You have been talking to someone for a while, things seem to be great... you finally decided to meet and you aren't physically attracted to them.

How do you think the other person feels? Is this just being shallow? Is it a personal problem with yourself? Or do you need to have the physical attraction to make a relationship work? Are physical characteristics discussed before meeting? Yeah, all that good stuff. Discuss amongst yourselves.

i sent em back where they came from





ps that actually happened

you know my answer

Maybe if you talked long enough & two people clicked, it might not make a difference

looks are not everything, but they are an element to any relationship. If there is no physical attraction it can't really work because they will not be satisfying you on that level. Anyone who says looks don't matter is not being completely honest with themselves. Luckily we all have different tastes in looks!

I take what I can get

I've had this happen where I talked to a guy and was really attracted to him from our conversations and even had seen a pic of him.. but when we actually met... well no sparks.. we're still friends but that's as far as it could ever go.

Yes, being physically attracted to the person is really important......even if we get along well

Shallow? No. Physical attract is what makes you notice a person in the first place....we are visual creatures.....

Honestly...without a physical attraction, I feel more like it's really close friends, and not a romantic relationship. I mean you have to be able to get 100% into the physical with them...for me, that requires attraction too.

That's physical chemistry for ya.

you need some physical attraction lol


if not how can there be sparks

sometimes the persons personality makes them attractive.

Physical attraction is very important for me. I just never really know who I am going to be attracted to as far as looks go though. For me cute is much more important than a perfect body. In fact, I like girls with a few extra poundds at least on them.

there are beautiful people out there with some really screwed up personalities - makes them ugly.

Hey, big girls need love too!

I don't think looks are the be all and end all..

BUT...there has to be an attraction between the two people

In my opinion. Most do need some kind of physical attration. Mind you i said most and i'm one of them. And no it's not being shallow, No one should ever go and meet somone with expections, but it happens all the time. I have seen people say it don't matter to me and they been on here as long as i have and thats two years, but there still single. HMMMMMM wonder why?

Be honest with yourself and anyone your talking to or going to meet and things might turn out better then you thinki. I will never promis anyone anything knowning i have not met them. Yes you may share things with them and get all close to and all that. But the truth is when you actually meet.