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I've just been perved!!  |
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If we aren't happy with ourself....whats the point we could never be happy with anyone else. Can't base our happiness on another person...that just will never work. I know people like this and they are some of the most unhappy people I have ever dealt with. best comment yet, kudos  I love the life I live. Thanks.....I know of what you are speaking.... 
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I totally agree with you. My life hasn't been the best but I take a new look at it every morning I get up. I still have my children, my sister and friends. I have enough. I love my life the way it is and just want to have some fun now. Isn't that what lifes about begining happy with who you are and happy with the life you have. If your not happy how can yoou be happy with the people around you.
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Aw who knows Shadow.
There are those that are here for the hookups and sexual attention and there are those that are here for the fun and friends. I am pretty happy with my life, yeah I could use some editing on the job front lately, but overall, yes I am happy. Not to say that there aren't some things missing in my life, but I am content. Yeah, I'd like to lose 20 lbs and cut back/quit smoking and I'm working on both of those things. But I am not changing my physical self for another...love me as I am because I do! Nice picture! How's he doing?? |
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Edited by
DestinysDream
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Mon 06/16/08 06:29 PM
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Zero debt.
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Zero debt. Now THAT'S happiness!!! Besides, when you look like that, how could you NOT be happy with yourself?? 
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I would not post in the Rate Me forum because I honestly don't care what people think of me. My friends like me, I like me, and that is all that matters. I could not care less what strangers think of me.
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Don't you wonder sometimes if we aren't all on the same journey...the same path with some of us further ahead and others lagging behind? Some of us may encounter different obstacles or storms a long our way - that may explain our differing needs. Why use the same measuring stick for all? Wouldn't it be better to be grateful that you are content just being you, while showing concern for those who are still on their way to that point? Others have posted recently about self-esteem...a very fragile quality. The need for another to complete us is may be related to each person's own self-esteem. Glad to know yours is healthy & intact...still working on mine, but its getting better ... To me thats what life is about, working one step at a time. Some times we fall back, but it don't mean sta there. There is always a option, it's just taking that foot work and i do have a few friends that will give me a kick in my ass if need be
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I'm 26, on the verge of being homeless, no money, no phone, can't get a job, hunt for cans for money to get some ramen noodles I can't cook, and have nothing else to do aside from sit in the school and do homework and sit on the internet. I am going to school to hopefully get out of part of this. Most of the time though I wish I would stop feeling so that I wouldn't have to deal with this while going through a divorce. Yeah I am in a bad place, it's only been 6 months since she left. and I gave all I had to her, just to be thrown away told to kill myself and replaced. Maybe I'll get over it. I don't think I will. Only you can make that choice if your going to get over it or not. I was married and with her for 6 years. I gave what i know at that time and at that time, there wasen't much that i was growing from. because i wasn't letting myself learn. It took me a while to get over it and move on. What worked for me was, trying toi learn how to be a friend to her. untill i could do that. I wasn't going to let go. Not everyone can do that. I'm not saying as hanging out with her as a friend. I'm saying let her be who she is and deal with my own life... |
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Good, thoughtful topic, Shadow.
Yep. Happy here. And, it's got nothing to do with social status, romantic relationship, ease of life, etc. I'm happy because I am at peace with how I treat myself and how I treat others. I'm happy that I -finally - got out of my own way enough to be able to be ok with who I am, thereby having available the emotional and physical resources to try to be helpful in my relationships with family/friends, more attentive to the needs of kids at school and more aware of the needs of those around me. I've got a long way to go, but I'm ok with that, too.
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Aw who knows Shadow. There are those that are here for the hookups and sexual attention and there are those that are here for the fun and friends. I am pretty happy with my life, yeah I could use some editing on the job front lately, but overall, yes I am happy. Not to say that there aren't some things missing in my life, but I am content. Yeah, I'd like to lose 20 lbs and cut back/quit smoking and I'm working on both of those things. But I am not changing my physical self for another...love me as I am because I do! Nice picture! How's he doing?? yeah there are some things id like to change about me, but over all i'm happy with me. if i want to change it, then i have to do the work. Simple as that. One thing i forgot to menttion, i may feel this why now, but who knows what tomorrow will bring. I could be in a slump, but while it's today, i plan on enjoying it Oh yeay  William is doing good and i get to start having him over the night. So hear we go
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Good, thoughtful topic, Shadow. Yep. Happy here. And, it's got nothing to do with social status, romantic relationship, ease of life, etc. I'm happy because I am at peace with how I treat myself and how I treat others. I'm happy that I -finally - got out of my own way enough to be able to be ok with who I am, thereby having available the emotional and physical resources to try to be helpful in my relationships with family/friends, more attentive to the needs of kids at school and more aware of the needs of those around me. I've got a long way to go, but I'm ok with that, too.
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