Topic: Question?
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Wed 02/21/07 11:29 PM
The other night, tuesday to be exact, a friend of mine and I went out
for a couple of drinks at a local bar. We were having fun and all. When
we decided to leave we went to a friends house from school and just chat
for a bit. Our friend decided to go to the liquor store and grab a 12
pack, in the meantime things started to elevate between my friend and I
and we talking and wound up kissing. She told me things that she said
she had never told anyone, then said i hope you don't judge me, so i
felt like she felt comfortable around me. Took her home and then the
next day at school I tried to speak with her about the whole sitution
and it was like she didnt want to hear from me but then said that she
was still looking to go out on friday night, previously planned. Then at
the end of the day I walked by her to go outside and leave the school
and she said "what's the matter, can't say bye?". WTF is going on!

oldsage's photo
Thu 02/22/07 03:58 AM
It's called the Game of life. Just play fair & see what happens.

jeanc200358's photo
Thu 02/22/07 04:35 AM
Was she drinking with you? If so, sounds to me like maybe she had told
you things "under the influence" and, later sober, was
ashamed/embarrassed that she had told you. She still wants to go out "as
planned," but she doesn't want to discuss whatever it was she told you.
Don't bring it up for discussion -- unless she does.

TheShadow's photo
Thu 02/22/07 05:38 AM
Jeanc is right don't bring it up unless she want's to talk about it Some
people are intuch with themselves and others are still learning how to
deal with some things Dude she likes you or she wouln't have said
What's the matter can't say by Hint Hint LMAO

FedMan's photo
Thu 02/22/07 06:40 AM
very much right she does not want to talk about the stuff you all had
apparently talked about before, people will open up alot of times with
the deepest feelings and secrets when under the infuence of alcohol.
Sounds like she wants to go out with you and likes you quite well but
she is afraid that maybe you have judged her and/or that you have or
will say something. Reassure her that you are looking forward to the
date and see where it goes from there. Whatever she talked about with
you just lock that away for now, if and when she is comfortable to bring
it up again let her know what hse says will stay between you and her no
matter what.

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 02/22/07 09:10 AM
Well looks like to me just leave what was said or done alone for now you
still have friday night go out have fun and see where it goes from
there. After friday you will know if there will be a next time or not
for now just enjoy your friendship and be glad that she did open up to
you.bigsmile

MikeMontana's photo
Thu 02/22/07 04:22 PM
She's being cruel. Sorry buddy. Next time you run into her tell that the
"Drunken Affection/Icy Reception" pissed you off, and that its cruel. If
she apologizes, then great. Otherwise, cut your losses.

KoolDude79's photo
Thu 02/22/07 10:54 PM
Dude, she's playing mind games unless she was really drunk. Just flat
out ask her wtf is going with her.

DANE1973's photo
Thu 02/22/07 11:00 PM
Listen to the women bud.If there is one thing I do know about them it's
that men know nothing about them.Not a mind game.You have to believe
that.

mtironroses's photo
Fri 02/23/07 12:15 AM
oh good lord !!!! listen to what your gut is saying!!! Not your
heart.....

MrHand's photo
Fri 02/23/07 12:57 AM
Play it out for whatca can, the psyco's are always the best in bed. The
others said don't talk to her much which is right cause she,ll just
annoy you. Wot ever you do, don't get attached! Just ride her for what
you can and lose her when she becomes too much to deal with. drinker
drinker drinker

MrHand's photo
Fri 02/23/07 01:31 AM
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