Hi All!!

I had a nice 3 hour conversation with someone last night. How early is to early to call again? Which brings up a bigger question... How do you know when you are showing to "much" interest. I'm not a stalker and don't want to act like one.

I'm not a stalker, but I play one on tv.

Boy, I don't know and I'm sorry I disturbed your post.

if the conversation went well enough.......let her call you.....so you dont have to feel like a stalker!

I would wait a few days.......

Just call her. I'm sure she feel the same way.

don't wait a few days.. we hate that.. well at least "I" do!
if you enjoyed talking to her than CALL if you want to..then perhaps before you end that conversation, ask her if she minded or would like you to call her the next day.

When the cops take your computer I would think she had enough.

I'm guessing you chat online.

Send her an email and tell her you enjoyed the chat and look forward to a repeat performance. She'll probably tell you when to call again.

OR

Email her and tell her to call you. Then, change your number to keep her guessing.

YOUR CALL, either works. Then again, I'm divorced. Maybe you should ask someone else.

I hate that too.. if you're truly interested and I am as well then I want to hear from you at least once a day.. but I agree... ask if it's ok to call the next day!

if i talked for ever on phone with a guy and he doesnt call next day i feel like he didnt mean or like our convo last time we talked.i hate that when guys dont call back and they say they well

I'm divorced as well... That means I obviously couldn't figure out the great mysteries of dating, marriage, and women.

Amen ... if you had fun and have reason to believe she did too, don't play the 'hard to get' game! Start your second conversation by asking if it's a good time to be talking, or something like that, just to be courteous, but I personally love to hear the other person enjoyed our chat so much he can't wait to talk to me again! Good luck!

Just call her. Obviously she enjoyed talking to you also or would have made an excuse to get off of the phone. And if she has to wait for a day or two, she'll wonder if you care or not...........just call her. And before you finish your conversation, ask her when is the best time to call again. Then its in her court.
Call her.

Alright... Dailing.

Thanks!!

Text her to see if it's ok to call?
I think an email to say you enjoyed her company and would love to speak with her again is a great idea! I always try to reciprocate with some token of appreciationg - no matter how intense the feeling is.

Word of advice, tho ...
Take your time.

If you have to, mark the days on a calendar. It is so easy to get wrapped up in the emotional satisfaction when you've found someone you can relate to. Building something lasting tho, takes time.
Remember, if you were dating in an area where you could be together regularly, you'd most likely still only see each other once or twice a week and speak on the phone about twice that.
Just be on guard - your heart has a way of overtaking your sensibilities in situations like this.

Wishing you the very best of luck!!

You talked for 3 hours?! I can't even get the voices in my head to talk to me for that long.
Call her back within 24 hours or she might get the wrong message.