I guess the only ones who don't are just lucky. Women will say that it's what they want, but it never ends up that way. I'm jaded.

I've been the 'nice guy' all of my life. I always hear that I am a wonderful friend and would be a great father. The ladies run off with all the jerks and I get to hear the sob stories when when it does'nt work out.

I love thinking about changing my personality so that a woman can 'discover' or 'bring out' that emotional man hiding inside.

It's just great that I have to resort to acting insensitive so that the people that I'm interested in can take notice. It's not like somebody is going to say 'hey that's a really great guy, I'm going to stick with him'. Give me a break.

Everything in my life is going right for me except the dating area. I'm just not jerk enough. I've never been arogant, but if it's part of the dating ritual, I guess it's time to find my ego.

Why is it that when guys don't have luck with ladies, the immediately assume it's because they are "too nice"?

Maybe they are "not funny" or "not attractive" or "not interesting", or "not confident".

They never consider that "niceness" is not the problem.

I was not aware how many guys thought that way until I joined this site. It's weird.

You don't love me cause I'm too nice!

Quit worrying about being a nice guy. Posts like this aren't going to make people feel sorry for you.

I dumped a realy sweet, nice guy today. He couldn't stop talking about his female friend's and exe's. I had enough.

I guess the only ones who don't are just lucky. Women will say that it's what they want, but it never ends up that way. I'm jaded.

I've been the 'nice guy' all of my life. I always hear that I am a wonderful friend and would be a great father. The ladies run off with all the jerks and I get to hear the sob stories when when it does'nt work out.

I love thinking about changing my personality so that a woman can 'discover' or 'bring out' that emotional man hiding inside.

It's just great that I have to resort to acting insensitive so that the people that I'm interested in can take notice. It's not like somebody is going to say 'hey that's a really great guy, I'm going to stick with him'. Give me a break.

Everything in my life is going right for me except the dating area. I'm just not jerk enough. I've never been arogant, but if it's part of the dating ritual, I guess it's time to find my ego.

I need a nice guy to counter balance all of my evil!!!

OK,,,I will NOT talk anymore about mine,,,,LETS talk about yours,wink,lol

OK,,,BAD idea,,,hows this,,
LETS make NEW memories together,wink,lol
AND talk about US together instead,lol,lol

SORRY,,,I figured ya need a hug and a smile and THIS was my BOTH,,,((((((hugs))))

I need a nice guy to counter balance all of my evil!!!

I could care less about people feeling sorry for me.

And furthermore..any guy who would pretend to be "insensitive" to get women ..was never nice to begin with.

Nice people stay nice whether it gets them what they want or not.

OH I get it now! If you pretend to be somebody else, then that's not really who you are despite that fact that it is you acting that way. If one wants to change ie get stronger or make better decisions is'nt that called growing or maturing? Trying the same things over and over expecting different results is the definition of insanity. Should I not go for somebody because I think that they may not notice me? I think the issue is confidence, and it's funny that I have plenty of that in my life.

I guess that my definition of nice is that I don't try to sleep with everybody I meet. I have more important thing on my mind.

I dumped a realy sweet, nice guy today. He couldn't stop talking about his female friend's and exe's. I had enough.

Maybe you don't know yourself well enough then. That's how it's coming out, really.

Noted and I understand. Sharing what's on your mind all the time really does'nt work. Had he focused on you and worked out his past on his own would you have stayed?

Just my point. We have to hold back our feelings or it does'nt work.