had a illness like me called endometriosis, and it can reduce your chances of getting pregnant, how soon would you tell a man that if he was interested in you??

right off... in case he wants children

Second date.

My friend's sister has that and I do not think she will be able to have babies but she DID just get married so, there are men who will love you regardless.

i mean before the dating part, like on email IF i did meet someone??

thats a comforting thing to hear, thankyou

My ex-wife had this, we tryed for years before we could have a child. If you are serious with the other person and he is interested in having children you need to be up front with him from the beginning.

yeah, 2nd date, or later, depending on how well the first date went. A first date shouldn't have much (if any) really heavy personal stuff. It's like warming up before a game, you don't want to pull a muscle early.

how many years did it take for your ex wife to get pregnant??

but if i met someone hear, should i tell him by email straight away, or wait until i actually met him??

im NOT saying i cant get pregnant, my tubes are clear, but even so there is a reduced chance.

why tell them??? at all....

ummmmm. ok ..right after the engagement ring is presented....and before you say , yes

you dont have to spell out what medical problems you have just let them know that you could have a very hard time getting pregnant.
if you tell some too soon they are going to be thinking they can try for sex any time they want. because of your medical problems. that would be the users

i have no experience in this area, but i don't think this would be an email conversation. personally, if it were me, i would see where things were going and have this conversation before things got serious.

right away

If I see online that they are wanting kids, then I know its something important to them. Then I play it by ear from there and work it into conversation after I see how things are going. Depends on the individual guy Debbie.

We both had to be tested to find out if it was me or her with the problem, they found it was her and did a operation, then put her on steriods or something like this. I guess we tried 3 or 4 years before we had our daughter.

yesterday

Debbie, I grew up with a girl that had severe polio and endometriosis. She wore braces on both legs, arms and back for years. They told her that she would never have children. They were wrong. She has a beautiful little girl last I saw her. They told me I couldn't have any more due to having a great number of miscarriages, I have a beautiful little 7 year old (yeah she is a pain sometimes). Never say never. Anything is possible if you want it bad enough.

If it comes down to it and you can't, there are thousands of kids out there that need homes. If some guy isn't accepting enough of you to understand that you can't and willing to adopt, he isn't worthy of you.
Good luck!!1

You know this does not mean you cant have children at all... I think you shouldnt have to say anything until it comes up naturally in conversation. You do not need to bring it up as if you have some sort of plague. My bestfriend has endometriosis and she has a 8 month old baby, her conceiving, pregnancy and delivery went just fine. Dont think this means you may never have children, lots of women with your same condition have babies all the time.

dont you think its only fair to tell him?