like somebody is going to say 'hey that's a really great guy, I'm going to stick with him'. Give me a break. Everything in my life is going right for me except the dating area. I'm just not jerk enough. I've never been arogant, but if it's part of the dating ritual, I guess it's time to find my ego. |
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oh good grief
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 Women love jerks
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go go gadget ego booster
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go go gadget ego booster 
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Dude - just be you - plain and simple.
I guess the only ones who don't are just lucky. Women will say that it's what they want, but it never ends up that way. I'm jaded. I've been the 'nice guy' all of my life. I always hear that I am a wonderful friend and would be a great father. The ladies run off with all the jerks and I get to hear the sob stories when when it does'nt work out. I love thinking about changing my personality so that a woman can 'discover' or 'bring out' that emotional man hiding inside. It's just great that I have to resort to acting insensitive so that the people that I'm interested in can take notice. It's not like somebody is going to say 'hey that's a really great guy, I'm going to stick with him'. Give me a break. Everything in my life is going right for me except the dating area. I'm just not jerk enough. I've never been arogant, but if it's part of the dating ritual, I guess it's time to find my ego. |
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women dont love jerks ... cause i'm the biggest one ever.. i should know
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when you try to be someone else... you attract a different kind of person. How will you ever attract someone that likes the real you, if you are out there pretending to be someone else?
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Everything in my life is going right for me except the dating area. I'm just not jerk enough. I've never been arogant, but if it's part of the dating ritual, I guess it's time to find my ego. you have to get yourself in the right circle of people you are attracted to. if you want good women, try to think of where they might be. if not, you will always be a complainer. |
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women dont love jerks ... cause i'm the biggest one ever.. i should know There must be someting else with you then
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Edited by
No1sLove
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Sun 06/22/08 11:41 AM
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<-- has never been attracted to insensitive, arrogant jerks!
 I think that some women mistake insensitive for self confidence. When I was younger, I probably did to some extent as well. Some learn fast and others take longer. If you pretend to be what you are not, then you will skate right by the one who is looking for what you have to offer. Do yourself a favor and stay true to YOU! 
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<~~~~~~passes out tissues
good grief |
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women dont love jerks ... cause i'm the biggest one ever.. i should know yeah its probably to big and it RIPS EM....lol There must be someting else with you then |
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Oi! Another one?!?
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when you try to be someone else... you attract a different kind of person. How will you ever attract someone that likes the real you, if you are out there pretending to be someone else? Because women want the total package, or else they are just settling. I have'nt met a lady in quite awhile that said 'Wow, you're a great person and you care so much, that's soooooo attractive!' It has to be biological. The luckiest woman has a jerk boyfriend and a male best friend. I used to say that if I could come home every night with a different face I'd be the perfect man. |
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when you try to be someone else... you attract a different kind of person. How will you ever attract someone that likes the real you, if you are out there pretending to be someone else? Because women want the total package, or else they are just settling. I have'nt met a lady in quite awhile that said 'Wow, you're a great person and you care so much, that's soooooo attractive!' It has to be biological. The luckiest woman has a jerk boyfriend and a male best friend. I used to say that if I could come home every night with a different face I'd be the perfect man. |
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I
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when you try to be someone else... you attract a different kind of person. How will you ever attract someone that likes the real you, if you are out there pretending to be someone else? Because women want the total package, or else they are just settling. I have'nt met a lady in quite awhile that said 'Wow, you're a great person and you care so much, that's soooooo attractive!' It has to be biological. The luckiest woman has a jerk boyfriend and a male best friend. I used to say that if I could come home every night with a different face I'd be the perfect man. I've met a lot of women that tell me I'm a great person, not that I agree with them...but let them think what they do about me.
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Edited by
hikerchick
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Sun 06/22/08 11:59 AM
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Why is it that when guys don't have luck with ladies, they immediately assume it's because they are "too nice"?
Maybe they are "not funny" or "not attractive" or "not interesting", or "not confident". They never consider that "niceness" is not the problem. I was not aware how many guys thought that way until I joined this site. It's weird. |
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LIFE is a MIX,,,good guy ,,,bad guy,,,,good girl,,,,bad girl,,,,it makes no true difference as it rests between two peoples trials and their personalities that mix to cause them to believe that ,,,,"THAT" is the reasoning behind what happen to them,,. When in fact OTHERS would SEE a different picture of their problems.....TRUTH!!!  
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