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Topic: Coming on to Strong....
puckthefackers's photo
Mon 06/02/08 09:07 AM

What do you think of a man (or woman) who comes on really strong right away? (says he has feelings for you right away, wants you to trust him, etc.)
Do you assume they are just desperate for a relationship with ANYONE? That they are in love with the idea of love?
Do you think they might not be well?
Excluding any reasons having to do with sex what are your thoughts on this?

Do you think that most times when someone "falls in love" this easily they can fall out love just as easily? (going from one extreme to the other)


There are different ways to come on strong without being creepy. I usually come on pretty strong but more along the lines of flirting and touching. If someone comes on too strong with talking about the future I run for the hills. For example, I had someone ask me on the first date if I would be selling my house or if she would be selling hers. grumble That was a major let down because the date was going so well.

BlueskyJ's photo
Mon 06/02/08 09:11 AM

What do you think of a man (or woman) who comes on really strong right away? (says he has feelings for you right away, wants you to trust him, etc.)
Do you assume they are just desperate for a relationship with ANYONE? That they are in love with the idea of love?
Do you think they might not be well?
Excluding any reasons having to do with sex what are your thoughts on this?

Do you think that most times when someone "falls in love" this easily they can fall out love just as easily? (going from one extreme to the other)

Coming on too strong right away is a 'red flag' and i would be inclined to run the other way....Desperate yes....

Winx's photo
Mon 06/02/08 09:15 AM
I went on a blind date with a friend's brother. We had dinner.
We went out to dinner another time. He then wanted me to move in. I ran!!!!!

Last summer I dated someone that I met on-line for four months.
He wanted to get married. To me, that's waaaaaay too soon.

robert1652's photo
Mon 06/02/08 12:03 PM

I went on a blind date with a friend's brother. We had dinner.
We went out to dinner another time. He then wanted me to move in. I ran!!!!!

Last summer I dated someone that I met on-line for four months.
He wanted to get married. To me, that's waaaaaay too soon.

Do you blame them wanting you?
look at you you are gorgeous and brainyflowerforyou

Fade2Black's photo
Mon 06/02/08 12:10 PM
run glasses

Fade2Black's photo
Mon 06/02/08 12:11 PM
honestly .. I stopped talking to someone a few months ago who was like this .. and he's STILL stalking me.

sad sad sad sad

Winx's photo
Mon 06/02/08 02:00 PM


I went on a blind date with a friend's brother. We had dinner.
We went out to dinner another time. He then wanted me to move in. I ran!!!!!

Last summer I dated someone that I met on-line for four months.
He wanted to get married. To me, that's waaaaaay too soon.

Do you blame them wanting you?
look at you you are gorgeous and brainyflowerforyou


Awww...Robert, you are too kind.blushing

If I ever need an ego booster, I know whom to talk to.flowerforyou

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