lol, i guess we're all a bunch of eharmony rejects! i been there and
haven't gotten anywhere! lol, but, here there is alot of incredible
people. and we can chat for free too! i love this site! oh and it's not
like the others that hides ur true self i mean...bleep, bleep, bleep,
bleep! lol cuz it gets kinda hard to read ^$%*)%&(##)(&*#%@%#, shit! lol

I do not think there is such a thing as a perfect match, Mr. Right,
Prince Charming etc. These illusions stem from the fairy tales read to
us as children.
It is hard enough for most of us just to find someone who is just
somewhat compatible. If that were not true, then all these sites,
eHarmony, Yahoosingles, Match.com, and a host of others, plus personal
advertisements in newpapers and other print publiclations would not
exist.
It seems the best we can hope for it to find someone who is reasonably
compatible, has a few of the same goals, and does not want to change the
other person. I have a cousin who has been married to the same fellow
for over fifty years. They are still happy. My brother has been married
for about thirty. It can happen.
This site has the best forum for one to be able to express oneself,
but in that forum you will find some who amuse, some who offend, some
who abuse, some who send you things you do not want, like junk mail.
You have the right to ignore, just like tossing junk mail in the
trash.
Sleepless in Seattle may happen in real life, once, maybe twice, not a
million times. Love stories, for the most part are just that, stories.
They take our mind off the ??????? that is our everyday life.
People seem to be looking for someone to transport them out of the
mundane into the fantasy, but fantasies cannot last forever. Eventually
the fairy dust wears off, and boom you're on the ground again.
In the original Yours, Mine, and Ours, Henry Fonda said, "Love is not
going to bed with a man, but getting up with him each morning to face
the routine day," or something close to that.
And magic? "Any sufficiently developed technology is indistinguishable
from magic." Don't pay any attention to the man behind the curtain
little girl.
In the book The Road Less Traveled, Scott Peck defines Love as work.
Love is not feelings, they will fade; not butterflies, they will
migrate; not bells, whistles, and fireworks, they will all fall silent.
Love is cutting the tree, splitting the wood, stacking it by the
fireplace, and lighting the fire. So many say they enjoy a warming fire
on a cool winter's eve, none say the enjoy cutting and stacking wood. No
one says they are looking for work, but work is what Love is about.

genius WILL

There is a soulmate out there for everyone. I was lucky enough to find
and marry mine. We were never ever allowed to be partners playing any
card game because eveyone thought we were cheating. It was just that
strong enough of a bond. I was married for fifteen years, and was
blessed in all of them.

To me its a little far fetched the whole soul mate thing, to me i belive
in what ever to happen , happen. It just becomes to much on someone for
them to place themselves out there searching for something that you
create. It is true when they say love is blind because no matter how
many times in your life you may think that " that was your one and only"
it may not be so for as the fact you think this person is truly your
soulmate you make other things of what the other person is like
inconclusive. The future of our lives and our past is to forbidin to go
back on hence the word future and past. I'm not here to search for
someone to love for they should love you for you and not the things you
posess. So to me i like to leave it at whatever happens , happens no
point in putting yourself out there to find your true one you'll only be
letting yourself down.

" SEARCH FOR THE ELUSIVE SOULMATE "

Is that anything like hunting Osama? LOL

i think it's more like when you're drunk and you have to take a leak and
you can't get your dick out of your pants. it's in plain site but you
can't get a handle on the sucker.

Shit! That's happen to you too.

How about after you finish and forget to put it back in then zip up your
pants. OOOOOuch!!!!!

you are in hard shape when u get that drunk....
has for the soulmate i agree with will. there one out there for
eberyone, but the harder you look the less you'll find. stop lookin' and
have some find while u wait for it.

well said..WILL

bump

Do you belive in the Flying Spaghetti Monster too?

HE OWES ME FIVE BUCKS will

Good luck!

My soul mate became clinically depressed-They have never gotten his meds
right. I tried to stay with him but he would not let me.
We still talk occasionally when he decides to call. It was 1o years Sept
19th and I still hope he will call me one day and say he wants us to be
together. I have waited for him and feel its to the point it is
unheathly for me and I cant go on while he lives in his "compartmetn" he
calls life. I have not had the ability or the will to let go of my
belief we would be together...
Until this week- I have made a friend who is so unbelievable and I cant
imagine my life without his smile. Maybe there can be two soul mates for
everyone.
Cross your fingers for me- They say you'll know by the kiss. Well the
kiss was great!

Just one single person for the rest of your life....sure it can happen
for some people but the reality is its not fopr most people.I think,
like otheres here, that we are to have more than one soul mate in our
lives, and they come not just in the romantic form but in other forms as
well.I am not looking for Mr Right, Mr Right Now I am simply looking
for something that is lacking in my personal life, love. Not just the
bells and whistles kind either because it is in my experience thats not
love its lust, not that there is anything wrong with lust but for me I
need love and lust and just have not been fortunate enough to have found
both at the same time. I don't want to spend the rest of my time on this
earth alone, I want companionship other than my family and cats. Some
one i can converse with , sit in silence with, laugh with, cry
with...just a basic human need.Whether it happens or not remains to be
seen.