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Topic: Hypothetical Question
68chevy's photo
Wed 06/18/08 04:14 PM
If you could go back into a former relationship and all the issues that caused the breakup, in my case someone who (lied, stole, then topped it off by cheating on me with another man).
For your relationship fill in the blanks.
If these issues could somehow be magically fixed never to be an issue again would you consider going back with that person? Could you ever overlook the past forgive and forget, and act like nothing ever happened?

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE's photo
Wed 06/18/08 04:15 PM
no

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Wed 06/18/08 04:16 PM
i believe where i went wrong was the way i made pancakes



maybe if i used the spatula for the pancakes instead of my husband we would still be together


laugh laugh laugh laugh

Etrain's photo
Wed 06/18/08 04:16 PM
nope...enjoying the trip forward to muchdrinker

wraithme66's photo
Wed 06/18/08 04:16 PM
nope... I value the lessons I learn from the past experiences... Thusly helping me better refine what exactly what I want.

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Wed 06/18/08 04:16 PM
for sure!!! but only god can change a person like that! and like the bible says, you shall know him by his actions or fruits.

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Wed 06/18/08 04:17 PM
i also threw bananas at my husband



heartofgold321's photo
Wed 06/18/08 04:18 PM
no, I would keep life like it is.drinker

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Wed 06/18/08 04:18 PM
i told him thats what God wanted bigsmile

Snoman1951's photo
Wed 06/18/08 04:22 PM
never again...2nd chance meant I got burnt twice by same woman bigsmile

LouLou2's photo
Wed 06/18/08 04:27 PM
Nope...It took nearly a year to realize how unhappy I was even before all the lies, betrayal & coldness sad...he didn't offer much even before all of that grumble ! I am happier & healthier happy alone than I've been in 26 years! Learned a lot of valuable lessons, though...the man I fall in love :heart: with in the future will be the one to reap the benefits of those lessons :heart: :wink: :heart: ...

Pirategirl89's photo
Wed 06/18/08 04:32 PM
Never... Just because those issues would have been solved doen't mean there wont ever be issues that would arise causing even more problems. There is no point in thinking about the past, its a waste of the present and makes no room for the future.

texastigress's photo
Sat 06/21/08 02:18 AM
No for me too.

Jtevans's photo
Sat 06/21/08 02:23 AM
oh yeah....she did look pretty good naked smokin

Nursenell76's photo
Sat 06/21/08 02:23 AM
I'm not even sure what happened with my last one, but if theings could have went smoothly I probably wouldn't have done it over again. I have enjoyed dating, and I think I may have met someone I am compatible with. happy

livelife68's photo
Sat 06/21/08 02:31 AM
chances are no. I could forgive but to take a chance on having the same problems arise agains just doesn't make sense to me. No sense living in the past. I would rather live in the present and look forward to the future.

brooke007's photo
Sat 06/21/08 02:33 AM
Edited by brooke007 on Sat 06/21/08 02:38 AM
i just intend to move forward and not backwards..
i walk much easier when im moving forward

OrangeCat's photo
Sat 06/21/08 02:39 AM
hell no

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Sat 06/21/08 03:56 AM
Yes, but the relationship would never be the same again. It would take work but it could be better and stronger, though. Depends on the level of commitment of both and how much they are willing to invest in the relationship.

trace78's photo
Sat 06/21/08 04:16 AM
No, the guy i was with was just psycho, though he talked down from me, borrowed money (and never returned it), and never hung out with me, i dont think even if he changed those ways I could go back. I think he just would have found some more things to do to upset me.

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