It goes both ways, I have helped a few women to be better, and vise versa. I am seeing somebody right now and it's sorta funny. I have rearranged my life to be pretty stress free, my bills are minimal, and I have my 40mpg car and my 80mpg motorcycle so I don't have to make much money at all, and I don't, I have gotten kinda lazy. I am seeing somebody who is a surgeons assistant at one hospital and in charge of the ER at another hospital and is the single mom of 6 kids. (only 2 kids are at home) I asked her "Why me?" She said she had something to learn from me, I think she is realising that all the money, the incredible house, the Land Cruiser ect. ect. isn't worth the stress! See what I mean? It's kinda backwards.