Topic: Have you ever said I love you with no reply?
IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 05/25/08 11:39 PM

Yeah, really awkward when it's said to me and I can't say it back. Ugh! That dreadfully long silence and the look in his eyes...praying for the sky to open and swallow me!!!


oh yeah and then the stuttering that follows.. ok for me anyway... ohwell

yantraimages's photo
Sun 05/25/08 11:48 PM

To state your love is a expression of your feelings towards another person. If the words are not returned to you, does it negate the original statement? If you are saying "I love you" with the hope or expectation of hearing it back perhaps you are expressing your need for love more than you are actually saying "I love you"

"Love seeketh not its own"


I fall in Love with a lot of people all the time, I don't say it, and I don't expect it to get returned. I'm always in Love though, it's Great !!!

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 05/25/08 11:53 PM
huh I dont think so........huh

Kleisto's photo
Sun 05/25/08 11:59 PM
Edited by Kleisto on Mon 05/26/08 12:00 AM
Yes once I did, when I was a freshman in high school. It was my first real crush I guess you could say, or at least the first one I really pursued. I was crazy about her for a while, until I saw a different side of her. Then I pretty much fell out of love with her as quickly as I fell in.

Kravin's photo
Mon 05/26/08 12:06 AM
I once said "I love you" and got a "shut up" in return. But I was picking on her before hand.

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 05/26/08 12:19 AM
Of the rare (do note 'rare') times I've said it (once, maybe twice) I have always recieved a reply of "I love you too". And of the many (do note 'many') times it has been said to me, I only said it back once. Love is not a word I throw around nor do I believe others should throw it around.

feistybaby's photo
Mon 05/26/08 06:09 AM
No I haven't when I have told anyone I have loved them it has always been returned in some cases it shouldn't have been because they really didn't. They just thought it was what I wanted to hear. I would have rather had the thank you than a lie~

FallinAngel82's photo
Mon 05/26/08 06:10 AM
once and it was to my HUSBAND

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 05/26/08 11:33 AM

once and it was to my HUSBAND


You've never said that to me?!?smokin

MissyAnn's photo
Mon 05/26/08 11:47 AM
he simply said that he knew, and that he would not tell me until he really did love me...I am still waiting.....

~MissyAnn

LadyOfMagic's photo
Mon 05/26/08 11:50 AM
Nope..I never say it first.

No1sLove's photo
Mon 05/26/08 11:51 AM


Yeah, really awkward when it's said to me and I can't say it back. Ugh! That dreadfully long silence and the look in his eyes...praying for the sky to open and swallow me!!!


oh yeah and then the stuttering that follows.. ok for me anyway... ohwell
Oh yeah..especially when it's a really great guy and you really wish that you could. It's just not there.

lilangel2's photo
Mon 05/26/08 11:55 AM
Yes, over and over to my daughter when she was a baby...on second thought, she did reply...with goos and giggles and sweet round sparkling baby eyes...:heart: :heart: :heart: ~~~Sigh~~~ I want another Baby!!! sad

itsmetina's photo
Mon 05/26/08 11:57 AM

Yes, over and over to my daughter when she was a baby...on second thought, she did reply...with goos and giggles and sweet round sparkling baby eyes...:heart: :heart: :heart: ~~~Sigh~~~ I want another Baby!!! sad
quit with baby thoughts i get them all the time around babys:cry:

no photo
Mon 05/26/08 12:01 PM
I can say lov ya to friends anytime, but to say I LOVE YOU, never to be use lightly and never to be said w/o meeting and being with someone for some time to really know and feel that LOVE in my heart, and she must feel as me or I would still not let her here them from me....:heart: :wink:

bad_girl's photo
Mon 05/26/08 12:30 PM
Oh yeah but a swift smack against the head will make them say it real quickbigsmile

Citizen_Joe's photo
Mon 05/26/08 11:25 PM

Have you ever said I love you with no reply?
How about hearing someone loved you but not replying?

Talk about awkward moments. I can only imagine as it hasn't happened to me thankfully.


Yes, yes, and it'll happen sooner or later. The one saying it is usually thinking, "I don't get it", and the one not responding is usually thinking, "exactly".

poohbearface19's photo
Tue 05/27/08 06:50 AM
Now that i think about it it must hurt somoeone not reponding.............last person that kept telling me i would be ok ok ok until he said dam it natali u just say ok too me thay hurts..............i felt bad.........but i told him it was too soongrumble

no photo
Tue 05/27/08 06:56 AM

Have you ever said I love you with no reply?
How about hearing someone loved you but not replying?

Talk about awkward moments. I can only imagine as it hasn't happened to me thankfully.
Yup, so I never say it unless the person saids it to me first.

I just tell the person I don't love them in return.

no photo
Tue 05/27/08 06:59 AM
Yes.