Topic: Q to all - failed relationship
Fade2Black's photo
Sat 06/07/08 06:14 AM
It's a lot harder if you still love the person and they you. And you will miss them. That's when it's the worst.

It's like yanking off a bandaid on a very tender sore .. Do you pull it off slowly or just yank. To each his own.


ElaineSeekingJerry's photo
Sat 06/07/08 06:38 AM
I usually prefer to live in denial about the situation just a liiiittle bit longer ... 'til it's impossible to ignore ... cuz it really, really hurts to say goodbye. frown

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Sat 06/07/08 06:43 AM
Being honest is always best.

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 06/07/08 08:11 AM

I usually prefer to live in denial about the situation just a liiiittle bit longer ... 'til it's impossible to ignore ... cuz it really, really hurts to say goodbye. frown


EXACTLY ,....

Dragoness's photo
Sat 06/07/08 08:32 AM
I say quit and be honest. If you hang on to one before you get another that shows insecurity in yourself. Besides the grieving period is needed for all relationships, in order for you to be a better person for your next relationship.

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 06/07/08 08:35 AM

I say quit and be honest. If you hang on to one before you get another that shows insecurity in yourself. Besides the grieving period is needed for all relationships, in order for you to be a better person for your next relationship.


I disagree about insecurity. It's more a matter of being a coward. LOL

no photo
Sat 06/07/08 08:41 AM

Say, you’re in failed relationship. You know it doesn’t work and there is no future in it. Would you rather quit and be honest about it or go on with it before you’ll meet s’one else?

It is time for tears : laugh laugh laugh .

buttons's photo
Sat 06/07/08 08:43 AM
Edited by buttons on Sat 06/07/08 08:43 AM
i would never move on to someone else while i was with someone ...... that is just wrong!!! i dont care how bad a relationship is... however i have stuck in a relationship knowing it was bad and it was spoken of between the two of us... waiting to see if things got better..only thing is seemed to be me the only one working on it... so it ended.. i look back and see that i wasnt really loved .. so i moved on and glad i did....flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Sat 06/07/08 08:45 AM
i don't understand.....

if the relationship has failed.....how are you in it????

no photo
Sat 06/07/08 09:08 AM

i don't understand.....

if the relationship has failed.....how are you in it????


mmm, my thoughts exactly...noway

BlueskyJ's photo
Sat 06/07/08 11:18 AM

Say, you’re in failed relationship. You know it doesn’t work and there is no future in it. Would you rather quit and be honest about it or go on with it before you’ll meet s’one else?


I can only think of 2 reasons to stay in a failed relationship....either the sex is fantastic or the other person has lots of money.....embarassed

For me.....I gotta want to be with that person & that means she is both my friend & my love.....we both have to want to spend time together & find ways for that to happen....blushing

ladyliz1417's photo
Sat 06/07/08 11:20 AM
quit and be honest. No sense in causing anyone anymore pain.

s1owhand's photo
Sat 06/07/08 11:22 AM

Say, you’re in failed relationship. You know it doesn’t work and there is no future in it. Would you rather quit and be honest about it or go on with it before you’ll meet s’one else?


you gotta let it go. otherwise you will only hurt yourself
and others. be true about your feelings. as much as you can.

flowerforyou

no photo
Sat 06/07/08 11:26 AM
You know..... Its easy to say that until you are there.....
Its a lot more complicated than just saying, well.... Its over.... lets split our debt 50/50...... You keep the kids one week, me the next..... etc.... etc..... there are alot of things at play......

OK..... Im ready.... let me have it!!!!!!!grumble

Amberdee29045's photo
Sat 06/07/08 11:27 AM
yeah, all beating the dead horse is gonna do is gonna make things even worse.......


ladyliz1417's photo
Sat 06/07/08 11:40 AM

You know..... Its easy to say that until you are there.....
Its a lot more complicated than just saying, well.... Its over.... lets split our debt 50/50...... You keep the kids one week, me the next..... etc.... etc..... there are alot of things at play......

OK..... Im ready.... let me have it!!!!!!!grumble
ur situation is different John.smooched

TheShadow's photo
Sat 06/07/08 11:51 AM

Say, you’re in failed relationship. You know it doesn’t work and there is no future in it. Would you rather quit and be honest about it or go on with it before you’ll meet s’one else?


If i know it's a failed relationship, ill be honest with myself and quit. I didn't know how to do that at one point untill i started caring about me.

no photo
Sat 06/07/08 11:53 AM
Edited by BrandSpankinNew on Sat 06/07/08 11:53 AM
there is no fail, only learn or learn not

isaac_dede's photo
Sat 06/07/08 12:37 PM

You know..... Its easy to say that until you are there.....
Its a lot more complicated than just saying, well.... Its over.... lets split our debt 50/50...... You keep the kids one week, me the next..... etc.... etc..... there are alot of things at play......

OK..... Im ready.... let me have it!!!!!!!grumble

AMEN!!!!drinker drinker

ladyliz1417's photo
Sat 06/07/08 01:27 PM
sometimes it's best to just make a fresh start with someone who really cares and will treat you rightbigsmile