Topic: Not sure how to handle this one....
Alterego1961's photo
Sun 06/01/08 11:26 AM
I understand what youare going through. My ex has cervical and ovarian cancer. She recently had all but one ovary removed, and still has to undergo chemo. My family kept insisting she was lying to me about the cancer because she is "crazy" and there was nothing wrong with her, at least until they realized she really did have surgery for it. Her initial diagnosis gave her a 50/50 chance of long term survival. We are waiting for the surgeon and oncologist to determine what is going on now that the surgery is over. I guess what I am trying to say is that there are some very shallow, unfeeling people out there who for whatever reason feel they need to hurt or attack other people. My family's reason is that they never liked my ex, and in fact were in large part responsible for my divorce. I don't know why anyone who doesn't even really know you would say such hurtful things though. You are in my thoughts and prayers. You know the truth, as do those here who really care about you. flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

MsCarmen's photo
Sun 06/01/08 11:30 AM
I totally agree with Unique when she said

God heals as He sees fit, not to follow someone else's agenda.


God answers our prayers in His own way and does things according to His will. So if it is His will that you should be healed in whatever amount of time He sees fit then so be it. And you should never have to justify why you were picked to be blessed in this way. It is just God's will.

lilith401's photo
Sun 06/01/08 11:37 AM
I thought about this while washing my dishes... and all I can think of is that possibly your "friend" does not know a lot about medicine. Rather than admit they do not know this, or search for more information, they decide to doubt you because it could not possibly be about you! It is all about themmmmmmmmm.

Just a thought.

Fade2Black's photo
Sun 06/01/08 12:15 PM

according to an email i received, there seems to be some controversy regarding my health situation. i appears that there is someone(s) who think i lied about my situation and had people request prayers on my behalf for attention. stating that no way could i have cancer and be "healed" in 2 weeks. well, i never said i was out of danger...i can not explain what happened. could it be a mistake? a miracle? i have no clue...

only thing i can say to this is WOW! OMG! those who know me, would know this is one hell of an accusation to make towards me.

i suppose that by me being called an attention whore that i am wrong for being friendly and outgoing in the threads.

according to this email...there are many out there "buzzing" about it behind the scenes...if there are questions or a problem, i would think one would address me directly!

i am just at a loss for words here....



Wow. So am I.

I believe that comes from an inability to process the hand of God to heal you dear.

I never doubted your word. Why would anyone lie about a horrific and despicable illness such as cancer.

All I can say is

((((((((((( THANK :heart: GOD :heart: YOU ARE BETTER )))))))))))))))

Literally.

tim20721's photo
Sun 06/01/08 12:22 PM

im was first angry...then crushed.

i am not the lying type...nor would i EVER make up such a story such as that. i am beside myself.

it bothered me because this was someone i considered a friend :cry:


"only those we care for have the ability to bring us so much joy or so much sorrow" I'm not sure who to attribute that quote to, however I find it very true.

Simply be glad you discover who your real friends are and refuse to allow the others to do more harm.

Be at peace Madam, and best of luck in your struggles.

feralcatlady's photo
Sun 06/01/08 01:19 PM
I can't say that I am surprised....because it did flash that we would have the non-believers say the whole thing was a lie......It makes me sick. I know you Kitt and others that do will say what a bunch of crap that is....You would never ever in a million years lie....but to lie about something like this......Shame on the pathetic people that believe that. Kitt would never...and not only that you would never put me or any of her friends through that.......

This happened and for all the people that want to be haters or nonbelievers do so and keep it to your sick ugly selves. I know the power of Jesus Christ.....and Kitt is a testimony to the awesome powers that the Lord and the Lord only has.......And shame shame and shame to anyone who believes otherwise......And if I find out who....you will personally get an e-mail from me telling you how pathetically sick and evil you are.

madamx7316's photo
Sun 06/01/08 01:19 PM
ive taken most of the afternoon to think about this, which is way more time then it deserves...but the more i thought about it, i came to the conclusion what a discusting mind to even think that anyone would make up such a tragedy for attention, so that must tell me where this person's mind is in the first place.

you are very right to say, it is times such as these that we learn who our friends are....not much of a love lost here i reckon.

madamx7316's photo
Sun 06/01/08 01:21 PM
you are right deb....it took me some time to even tell you and others about it...for fear of making you worry, i believe i even caught some "hell" from some of you for not bringing this out earlier....i did not want those i love to worry or be sad...unreal...

Cambolaya65's photo
Sun 06/01/08 01:22 PM
Madamx,you are a superstar.The nasty gossip hags can go ___ themselves.Hang tough lady!drinker flowerforyou

madamx7316's photo
Sun 06/01/08 01:24 PM

Madamx,you are a superstar.The nasty gossip hags can go ___ themselves.Hang tough lady!drinker flowerforyou


laugh laugh oh darling, you made me laugh..i am picturing myself as mary catherine gallagher.....hahaha no i dont have my hands in my armpits :tongue:

smooched

Cambolaya65's photo
Sun 06/01/08 01:26 PM
sniffnoway sniffnoway sick laugh laugh

no photo
Sun 06/01/08 01:30 PM
hey..its the internet...think of it as a huge buffet..take what you like and leave the rest behind.....flowerforyou

Fade2Black's photo
Sun 06/01/08 02:02 PM

hey..its the internet...think of it as a huge buffet..take what you like and leave the rest behind.....flowerforyou



AMEN sistah flowerforyou

missy51970's photo
Sun 06/01/08 02:07 PM
Sweetheart dont you worry about what people are saying..

I dont know youre whole situation but i heard mention of cervical and uterine cancer.. As a survivor of both of those.. CONGRATULATIONS... how you beat it doesnt matter the fact is you did..

ignore the little people who try to make themselves feel bigger by starting gossip they know nothing about.. as for being an attention whore.. so am i and proud of it!!!!

madamx7316's photo
Sun 06/01/08 02:07 PM


hey..its the internet...think of it as a huge buffet..take what you like and leave the rest behind.....flowerforyou



AMEN sistah flowerforyou


lol ive never looked at it that way...but you are right :wink:

wyatt1844's photo
Sun 06/01/08 04:12 PM
Madam, I believe you have been given an awesome gift, rejoice in that - and don't let anyone take the joy away from you.


madamx7316's photo
Sun 06/01/08 04:19 PM
(((wyatt)))

EtherealEmbers's photo
Sun 06/01/08 04:30 PM
With how many people you had praying for you, it doesn't surprise me in the least that things changed. Whether it's true or not is between you and God, no one else. I prayed for you, too. Who cares what the faithless say...flowerforyou

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Sun 06/01/08 04:43 PM
we know you sweetie, and we know u are not an attention seeker. the person who suggested such a thing must have envy of how sweet u r, and all the love we feel for u.
flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

madamx7316's photo
Sun 06/01/08 04:45 PM

we know you sweetie, and we know u are not an attention seeker. the person who suggested such a thing must have envy of how sweet u r, and all the love we feel for u.
flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


(((LW))) you are the sweetest of the sweet darlin xoxoxoxo