I have been on practically every singles site on the web, including this one. I haven't met a single soul who would like to go out with me. I have changed my profile wording more times than I can remember. My photo is relatively new. What is wrong with me that no one wants me? I am a good, decent person. I love to laugh and have a good time without all the bull crap of being drunk or doped up. I am feeling like there is no one out there for me and it is very disheartening. All I want is someone to love me. I have lots of love to give that special someone.
Sorry forsounding all depressedand al, but from where I stand, there isn't a "light at the end of the tunnel".

i cant see nothing wrong with you. im having the same problem to be honest, all the men i meet just want sex, and im not interested in just sex

Hang in there......I have been on this site for almost a Year and have not meet anyone yet......hang aroung the forum (family)..............

the key to meeting ppl on this site is to post regularly in the forums.

When dealing with relationships and what not it is always said that when you go for it and hunt it down you never get one...
it is when you just live your life and "do you" that one will appear.. you can not stress and hassle about it... you need to just except things and be patient. Stick to one or two sites and remain there... making friends and getting to know many people at ones...

I wish you luck.

Well, I'm a firm believer in "someone for everyone" (if my brother can get married...anyone can lmao) Part of it is luck, and timing and persistence and a lot of other cliche type words that..sadly enough...always seem to fit. All I can say, is just sit back and enjoy the forums...making friends and not stressing so much on the lonely bed at night. I've said this before but...:

"Finding your soul mate is like looking for a needle in a haystack. You'll spend forever picking straw off the pile. And whenever you finally get exhausted, frustrated, depressed and on the verge of tears from hunting through straw...you'll sit down on the needle."

Just hang in there!

Yup listen to tanya shes smart

says the woman with 10 posts....
You gotta put yourself out there more and talk to people and not be looking soooo hard. Make people want to come after you there is nothing wrong with you. This whole dating thing takes lots of time

really - that's breaking news

thank you, cherry.

it will happen. heck i even just met someone!

I met a woman she was a newby here last night
her profile read more or less the same as mine
and she was 2 miles down the road from me
For the first time I thought there is a good chance
she wrote at 1 am this morning saying "you may seem a very nice chap but you are not my match"

You are not alone
I will advise you revise your profile and rewrite it (I looked at it just a minute ago) positively, I would have taken you out if you were near so don't worry. Keep chipping away. Come on the forums and start showing your personality through postings.

I have found someone from this site, and a few others have. He was the last person I would expect and at the time I was not looking b/c I just had a bad experience with someone from the site that lied to me. So just hang in there and know that when it is your time to find someone, it will just happen.


Its true when you aren't looking then you will find love.

You are not annoyed with me are you?

have you been "seeing someone" Jill? you've been absent for a while

My problem as well. I met one guy who said he had to have sex with someone before committing to a relationship with a girl.

However, I'm just gonna go out have fun and whatever happens happens. There's other stuff to focus on to get bogged done with one aspect of life.

Hey sweetie C'mon you will find somebody . If an old bat like me can so can you. I have been on lots of dates some good some bad . So see.. there is hope

Even when I looked younger I had trouble getting dates. I think I was rather picky and passed up some nice guys for the wrong reasons or I juts was not paying attention. You are a beautiful person and it is not you. There is someone out there for you, but stop looking. Just hang out and have a good time. Some advice, start doing something you have always wanted to do.. Even if you think no one else thinks it is cool. Maybe, just maybe, you will meet that special someone there. You cannot sit on chat sites looking for that guy. You need to get out there, stay confident, and just have fun. He will see you, you will talk, and the both of you would never have thought...

Love ya,

Tiffany

No Robert... why would I be annoyed with you?

and a set of curlers never hurts