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Topic: Why do most women use distance as a negative factor?
mass Joined Tue 04/22/08 Posts: 1091	Sat 06/21/08 08:20 AM
HA,HA,HA,keep dreamin sweets I dont prejump for anyone. what's with all the "pre's"

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Sat 06/21/08 08:29 AM
Isn't that funny Hiker. I'm not 20 either .. but the ONLY thing I want to have a relationship about now IS love .. The older you get the more you realize life is short .. it's not lasting for ever. I want to experience that 'out of the ballpark, homerun' relationship .. which I think I have. I will come up against almost any odds of any kind to have that kind of love. It's what is important to me in life at this point. I felt that way when I was young but not now. There are too many other things vying for my attention. I am not going to throw my life away for a man at this point.I did it when I was young and I wasted many years of my life on romantic bullcrap. I want to be practical now, not stupid.

mry Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 8401	Sat 06/21/08 08:30 AM
not me... if you're interested in me First i set up an appointment then i make you go through an obstacle course, nothing huge just a few jumps and army crawls, then i ask for a background check and must have a drug test i have the results faxed over to me LOL, me too!

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sat 06/21/08 08:31 AM
Isn't that funny Hiker. I'm not 20 either .. but the ONLY thing I want to have a relationship about now IS love .. The older you get the more you realize life is short .. it's not lasting for ever. I want to experience that 'out of the ballpark, homerun' relationship .. which I think I have. I will come up against almost any odds of any kind to have that kind of love. It's what is important to me in life at this point. I felt that way when I was young but not now. There are too many other things vying for my attention. I am not going to throw my life away for a man at this point.I did it when I was young and I wasted many years of my life on romantic bullcrap. I want to be practical now, not stupid. Romantic 'bullcrap' Wow. I can't see anything in life more important right now than being in love. It's a wonderful thing

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sat 06/21/08 08:31 AM
and actually relationships are the ONLY thing we take with us outta here ..........

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Sat 06/21/08 08:33 AM
Isn't that funny Hiker. I'm not 20 either .. but the ONLY thing I want to have a relationship about now IS love .. The older you get the more you realize life is short .. it's not lasting for ever. I want to experience that 'out of the ballpark, homerun' relationship .. which I think I have. I will come up against almost any odds of any kind to have that kind of love. It's what is important to me in life at this point. I felt that way when I was young but not now. There are too many other things vying for my attention. I am not going to throw my life away for a man at this point.I did it when I was young and I wasted many years of my life on romantic bullcrap. I want to be practical now, not stupid. Romantic 'bullcrap' Wow. I can't see anything in life more important right now than being in love. It's a wonderful thing my daughter is more important, for one thing. I am not gonna abandon her to go chasing across the country for some guy. I know a lot of women put their sex lives before their kids but I have never been one of them. There are worse things than being single.

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sat 06/21/08 08:35 AM
well first off I don't chase anyone anywhere. secondly my FIVE kids are my life hon. I don't move anywhere and certainly not for a 'sex life'. I'm just saying being in love is very important to me. My children are wonderful and they come first. I adore every one of them and LOVE LOVE LOVE being a parent.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Sat 06/21/08 08:40 AM
well first off I don't chase anyone anywhere. secondly my FIVE kids are my life hon. I don't move anywhere and certainly not for a 'sex life'. I'm just saying being in love is very important to me. My children are wonderful and they come first. I adore every one of them and LOVE LOVE LOVE being a parent. I don't recall saying you did chase anyone. I was talking about myself. I thought the topic was relationships where distance is involved. Being in love is nice and all, but it doesn't last, it causes all kinds of problems down the road, and it is not worth the cost, for me. It's all so much romantic fluff, in my mind. I am happy that it works for you but it is not what I want. Life IS short..that is why I don't want to spend my last years chasing pipe dreams. I would rather be happy and love brings tears, always.

andrew101888 Joined Fri 03/14/08 Posts: 2143	Sat 06/21/08 08:41 AM
because distance matters. who the heck wants to wait 3 months between seeing someone??

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Sat 06/21/08 08:42 AM
because distance matters. who the heck wants to wait 3 months between seeing someone?? exactly. And gas is too expensive to travel anyway.

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sat 06/21/08 08:44 AM
well first off I don't chase anyone anywhere. secondly my FIVE kids are my life hon. I don't move anywhere and certainly not for a 'sex life'. I'm just saying being in love is very important to me. My children are wonderful and they come first. I adore every one of them and LOVE LOVE LOVE being a parent. I don't recall saying you did chase anyone. I was talking about myself. I thought the topic was relationships where distance is involved. Being in love is nice and all, but it doesn't last, it causes all kinds of problems down the road, and it is not worth the cost, for me. It's all so much romantic fluff, in my mind. I am happy that it works for you but it is not what I want. Life IS short..that is why I don't want to spend my last years chasing pipe dreams. I would rather be happy and love brings tears, always. true it does bring tears Nora but also tremendous joy to each his own babe I just live in my Happy Place. Works for me

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Sat 06/21/08 08:49 AM
well first off I don't chase anyone anywhere. secondly my FIVE kids are my life hon. I don't move anywhere and certainly not for a 'sex life'. I'm just saying being in love is very important to me. My children are wonderful and they come first. I adore every one of them and LOVE LOVE LOVE being a parent. I don't recall saying you did chase anyone. I was talking about myself. I thought the topic was relationships where distance is involved. Being in love is nice and all, but it doesn't last, it causes all kinds of problems down the road, and it is not worth the cost, for me. It's all so much romantic fluff, in my mind. I am happy that it works for you but it is not what I want. Life IS short..that is why I don't want to spend my last years chasing pipe dreams. I would rather be happy and love brings tears, always. true it does bring tears Nora but also tremendous joy to each his own babe I just live in my Happy Place. Works for me I had one true love in my life. The joy and the agony were beyond anything I had ever imagined. I am not doing it again. I just want a companion.

andrew101888 Joined Fri 03/14/08 Posts: 2143	Sat 06/21/08 08:53 AM
because distance matters. who the heck wants to wait 3 months between seeing someone?? exactly. And gas is too expensive to travel anyway. yep.