Topic: I think some of the women on here...
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Sat 06/21/08 10:09 AM

No offense, but I wouldn't want the challenge of a 37 year old guy with a brand new baby.



yeah if i was you i'd go for someone 2 yrs older.....

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Sat 06/21/08 10:10 AM
Edited by TheShadow on Sat 06/21/08 10:15 AM

u men r easy to figure out and if we was so easy to figure outt hen why do guys have problem doing it then?


It's because alot men don't look at whats right infront of them or even know how to be honest with themselves, this actually goes both ways. people try to hard to make people fit around there life and not let the other be who they are. Actually if people would stop and think to themselves and stop looking at what they can get out of a relationship and learn how to give and that mean some time you have to give more then 50% i bet more relationships would last. But the problem is. Most and the best way to pu this is, We lie to ourselves on what we realy want or looking for.

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Sat 06/21/08 10:11 AM

we are not your puzzles to solve.


It's not a puzzle to salve. it's always been there just some don't see itohwell

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Sat 06/21/08 10:11 AM


u men r easy to figure out and if we was so easy to figure outt hen why do guys have problem doing it then?


It's because alot men don't look at whats right infront of them or even know how to be honest with themselves, this actually goes both ways. people try to hard to mack people fit around there life and not let the other be who they are. Actually if people would stop and think to themselves and stop looking at what they can get out of a relationship and learn how to give and that mean some time you have to give more then 50% i bet more relationships would last. But the problem is. Most and the best way to pu this is, We lie to ourselves on what we realy want or looking for.
drinker flowerforyou drinker flowerforyou

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Sat 06/21/08 10:13 AM


a-holes are sure easy to spot..drinker


i sniff em out.... easier yet......


but highly dangerous work.........lol


less chance of mistaken id that way... so less innocent suffer


laugh

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Sat 06/21/08 10:14 AM


No offense, but I wouldn't want the challenge of a 37 year old guy with a brand new baby.



yeah if i was you i'd go for someone 2 yrs older.....


older than him...or 2 years older than myself?? laugh

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Sat 06/21/08 10:15 AM

Are actually afraid of a challenge. I'm going to give a post i did a few days. Now mind you ladies, i'm not talking about the ones i know:wink: But i love it when a women thinks that a man has no clue on how to figure women out and the thing is. Woman are really not that hard to figure out. It's men that make it hardlaugh laugh laugh It's the truth!ohwell


I think that goes for both genders :wink:

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Sat 06/21/08 10:15 AM
shadow that baby is gorgeous.flowerforyou

TheShadow's photo
Sat 06/21/08 10:18 AM

shadow that baby is gorgeous.flowerforyou


Thank you, but this is not about my son:tongue: laugh JK :wink:

TheShadow's photo
Sat 06/21/08 10:22 AM

No offense, but I wouldn't want the challenge of a 37 year old guy with a brand new baby.


What does my son have to do with life or as a person. Close minded people is whats wrong with this world. they want what they want and thats why they are alone. I don't mean as far as having the other. i'm talking about who they are inside and how they really wont grow and that is one thing that i will never stop doing. Growing and having an open mind to gods world. not ours....

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Sat 06/21/08 10:30 AM
lmao...I am not closed minded...I am saying, for me...that's not a challenge I would want. How many other women would want to deal with the baby's mom and all of that...I mean one thing if the baby was like 3 or 4...not brand new.

However, if you think I'm closed minded and I'm to blame for the world's problems....well...Thanks!! never knew I had that much power.

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Sat 06/21/08 10:38 AM

lmao...I am not closed minded...I am saying, for me...that's not a challenge I would want. How many other women would want to deal with the baby's mom and all of that...I mean one thing if the baby was like 3 or 4...not brand new.

However, if you think I'm closed minded and I'm to blame for the world's problems....well...Thanks!! never knew I had that much power.


Tell me how many women your age that don't have kids? This is a simple post. look beyond the words and see what things really are and then you may undersatnd. I'm not being rude here, just giving my opinion. This is another thing that is a problem being on the net too. People read into thing that are not there. You have kids, you have a pic up that is not how you look today if that was you or your useing it for fun. Why not just be you?

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Sat 06/21/08 10:41 AM
WHAT?? why would you think that's not me? Yes, I have 2 boys, 24 and 27. I know how to take care of myself.

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Sat 06/21/08 10:45 AM


No offense, but I wouldn't want the challenge of a 37 year old guy with a brand new baby.


What does my son have to do with life or as a person. Close minded people is whats wrong with this world. they want what they want and thats why they are alone. I don't mean as far as having the other. i'm talking about who they are inside and how they really wont grow and that is one thing that i will never stop doing. Growing and having an open mind to gods world. not ours....
I would rather be alone than to be with someone who has a brand new baby. That doesn't mean I am closed-minded; or that I am what is wrong with this world. I have my preferences and I am entitled to them. As are you.

aLittleBird's photo
Sat 06/21/08 10:46 AM
flowerforyou hiker!

Amathyst2's photo
Sat 06/21/08 10:46 AM
Have you ever seen the movie "What Women Want." Rent it.

Some men think they have it all figured out. When in reality, it's quite the contrary. Everyone is different. I haven't met anyone that has "it all" figured out. Just plain and simple, it doesn't exist. And those who insist they do, usually have narcissistic character traits. noway

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Sat 06/21/08 10:47 AM



No offense, but I wouldn't want the challenge of a 37 year old guy with a brand new baby.



yeah if i was you i'd go for someone 2 yrs older.....


older than him...or 2 years older than myself?? laugh


without light a shadow cannot exist

TheShadow's photo
Sat 06/21/08 10:47 AM

WHAT?? why would you think that's not me? Yes, I have 2 boys, 24 and 27. I know how to take care of myself.


LMAO that pic is like when you were in your 20s Look, Be honest herelaugh laugh I mean comon, anyone can see thats and old pic.

And to answer you question. how many women would date me, knowing i have my son. Ill post it and show you. It's not about whats in my life, it's about how real i am and honest with myself and the people around me. How i care and will always be there anyway i can for my friends. I'm as real as they come and i have no problem saying it. Ask anyone on here about me and i bet you will here more compilments then alot of men will ever get.


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Sat 06/21/08 10:50 AM
My marriages were challenges! Also, not all women want the same things nor do men, its each individuals preferences as to how the world goes. If we all wanted the same things, wouldnt we all get along better and wouldnt the world be a boring place to live in?

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Sat 06/21/08 10:51 AM



No offense, but I wouldn't want the challenge of a 37 year old guy with a brand new baby.


What does my son have to do with life or as a person. Close minded people is whats wrong with this world. they want what they want and thats why they are alone. I don't mean as far as having the other. i'm talking about who they are inside and how they really wont grow and that is one thing that i will never stop doing. Growing and having an open mind to gods world. not ours....
I would rather be alone than to be with someone who has a brand new baby. That doesn't mean I am closed-minded; or that I am what is wrong with this world. I have my preferences and I am entitled to them. As are you.


Wasn't refering her as close minded, was just saying. At your age, i wouldn't either. But where i'm at. If i know the the other and feel the other is whating a new life and just because ogf a new born. would not stop me for seeing who the person is. everyone has there choice, just i have more of an open mind to things then most.