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I am just looking to see what people think
I met this guy online and he is really sweet. He is romantic and we have good chemistry. He says that I turn him on but says he respects me so hes not trying to get into my pants. The only problem is that hes 45 and I'm almost 21. I am worried that the age gap would be a problem. Should I go out with him? |
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i will tell you if you think there is a connection yes. but make it a public place. or a double date or something. its worth the chance i think. i personally dont date guys more than eight yrs at the most older than me. but to each its own.
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Yes because all white men dream of asian girls. Are you sure you are 45?
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Go easy on him
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I'm not 45 hes 45, I'm almost 21
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thats really not a decision for us to make its all up to you
hows it feel when i ask and u tell me the same thing age shouldnt really be a big factor if u like him go for it we wont hate you... or atleast i wont |
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oh lol. Then no dont date him
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Yes, age isin't always a problem but be safe.
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FYI, forget the "Double" Date idea....
I'd even run the other way if you weren't mature enough to deal with the situation on your own..... |
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yes , but be careful , i remember you to go aout with him but to a place with there be a lot of people , and dont get in his car , try to know him more and never trust him , you never know
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Hey now I was just wondering what people thought
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I am just looking to see what people think I met this guy online and he is really sweet. He is romantic and we have good chemistry. He says that I turn him on but says he respects me so hes not trying to get into my pants. The only problem is that hes 45 and I'm almost 21. I am worried that the age gap would be a problem. Should I go out with him? |
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Age isn't a problem for everyone, but you need to be careful. I'm 46 and I feel like a perv when I look at girls younger than 35 or so.
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nothing ventured nothing gained?
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if he has kids and you end up having a relationship with him i think you should really think about it because being a step parent can be tough
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If you feel comfortable and don't get any bad vibes,then give it a go....
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Yeah that would be tough being a step parent, and no he doesnt have kids
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well, there's a lot of men who would have patience to be with a twenty, almost twenty-one year old, so keep your guard up, but investigate further, if you want to pursue his proposition, it might be a good thing, who am i to say it's not, but be careful.
i like older women, but i'm too old, and i'm not looking. good luck. |
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Oh yeah, this should go for ALL women:
If you do NOT feel safe going out with someone, THEN DO NOT GO OUT WITH THEM!!!!! Forget the age, if you feel something telling you not to trust them, then RUN!!!!! |
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If you decide to go out with him be careful.
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