Topic: Need Help
Tyhronn's photo
Wed 06/11/08 06:24 AM
Hey Everyone whats up ? hope everyone is doing great. I need some advice. Ok to make things short, yesterday I was in KMART I live in there laugh so, I went to the check out line and the girl in the line that, waitied on was really, cute and def friendly, it caught my attention, how should I approach her ?

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Wed 06/11/08 06:26 AM
with a box of condoms....magnum sized......ask for help in using them

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Wed 06/11/08 06:28 AM
k-mart,dude? becareful.......she might be on work release or something.....check it out first!laugh

MsCarmen's photo
Wed 06/11/08 06:30 AM
Well, you could always try the direct approach and just say something like, "Would you like to go out sometime?"


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Wed 06/11/08 06:31 AM
Be honest, direct, and charming. Be self assured without being aggressive. Go for it. You snooze you lose.

BlndwBdge's photo
Wed 06/11/08 06:31 AM
Ask her if she is taken?

franshade's photo
Wed 06/11/08 06:33 AM
If you live in Kmart, I'm sure she's seen you before. Small talk, hellos, how are you are great ice breakers.

good luck flowerforyou

mamacat2007's photo
Wed 06/11/08 06:35 AM
happy

Ask her if she is taken?


happy LOVE the hair....Wish i coudl get those kinds of curls
flowerforyou Lucky young lady

Tyhronn's photo
Wed 06/11/08 06:36 AM
I think I'll go with the direct approach, what the hell you only live once

BlndwBdge's photo
Wed 06/11/08 06:40 AM

happy

Ask her if she is taken?


happy LOVE the hair....Wish i coudl get those kinds of curls
flowerforyou Lucky young lady



Thanx mamacat :smile:

davo3's photo
Wed 06/11/08 07:12 AM
confidently ask for her name like you do it to any girl who strikes your fancy. tell her you thought she was adorable and you just had to meet her. chat for a bit. keep it light and fun. then say you gotta go but get for her number. dont ask for it. get it.

"but hey, lemme get your number" and whip out your phone as you say it. ( do this preferably at the peak of the conversation but it doesnt matter as long as youre confident)

then call her the next day while youre doing something else and shoot the **** for about 5 minutes and let her go. dont try to make plans like every other lame ass dude. just have a quick chat and get her comfy with the idea of you calling her.

then call back a couple of days later and try to meet up.

if it doesnt work, repeat process with another girl. it will eventually hit.

ElaineSeekingJerry's photo
Wed 06/11/08 08:06 AM
I'd be flattered if someone had the confidence to approach me like that ... just don't be smarmy -- nothin' worse than a guy trying tooo hard to be 'clever'. Natural, relaxed and confident - can't go wrong there! Good luck and let us know how you make out! (I need to get out more - this living vicariously through strangers is a little pathetic embarassed )