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Topic: Infected Girls do it better?
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Tue 06/17/08 10:46 PM
If its bad, either teach them how to cook or dont go back for seconds.

JTstrang's photo
Tue 06/17/08 10:48 PM


So most likely then I wasn't lied to and being patronized?


JT that's why we've been telling you to work on your self-esteem.. You ALWAYS think the worst and negative....


I am sorry I just have had a lot of bad experiences, and am tired of being dissapointed and lied to and told I suck

robert1652's photo
Tue 06/17/08 10:50 PM


What does the "infected" have to do with telling a guy he sucks or is good in bed???huh huh


Well I sure hope she SUCKS and don't mean baddevil devil
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Tue 06/17/08 10:51 PM



So most likely then I wasn't lied to and being patronized?


JT that's why we've been telling you to work on your self-esteem.. You ALWAYS think the worst and negative....


I am sorry I just have had a lot of bad experiences, and am tired of being dissapointed and lied to and told I suck



hey JT these past bad experiences/women were probably not worth a crud anyway. if any one of them cared about you they would not have been so harsh and actually acted like a grown up woman and said "yo this is what i like/don't like, etc." u need quality not quantity.

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Tue 06/17/08 10:52 PM



So most likely then I wasn't lied to and being patronized?


JT that's why we've been telling you to work on your self-esteem.. You ALWAYS think the worst and negative....


I am sorry I just have had a lot of bad experiences, and am tired of being dissapointed and lied to and told I suck


Well I can't verify that but as you've seen most wouldn't say that even if it were true.. Confidence is found attractive by women.. Sometimes you just have to say "maybe she wasn't for me, doesn't mean anything is wrong with me"...

JTstrang's photo
Tue 06/17/08 10:54 PM




So most likely then I wasn't lied to and being patronized?


JT that's why we've been telling you to work on your self-esteem.. You ALWAYS think the worst and negative....


I am sorry I just have had a lot of bad experiences, and am tired of being dissapointed and lied to and told I suck


Well I can't verify that but as you've seen most wouldn't say that even if it were true.. Confidence is found attractive by women.. Sometimes you just have to say "maybe she wasn't for me, doesn't mean anything is wrong with me"...


I probably should say that, but there are a lot of things that i should do that i don't. Give me time to heal, maybe I will be ok someday. It just isn't happening right now


robert1652's photo
Tue 06/17/08 10:54 PM




So most likely then I wasn't lied to and being patronized?


JT that's why we've been telling you to work on your self-esteem.. You ALWAYS think the worst and negative....


I am sorry I just have had a lot of bad experiences, and am tired of being dissapointed and lied to and told I suck



hey JT these past bad experiences/women were probably not worth a crud anyway. if any one of them cared about you they would not have been so harsh and actually acted like a grown up woman and said "yo this is what i like/don't like, etc." u need quality not quantity.


I can assure you my friend we all have so many bad experiences I for one joke about them and don't dwell on it . Your life will pass you by while you are dwelling then you really have nothing . At least time is on your side right now.Make use of it.Get a Grip JT

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Tue 06/17/08 10:54 PM




So most likely then I wasn't lied to and being patronized?


JT that's why we've been telling you to work on your self-esteem.. You ALWAYS think the worst and negative....


I am sorry I just have had a lot of bad experiences, and am tired of being dissapointed and lied to and told I suck



hey JT these past bad experiences/women were probably not worth a crud anyway. if any one of them cared about you they would not have been so harsh and actually acted like a grown up woman and said "yo this is what i like/don't like, etc." u need quality not quantity.
drinker

No1sLove's photo
Tue 06/17/08 10:55 PM
I've had sleepy sex, but never bad sex.

But thanks for making me worry about it now that I'm dating again. Geesh!

JTstrang's photo
Tue 06/17/08 10:58 PM




So most likely then I wasn't lied to and being patronized?


JT that's why we've been telling you to work on your self-esteem.. You ALWAYS think the worst and negative....


I am sorry I just have had a lot of bad experiences, and am tired of being dissapointed and lied to and told I suck



hey JT these past bad experiences/women were probably not worth a crud anyway. if any one of them cared about you they would not have been so harsh and actually acted like a grown up woman and said "yo this is what i like/don't like, etc." u need quality not quantity.


I never got complaints from the sex, it was just the fact that I got cheated on that made me question my manhood. When my wife cheated on me, it was when she was saying we needed and "open" relationship and wanted me to be violent in bed, I tried but I am always afraid of hurting people cause I hurt people when I don't try. I still got her off more than I got to. but what does that say about me that I wasn't able to keep her interested where she pursued another man. It made me question if she was lying to me about the times she said it was good and the few women after that said that. I am a bit insaine I know, but these worries seem legit to me.

IndnPrncs's photo
Tue 06/17/08 11:00 PM





So most likely then I wasn't lied to and being patronized?


JT that's why we've been telling you to work on your self-esteem.. You ALWAYS think the worst and negative....


I am sorry I just have had a lot of bad experiences, and am tired of being dissapointed and lied to and told I suck



hey JT these past bad experiences/women were probably not worth a crud anyway. if any one of them cared about you they would not have been so harsh and actually acted like a grown up woman and said "yo this is what i like/don't like, etc." u need quality not quantity.


I never got complaints from the sex, it was just the fact that I got cheated on that made me question my manhood. When my wife cheated on me, it was when she was saying we needed and "open" relationship and wanted me to be violent in bed, I tried but I am always afraid of hurting people cause I hurt people when I don't try. I still got her off more than I got to. but what does that say about me that I wasn't able to keep her interested where she pursued another man. It made me question if she was lying to me about the times she said it was good and the few women after that said that. I am a bit insaine I know, but these worries seem legit to me.


did you EVER stop to think the issue was HER not you???? Just sayin'... huh

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Tue 06/17/08 11:15 PM
I would say the cheating was from another reason not the sex thing...from experience. Women use sex, and want sex just like men. This does not make eother right or wrong. Just dont take it personal unless YOU KNOW YOU you were deficient in the relationship. Analize the cause not the symptoms and grow from them.

soundedmind's photo
Tue 06/17/08 11:17 PM

SO I have a question for the ladies.
Do you lie to a dude about how the sex went?
Like do you tell all the guys it was the best you have had in a while or the best ever type stuff?

Just wondering


Hell no.

transientmind's photo
Tue 06/17/08 11:17 PM






So most likely then I wasn't lied to and being patronized?


JT that's why we've been telling you to work on your self-esteem.. You ALWAYS think the worst and negative....


I am sorry I just have had a lot of bad experiences, and am tired of being dissapointed and lied to and told I suck



hey JT these past bad experiences/women were probably not worth a crud anyway. if any one of them cared about you they would not have been so harsh and actually acted like a grown up woman and said "yo this is what i like/don't like, etc." u need quality not quantity.


I never got complaints from the sex, it was just the fact that I got cheated on that made me question my manhood. When my wife cheated on me, it was when she was saying we needed and "open" relationship and wanted me to be violent in bed, I tried but I am always afraid of hurting people cause I hurt people when I don't try. I still got her off more than I got to. but what does that say about me that I wasn't able to keep her interested where she pursued another man. It made me question if she was lying to me about the times she said it was good and the few women after that said that. I am a bit insaine I know, but these worries seem legit to me.


did you EVER stop to think the issue was HER not you???? Just sayin'... huh
Sounds like.

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Tue 06/17/08 11:19 PM
Edited by No1sLove on Tue 06/17/08 11:26 PM
JT, that's just about compatibility. Some guy might be the an expert with a whip, but he's not gonna touch ME with it! It doesn't make me a bad lover just cause I don't like hospitals after sex. noway :heart: flowerforyou

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Wed 06/18/08 12:13 AM
Look, sex is like having someone cook you dinner for the first time...if it sucks, you say so RIGHT THEN...otherwise you're stuck eating tofa and creamed sardine caserole for the rest of your life...

DestinysDream's photo
Wed 06/18/08 12:14 AM
LOL! If you need to ask well..... laugh

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 06/18/08 12:15 AM



So most likely then I wasn't lied to and being patronized?


JT that's why we've been telling you to work on your self-esteem.. You ALWAYS think the worst and negative....


I am sorry I just have had a lot of bad experiences, and am tired of being dissapointed and lied to and told I suck


Be like me and just be happy all the time!happy

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