Yippee for gal pals.

I have several ladies as friends. Its no big deal. Ive seen some guys with guy friends too. Its all good.

ive had 2 gals try to pick up on me here...... its been a long time they were never on my friends list.... and i emailed back saying i dont go that way... never heard from them again lol... now many a men ive told that too and they still will continue to try.. so i can say any female on my friends list have never tried to pick up on me

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this is for the ladies only thingy--


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I have a few friends who are men
I am not frighted having men friends as I have all my life had male friends. here is no different.
As long as the exchanges are normal it is not a problem
One lady said if you have male friends that means you are gay and my answer was would you like to find out first hand if you are right or wrong?

Long and short of it really friends are friends male or female
You need also male friends like women because if you are being picked on you need people of your own gender to stand up for you.

I can also say there are some gay guys here I have no problem with that but I don't associate with them so they don't end up in friends section. I also speak to people long time before we strike a friendship. You need common grounds
oh sorry ladies only oopps

I think it's easier for women then men. I do have a few peple on my list both men and women. I take my time with people, thats just me.

I've meet some great female friends on this site and enjoy chatting with them via email. Most developed after one of us sends a note of encouragement after reading a post. They aren't necessary on my friends list, but they are in my heart.

Most men I prefer to chat with a bit before adding as friends. I guess the rule of thumb would be, male or female, is this someone I want to include in my inner circle. At least that's how it works for me....it's not a popularity contest in my mind.

Yeah i have a few friends that are men on my list. Thats not the issues, it's when you get one and i should put it this way but everyone gets this. it don't matter if it''s Woen or men. I don't except somone i have never even talk to. Not saying you didn't read this topic, but most i see so far has not touched on the poart of it where i said I have never met.

Yes, Shadow, that would get a man or woman wondering.

I have never received a friend request from a woman that I have never met or seen on here. I wouldn't accept it, if I did.

(((Shadow)))

I would much rather see a guy with some male friends on his profile too, rather than one who only has women on there and alot of them at that.


I have both male and female friends.

I send friends requests to gals all the time...see nothign at all wrong with it. You have friends of same sex in real time dont you???

Yeah, but do you just pick somone out you never seen or met and ask to be added as a friend? I would think not This has nothing to do with you what i'm about to say. But if you go back over this post. How many people actually read it? Not many. because, most didn't read the part where i was saying, this is somone i never seen or met. key words play a big part in a post and most pass them by.

Humm no big deal to me friends are male and female heck sure not talking to everyone on my friends list as more then friends. If so I sure would be busy.

I don't think you actually get to rest on here now that i think about it

I would find it odd if someone had been here as long as you have and not have both male and female friends...if man has only female friends in his profile, the word "player" comes to mind....I like having female friends..gal pals, rock!!

Yeah i would think there is somthing wrong with me if i didn't

I have to agree with the part about players. The funny thing about that. There was this guy one time that posted that he can't find anyone. Just for the hell of it, i looked at his profile and he had at least 160+ friends on his list and they were all women. Now i have alot of friends on my list and a couple of them i would date, but found out that they were better as friends so i leave it at that. This guy has 160+ and not one woman he said he was interested in. So got me thinking. all these friends he has on there are either half nude or showing themselves off in some way. And not one of them your interesed in Then why so many...

I add people because there is a part of everyone that pays a part in my life on here. I may not talk to some of them for little while, but as they do. I pop in from time to time to see whats new in there life. But to add somone i never met or talk to is a wast of my time.

I don't like to "collect friends". I only want people on my friends that are friends.

I don't accept friends from people that I have never seen before.

That's just the way I like to do it.

And there is nothing wrong with that

I love love love love my female friends on here...but I don't usually just add people, I talk to everyone on my list... Ya know, like friends are supposed to...