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Topic: 50 and over crowd .......
vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Tue 02/07/12 04:22 PM


metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Tue 02/07/12 06:59 PM
You like fun too!!

BrennyKH Joined Thu 11/10/11 Posts: 664	Tue 02/07/12 08:05 PM
I went back and read the start of this thread and I gotta say, I don't really feel the need to feel younger. I'm comfortable being 50. But I do miss having friends to hang out with and chit chat on the phone, gossip with - things like that. In all honesty I really miss having all the gal friends in my life more than I miss having a man in my life. And no, I don't play for the other team!

Grayson6969 Joined Sat 01/28/12 Posts: 3	Wed 02/08/12 06:10 PM Edited by Grayson6969 on Wed 02/08/12 06:12 PM
will be 55 this year, and very unhappy:( been married for 12 years, in the last 4 years I have had no real sex, because of the change of life thing with the wife and it doesn't look any better in the bed room. I know you are not my doctor, but sometimes it helps just to type it out and read back later. I have wants and needs, I'm I selfish? I love my wife, but how do you say I'm not in Love with her? how can that be? I'm going to be 55 this year, is it all over for me also? I just don't understand, how can a couple grow apart like this? sad sad sad

metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Wed 02/08/12 06:36 PM
will be 55 this year, and very unhappy:( been married for 12 years, in the last 4 years I have had no real sex, because of the change of life thing with the wife and it doesn't look any better in the bed room. I know you are not my doctor, but sometimes it helps just to type it out and read back later. I have wants and needs, I'm I selfish? I love my wife, but how do you say I'm not in Love with her? how can that be? I'm going to be 55 this year, is it all over for me also? I just don't understand, how can a couple grow apart like this? sad sad sad According to your profile, you are a man looking for a man. Yet you discuss problems with your marriage. I think you have a mistake on your profile or you are very confused.

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Wed 02/08/12 07:32 PM
I went back and read the start of this thread and I gotta say, I don't really feel the need to feel younger. I'm comfortable being 50. But I do miss having friends to hang out with and chit chat on the phone, gossip with - things like that. In all honesty I really miss having all the gal friends in my life more than I miss having a man in my life. And no, I don't play for the other team! you will probably make friends here...we have get togethers sometimes and yes, we talk on the phone...great support from people here.

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Wed 02/08/12 07:35 PM
will be 55 this year, and very unhappy:( been married for 12 years, in the last 4 years I have had no real sex, because of the change of life thing with the wife and it doesn't look any better in the bed room. I know you are not my doctor, but sometimes it helps just to type it out and read back later. I have wants and needs, I'm I selfish? I love my wife, but how do you say I'm not in Love with her? how can that be? I'm going to be 55 this year, is it all over for me also? I just don't understand, how can a couple grow apart like this? sad sad sad she must be having a hard time with the menopause thing...but it won't last forever...it will just seem like it does If you still love her, be supportive of her..work your way through it together. Looking for outside sex is never the answer ...and no your life is not over at 55.

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Wed 02/08/12 07:39 PM
I agree sounds like it would just make a big mess.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Wed 02/08/12 08:00 PM
Menopause MEN..Pause and take a minute and think about what your wife is going through. Geez,she didn't ask for this , be kind and patient and understanding and maybe just maybe you will reap the rewards.

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Fri 02/10/12 08:36 PM
Careful big guy...manO will make barbecue of you! Will that be at the wedding feast in Tennessee..... who knows?? Have you had an invite? Oh no, I'm not on their guest list Are you? of course you are Really??? Do I still get part of your retirement too?? uh.....nO..... Don't get testy now Leigh...This was an agreement we made long before you came on the scene. Besides' Jerry gonna make enough retirement for four women!! And conversation about Jerry's financial stats should probably be reserved for private email.... Oh my goodness....He and I have teased about this for so long...He knows I'm not serious...and he has never been serious about it either ...things have changed haven't they? I guess now I'll have to get your ok before I post to him... Thank you for putting me in my place. You and Jerry have been the best of friends for years. We all know you are joking, and those that don't better learn...fast. You know it been there seen it. And watched it grow we all are friends. with jokes and kidding while we go through what ever life hits us with. it is good to come here and be with friends

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Sat 02/11/12 05:21 AM
Careful big guy...manO will make barbecue of you! Will that be at the wedding feast in Tennessee..... who knows?? Have you had an invite? Oh no, I'm not on their guest list Are you? of course you are Really??? Do I still get part of your retirement too?? uh.....nO..... Don't get testy now Leigh...This was an agreement we made long before you came on the scene. Besides' Jerry gonna make enough retirement for four women!! And conversation about Jerry's financial stats should probably be reserved for private email.... Oh my goodness....He and I have teased about this for so long...He knows I'm not serious...and he has never been serious about it either ...things have changed haven't they? I guess now I'll have to get your ok before I post to him... Thank you for putting me in my place. You and Jerry have been the best of friends for years. We all know you are joking, and those that don't better learn...fast. You know it been there seen it. And watched it grow we all are friends. with jokes and kidding while we go through what ever life hits us with. it is good to come here and be with friends And friends are always there for eachother, when things fall apart. We help friends pick up the pieces & start over. NO MATTER when it happens. FRIENDS are FRIENDS ........ALWAYS

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Sat 02/11/12 06:11 AM
Mingle Friends are the BEST friends!!

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Sat 02/11/12 06:21 AM
Mingle Friends are the BEST friends!! AMEN

Sharris Joined Sun 12/10/06 Posts: 7300	Sat 02/11/12 08:05 AM
Mingle Friends are the BEST friends!! AMEN ditto to that

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Sat 02/11/12 08:44 AM
I My friends.

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Sat 02/11/12 09:02 AM
I know, so do I...but it seems like we keep losing them, for whatever reason

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Sat 02/11/12 09:07 AM
Not the REAL ONES...THEY ARE STILL HERE.

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Sat 02/11/12 09:22 AM
Oh I know but still miss the ones we lose along the way.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Sat 02/11/12 09:25 AM
Hey you still got me, what more do you need? (Don't answer that? )

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Sat 02/11/12 09:32 AM
Hey you still got me, what more do you need? (Don't answer that? ) ah...well...uh...can I get back to you on that???