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| Topic: Guys? Opinions??? Please | |
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If you're interested, use the "friend's are talking" theme as a lead in to what you want with him. Good one, I like that |
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Ok so I was wondering what everyone thought about this: I've got this friend. We hang out all the time and when we don't we're always texting. He's fun, caring, a total geek like me, and we have tons in common. The problem is that he's engaged. I've never met or seen her. And they don't have a good relationship. He's with her because he says no one else wants him and he's really insecure about a limp he has. She's not even that nice to him. Its all been platonic and I don't want to be the 'other woman' in any way. But everyone is starting to whisper and I'm worried he'll get hurt from that. What to do folks. What to do  People have a nasty habit of telling on themselves. For example, one ex-friend said to me once, "I'm good at making rich friends". Needless to say, that friendship ended within a couple days of that statement. Is it possible that he's your friend because in his own mind he thinks you're the best he diserves? Not to say you can't be a good friend, but there really sounds like there's something wrong with him. |
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Do what you will girlie....
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Do what you will girlie.... 
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There's nothing wrong with him. I think he's great. I just don't want people to talk and then I can't be friends with him anymore because he'd get too much slack. This town is way too small.
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cut out the tongues of all those that are whispering..
problem solved 
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cut out the tongues of all those that are whispering.. problem solved 
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Just go on and bone him baby. That'll bring him out of his shell.
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Good god
 ...I don't wanna be the other woman!!!!
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if you have feelings for him tell him be honest tell him what you want a relationship future whatever it is be honest dont say things you do not know in your heart that you really mean. It hurts when people do that. and allways respect you
Respect |
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too late
Good god ...I don't wanna be the other woman!!!! |
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That's not fair. I haven't done anything so how could I be?
too late Good god ...I don't wanna be the other woman!!!! |
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id say run for it move on but what do i know im just spitefull that way.
time will tell you for sure sounds like your in deep enough the only way you will know is to find out for yourself. no one elses opinion will mean anything to you. good luck |
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Patsfan said it best. You may have to wait for him to play it out with his girlfriend. At least you have a good friend.
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He is that. A really good friend
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morning sunny
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morning sunny Morning 76, how goes it? |
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not to bad, got some stuff to do here at the house today so will be on and off all day long
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not to bad, got some stuff to do here at the house today so will be on and off all day long I'm in the same boat. Got a lot to do and need to get it done. |
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Have you talked to him. Small towns can make your life miserable, but do you care for him - as a friend? He deserves a friend to pull him aside and say "DUDE WHAT ARE YOU THINKING?! DO YOU REALLY WANT THIS TO BE YOUR LIFE?!" A true friend would do that.
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