Topic: a question for the girls
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Thu 06/12/08 08:38 PM
do you find that even on an online dating site you wait for the guy (or girl in some cases) to message/im you, or do you make the first move since theres nothing to be embarrassed about?

in my case i still wait for the guy to message me, but im thinkin maybe i should stop and be less shy...i mean it is just online...right?
blushing

Etrain's photo
Thu 06/12/08 08:40 PM
:tongue: :tongue: :tongue:

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Thu 06/12/08 08:40 PM
Im just here to make a nuisance out of myself..so I dont care...indifferent

crazysillygirl's photo
Thu 06/12/08 08:40 PM
just put yourself out there hun and see what happens....you wont know unless you ask or speak up!!!

Jill298's photo
Thu 06/12/08 08:41 PM
I sent the first message... now I gotta man :tongue:

FaithfulOne78's photo
Thu 06/12/08 08:42 PM
I send first messages..why not! I do the same thing in public..i'll be the first to say something to a guy i find intriguingdevil

ljcc1964's photo
Thu 06/12/08 08:42 PM
Head On....apply directly to the forehead...
Head On....apply directly to the forehead...
Head On....apply directly to the forehead...

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Thu 06/12/08 08:43 PM
I thought about how many contact me and how many I've contacted and its.....................

50/50

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Thu 06/12/08 08:44 PM
go with your gut

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Thu 06/12/08 08:45 PM

do you find that even on an online dating site you wait for the guy (or girl in some cases) to message/im you, or do you make the first move since theres nothing to be embarrassed about?

in my case i still wait for the guy to message me, but im thinkin maybe i should stop and be less shy...i mean it is just online...right?
blushing


You know most women do wait and to me i think more women should have more of an open mind on meeting men. So i applauddrinker

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Thu 06/12/08 08:52 PM
I say Go 4 it!what if this person turns out 2 be really special?Nothing ventured-Nothing gained.It's no big deal if it doesn't work out and perhaps U may even have gained a friend in the end.Go 4 It!hun.Godspeed!Cy.:smile: flowerforyou drinker

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Thu 06/12/08 09:00 PM
I don't know how the women do it. I am usually too afraid to message first, but I have been trying to. I am just too afraid that I wont measure up. Plus I am a bit insaine still from life and from when the wife left and don't know if I should try to start something new.

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Thu 06/12/08 09:01 PM

Im just here to make a nuisance out of myself..so I dont care...indifferent


me too. Plus, I am not a girl. I am a grown woman.

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Thu 06/12/08 09:03 PM
I wait...to see if they remember me or not or if I am their chat buddy when they are bored...

DQ66's photo
Thu 06/12/08 09:04 PM
I'm soooo much braver on line than in real life laugh laugh
Send a msg, what's the worst that could happen?:wink: