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Topic: how many times.....
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Sun 06/15/08 06:54 AM
i will need to vent ... sorry guys...How many times should u forgive someone for not treating you right???? I've been into this relationship for so long, and i know i am not getting what i deserve and yet i am still here.... i run away for a while and i keep on coming back, hoping that this time, it would be different and it isn't....

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Sun 06/15/08 06:56 AM
people treat you they way you allow them

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Sun 06/15/08 06:56 AM
Once and once only flowerforyou

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Sun 06/15/08 06:56 AM
Tie a Pork Chop around your neck and he will run back to you.:smile:

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Sun 06/15/08 06:57 AM
I guess as long as you don't mind it. I go by "cost/benefit" in almost every part of my life...it seems to work well for me...if the cost outweighs the benefit...get rid of it. flowerforyou

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Sun 06/15/08 06:57 AM
People will only treat you as bad as you allow them to... so start venting at yourself for allowing it!!!!

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Sun 06/15/08 06:57 AM

people treat you they way you allow them


Very very true...thats why I say once, and then no more

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Sun 06/15/08 06:58 AM
when you get really tired of it,,,you will stop going back,ever thought about looking for something new????

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Sun 06/15/08 06:58 AM
Sweetheart,theres no use keep going back...life is to short to be doing this so much.usally its a trust thing...and without trust it aint worth it,,,,good luck and hope you the best...theres someone- somewhere for you..flowerforyou

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Sun 06/15/08 06:59 AM
this is a good one ! thanks


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Sun 06/15/08 07:00 AM

i will need to vent ... sorry guys...How many times should u forgive someone for not treating you right???? I've been into this relationship for so long, and i know i am not getting what i deserve and yet i am still here.... i run away for a while and i keep on coming back, hoping that this time, it would be different and it isn't....

Keep running next time. It's not worth the aggrivation if you need to vent.

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Sun 06/15/08 07:01 AM
i did look for something new... i dont know why i keep on hoping and going back

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Sun 06/15/08 07:01 AM
thanks Mike !! you are sweet...

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Sun 06/15/08 07:03 AM

i did look for something new... i dont know why i keep on hoping and going back


Habit...and like most habits it needs breaking...just like smoking or heavy drinking...neither is good for youflowerforyou

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Sun 06/15/08 07:06 AM

i will need to vent ... sorry guys...How many times should u forgive someone for not treating you right???? I've been into this relationship for so long, and i know i am not getting what i deserve and yet i am still here.... i run away for a while and i keep on coming back, hoping that this time, it would be different and it isn't....


FORGIVING is one thing. Allowing it to continue, NOOOOOOOOOOO!!! noway noway noway

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Sun 06/15/08 07:09 AM

i will need to vent ... sorry guys...How many times should u forgive someone for not treating you right???? I've been into this relationship for so long, and i know i am not getting what i deserve and yet i am still here.... i run away for a while and i keep on coming back, hoping that this time, it would be different and it isn't....
:heart: Many people don't really want to SEE their true meaning to the other. So they procrastinate hoping the other will change.
But THEY CAN'T, nor WILL THEY EVER "BE" who you want them to be...
Realize THAT and let go, move on before you rap up six of YOUR years trying to find their truth and YOURS..Because I have lived THIS...:cry: :heart: :wink:
It hurts, but it HURTS more to keep going through the same pain.....wink.flowerforyou Good Luck!!!!!!!:heart:

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Sun 06/15/08 07:12 AM

i will need to vent ... sorry guys...How many times should u forgive someone for not treating you right???? I've been into this relationship for so long, and i know i am not getting what i deserve and yet i am still here.... i run away for a while and i keep on coming back, hoping that this time, it would be different and it isn't....


I think you answered you own question....If you have to ask this in the first place...you already know the answer...maybe you just can't face it.....Hope you find the happiness you seek flowerforyou

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Sun 06/15/08 07:13 AM
There is an old saying:

Fool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, shame on me.


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Sun 06/15/08 07:14 AM

i will need to vent ... sorry guys...How many times should u forgive someone for not treating you right???? I've been into this relationship for so long, and i know i am not getting what i deserve and yet i am still here.... i run away for a while and i keep on coming back, hoping that this time, it would be different and it isn't....


You cannot change another person. He has to see how his actions affect you and then make a decision to change himself. If he doesn't you then have to decide if you want to continue a life like that.....you can only change you and your reactions.

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Sun 06/15/08 07:18 AM
someone else is just out there waiting to treat you better........go find them.....happy hunting!smokin

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