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Topic: I have a question
lonelyshorty's photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:06 PM
I am just looking to see what people think


I met this guy online and he is really sweet. He is romantic and we have good chemistry. He says that I turn him on but says he respects me so hes not trying to get into my pants. The only problem is that hes 45 and I'm almost 21. I am worried that the age gap would be a problem.



Should I go out with him?

alisha07's photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:08 PM
i will tell you if you think there is a connection yes. but make it a public place. or a double date or something. its worth the chance i think. i personally dont date guys more than eight yrs at the most older than me. but to each its own.

andrewzooms's photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:08 PM
Yes because all white men dream of asian girls. Are you sure you are 45?

Sluggo's photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:08 PM
Go easy on him laugh laugh laugh

lonelyshorty's photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:09 PM
I'm not 45 hes 45, I'm almost 21

dbad111's photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:09 PM
thats really not a decision for us to make its all up to you

hows it feel when i ask and u tell me the same thing


age shouldnt really be a big factor if u like him go for it

we wont hate you... or atleast i wont

andrewzooms's photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:09 PM
oh lol. Then no dont date him

rush2001's photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:09 PM
Yes, age isin't always a problem but be safe.

Sluggo's photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:10 PM
FYI, forget the "Double" Date idea....
I'd even run the other way if you weren't mature enough to deal with the situation on your own.....

mexicanbeauty's photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:11 PM
yes , but be careful , i remember you to go aout with him but to a place with there be a lot of people , and dont get in his car , try to know him more and never trust him , you never know

lonelyshorty's photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:11 PM
Hey now I was just wondering what people thought

YourLove1's photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:11 PM

I am just looking to see what people think


I met this guy online and he is really sweet. He is romantic and we have good chemistry. He says that I turn him on but says he respects me so hes not trying to get into my pants. The only problem is that hes 45 and I'm almost 21. I am worried that the age gap would be a problem.



Should I go out with him?
only if he has a lovely bunch of coconuts to offer you bigsmile

Alterego1961's photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:12 PM
Age isn't a problem for everyone, but you need to be careful. I'm 46 and I feel like a perv when I look at girls younger than 35 or so. noway grumble flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

no photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:13 PM
nothing ventured nothing gained?

itsmetina's photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:13 PM
if he has kids and you end up having a relationship with him i think you should really think about it because being a step parent can be tough

writer_gurl's photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:13 PM
If you feel comfortable and don't get any bad vibes,then give it a go....bigsmile

lonelyshorty's photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:14 PM
Yeah that would be tough being a step parent, and no he doesnt have kids

darkowl1's photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:14 PM
well, there's a lot of men who would have patience to be with a twenty, almost twenty-one year old, so keep your guard up, but investigate further, if you want to pursue his proposition, it might be a good thing, who am i to say it's not, but be careful.
i like older women, but i'm too old, and i'm not looking. good luck.

Sluggo's photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:15 PM
Oh yeah, this should go for ALL women:

If you do NOT feel safe going out with someone,
THEN DO NOT GO OUT WITH THEM!!!!!


Forget the age, if you feel something telling you not to trust them, then RUN!!!!!

livelife68's photo
Mon 06/16/08 10:15 PM
If you decide to go out with him be careful. flowerforyou

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