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Topic: how many times.....
unique1111's photo
Sun 06/15/08 07:21 AM
You must have an ending before there can be a beginning.

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 06/15/08 07:23 AM
Why do you think it will be different?

hikerchick's photo
Sun 06/15/08 07:24 AM
Insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results.

Silntstrnger's photo
Sun 06/15/08 07:39 AM
when u get tired of being treated that way and realize that there is someone out there that can treat u the way u deserve than u will stop running back.

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Sun 06/15/08 07:44 AM

You must have an ending before there can be a beginning.


flowerforyou

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Sun 06/15/08 07:47 AM

i will need to vent ... sorry guys...How many times should u forgive someone for not treating you right???? I've been into this relationship for so long, and i know i am not getting what i deserve and yet i am still here.... i run away for a while and i keep on coming back, hoping that this time, it would be different and it isn't....


"How many times do you forgive a person for not treating you right?"

Once...and then walk away.

Why should it be different? He's getting what he wants.

Listen to your heart...do what you need to do for you.

"I'm not getting what I deserve"...you said it yourself. Why wouldn't you allow yourself to get what you deserve? Think about that...and good luck to you. flowerforyou

auburngirl's photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:08 AM
Yes I was going to say that. People treat us the way we teach them to....by allowing it. You are worth more. Seek what you Need, don't settle for what you have. flowerforyou

No1sLove's photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:12 AM

Insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results.
flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou
When you're in a thread I need not respond...you always say my own thoughts so perfectly. (((Hiker))) flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou

auburngirl's photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:37 AM

There is an old saying:

Fool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, shame on me.



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Yep! And "Measure twice, cut once" laugh

Citizen_Joe's photo
Sun 06/15/08 03:08 PM

i will need to vent ... sorry guys...How many times should u forgive someone for not treating you right???? I've been into this relationship for so long, and i know i am not getting what i deserve and yet i am still here.... i run away for a while and i keep on coming back, hoping that this time, it would be different and it isn't....


Forgive, for what? Are we talking him getting his dipstick wet in someone else's motor oil or flirting?

hikerchick's photo
Sun 06/15/08 04:04 PM


Insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results.
flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou
When you're in a thread I need not respond...you always say my own thoughts so perfectly. (((Hiker))) flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou
ah. but I so love seeing you...

rush2001's photo
Sun 06/15/08 04:09 PM

i will need to vent ... sorry guys...How many times should u forgive someone for not treating you right???? I've been into this relationship for so long, and i know i am not getting what i deserve and yet i am still here.... i run away for a while and i keep on coming back, hoping that this time, it would be different and it isn't....


Never forgive, never forget. At least after the first few times. Fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me.

seahawks's photo
Sun 06/15/08 04:10 PM

i will need to vent ... sorry guys...How many times should u forgive someone for not treating you right???? I've been into this relationship for so long, and i know i am not getting what i deserve and yet i am still here.... i run away for a while and i keep on coming back, hoping that this time, it would be different and it isn't....
sounds like yur enablin this person, they treat you bad and yet comin back seems to say its ok to treat you this way , to the curb with him.!! jmo.!!flowerforyou

buttons's photo
Sun 06/15/08 04:10 PM
do u treat well seahawks?

seahawks's photo
Sun 06/15/08 04:12 PM

do u treat well seahawks?
i treat as to how i would wanna be treated, respect , honosty, fairness.!!drinker

Lily0923's photo
Sun 06/15/08 04:13 PM

i will need to vent ... sorry guys...How many times should u forgive someone for not treating you right???? I've been into this relationship for so long, and i know i am not getting what i deserve and yet i am still here.... i run away for a while and i keep on coming back, hoping that this time, it would be different and it isn't....


They only treat you the way you let them treat you...

buttons's photo
Sun 06/15/08 04:13 PM


do u treat well seahawks?
i treat as to how i would wanna be treated, respect , honosty, fairness.!!drinker
good answersmooched

willing2's photo
Sun 06/15/08 04:53 PM

i did look for something new... i dont know why i keep on hoping and going back

I did that many times.
Look for a replacement to get me through a tough breakup. It felt like swing from vine to vine.
None of the rebounds worked out and I finally had to get alone and learn how to be my own best friend. Then, I found my self-worth and dignity.

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Sun 06/15/08 05:17 PM
Sometimes the truth hurts. But, I'm going to say it, because maybe you need to hear/read it. I was a "queen" at "going back."
Take a look at yourself... a good look, maybe you don't honestly believe you deserve better... so therefore, you go back. People like familiarity. The abused child... typically marries an abusive person. It's familiar. It's the norm to them. THey don't believe they do deserve better.... BUT YOU DO..... Unless you truely believe he is the one for you....,well you wouldn't have left in the first place... one of my favorite sayings is, "whether you think you can, or think you can't, your probably right.... you are what you believe you are..... take a good long look honey..... Don't be afraid of change... change, in itself, is an unfamiliar place... be brave.... you CAN do it.

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