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Topic: question..
Blayze17 Joined Mon 05/26/08 Posts: 126	Wed 05/28/08 12:08 AM
Look man, you're young and cute. Dump the game player, you don't need to waste your time when you can have someone real. oh believe me im not focusing all my attention on her..noone else has came along yet thnx for the compliments tho lol you don't wanna end up wasting another 5 months on her no doubt!

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Wed 05/28/08 12:09 AM
and you'll notice not one single person that responded said "give it more time" everyone agrees she's just stringin you along and you can do better

Blayze17 Joined Mon 05/26/08 Posts: 126	Wed 05/28/08 12:12 AM
and you'll notice not one single person that responded said "give it more time" everyone agrees she's just stringin you along and you can do better haha i noticed... your right about that

IndigoIllusions Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 5625	Wed 05/28/08 12:16 AM
I've only been on this site for two days, but I've been on another site since the end of March. The one guy I was interested in said all the right things, was so wonderful and "perfect". We seemed to get along great, thinking alike, believing in the same things, values, and goals, then after two weeks started talking on the phone, a week later we met. He kept saying how excited he was and definitely wanted to continue, called every day for the next couple of days, on a Tuesday night said he wanted to meet the next day.....no meet, no call, nothing.......for a week. Tried to say he was just SOOOO busy, wasn't talking to anyone else, was so lonely, yada yada, but would call later that night. No call, not email for another 4 days, still wants to continue talking and seeing each other. Then I see him on there almost every day, sometimes 2-3 times a day, no contact for almost two weeks-then a "still want to get to know you, but slowly". What, and maybe next lifetime we'll actually have a first date?? Still haven't heard from him, and really don't give a %$$#. He is now on another site too, and still checks back onto the other sited frequently, but he doesn't have any time to talk to me. Yeah, you know what you can do with your excuses, and I'll gladly draw you a map!

Blayze17 Joined Mon 05/26/08 Posts: 126	Wed 05/28/08 12:20 AM
I've only been on this site for two days, but I've been on another site since the end of March. The one guy I was interested in said all the right things, was so wonderful and "perfect". We seemed to get along great, thinking alike, believing in the same things, values, and goals, then after two weeks started talking on the phone, a week later we met. He kept saying how excited he was and definitely wanted to continue, called every day for the next couple of days, on a Tuesday night said he wanted to meet the next day.....no meet, no call, nothing.......for a week. Tried to say he was just SOOOO busy, wasn't talking to anyone else, was so lonely, yada yada, but would call later that night. No call, not email for another 4 days, still wants to continue talking and seeing each other. Then I see him on there almost every day, sometimes 2-3 times a day, no contact for almost two weeks-then a "still want to get to know you, but slowly". What, and maybe next lifetime we'll actually have a first date?? Still haven't heard from him, and really don't give a %$$#. He is now on another site too, and still checks back onto the other sited frequently, but he doesn't have any time to talk to me. Yeah, you know what you can do with your excuses, and I'll gladly draw you a map! haha wow...yes indeed

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Wed 05/28/08 12:21 AM
she lives like 30 mins away By now you could have been married with one on the way.

saymyname Joined Sun 08/05/07 Posts: 23	Wed 05/28/08 07:04 AM
She's seeing several guys and stringing you along. Don't initiate contact with her anymore and see if she comes to you. Find another girl and try to move on. I betcha in a month's time of not hearing from you, she'll be hitting you up. If she does, play hard to get and she will love it. You've been so sweet and consistent, she's probably been running after the bad boys. Hopefully she will get over that soon.

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14521	Wed 05/28/08 07:32 AM
Meet and Greet, or to the street.

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Wed 05/28/08 07:33 AM
alright ive been talking to this one girl for about 5 months.. everything is good..so far.. we havent met in person yet... mainly because..she'll suggest we go do something..and then go A-Wall on me for 3 days so i cant get ahold of her.. ...what does this say? if you have to ask .... you're not ready for online dating

floh Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 1706	Wed 05/28/08 07:42 AM
she lives like 30 mins away wow...considering most peeps i talk to on here live lightyears away...would at least meet for a coffee or dinner...even if it's just as friends... JMO

MissyAnn Joined Wed 05/14/08 Posts: 90	Wed 05/28/08 08:22 AM
to the curb she must go AND QUICKLY!

MissyAnn Joined Wed 05/14/08 Posts: 90	Wed 05/28/08 08:23 AM
I've only been on this site for two days, but I've been on another site since the end of March. The one guy I was interested in said all the right things, was so wonderful and "perfect". We seemed to get along great, thinking alike, believing in the same things, values, and goals, then after two weeks started talking on the phone, a week later we met. He kept saying how excited he was and definitely wanted to continue, called every day for the next couple of days, on a Tuesday night said he wanted to meet the next day.....no meet, no call, nothing.......for a week. Tried to say he was just SOOOO busy, wasn't talking to anyone else, was so lonely, yada yada, but would call later that night. No call, not email for another 4 days, still wants to continue talking and seeing each other. Then I see him on there almost every day, sometimes 2-3 times a day, no contact for almost two weeks-then a "still want to get to know you, but slowly". What, and maybe next lifetime we'll actually have a first date?? Still haven't heard from him, and really don't give a %$$#. He is now on another site too, and still checks back onto the other sited frequently, but he doesn't have any time to talk to me. Yeah, you know what you can do with your excuses, and I'll gladly draw you a map! god, is this story familiar...PIG!

saymyname Joined Sun 08/05/07 Posts: 23	Thu 05/29/08 10:46 AM
I've only been on this site for two days, but I've been on another site since the end of March. The one guy I was interested in said all the right things, was so wonderful and "perfect". We seemed to get along great, thinking alike, believing in the same things, values, and goals, then after two weeks started talking on the phone, a week later we met. He kept saying how excited he was and definitely wanted to continue, called every day for the next couple of days, on a Tuesday night said he wanted to meet the next day.....no meet, no call, nothing.......for a week. Tried to say he was just SOOOO busy, wasn't talking to anyone else, was so lonely, yada yada, but would call later that night. No call, not email for another 4 days, still wants to continue talking and seeing each other. Then I see him on there almost every day, sometimes 2-3 times a day, no contact for almost two weeks-then a "still want to get to know you, but slowly". What, and maybe next lifetime we'll actually have a first date?? Still haven't heard from him, and really don't give a %$$#. He is now on another site too, and still checks back onto the other sited frequently, but he doesn't have any time to talk to me. Yeah, you know what you can do with your excuses, and I'll gladly draw you a map! This reminds me of that book that was popular a couple of years ago "He's just not that into you." A worthwhile read for women who are trying to understand men. Yes, this does sound very familar. god, is this story familiar...PIG!