OK WELL ITS NOT LIKE TO ME SIT HERE AND PUT THIS ON HERE TO SEE IF
SOMEONE CAN HELP ME OUT OR SOMETHING. BUT ANYWAY.. I AM 24 AND WAS
PREGANT ONE TIME BEFORE HOW I AM NOW.. AND I THINK EVERY DAY ABOUT HOW I
LOST THE FIRST BABY AT 8 MONTHS WHEN I WAS PREGANT AND IF ITS GOING TO
HAPPEN AGAIN.. I DONT THINK THAT I CAN GO THROUGH THAT AGAIN.. IT HURT
SO BAD AND STILL DOES.. WHAT DO I DO.. I AM TAKING CARE OF MYSELF LIKE I
WAS THE FIRST TIME.. I MEAN THINGS ARE GOING GOOD FOR ME THIS TIME..I
JUST DONT WANT SOMETHING TO HAPPEN AND I LOOSE ANOTHER BABY.. WHAT DO I
DO.. AND WHAT SHOULD I DO

Hi Looking,
Welcome to the site,
For Starters, Are you going to the Dr. regularly?
how far along are you?
why did you loose the first 1?
you need to turn it over to your higher power.
who ever that might be.
the stress alone could hurt it. no worries!

follow your doctor's orders, and just relax...sometimes things happen,
and they are for no apparent reason. it depends upon the reason for the
first one...it could have been a one in a million shot. get plenty of
rest, stop fretting, and see your doc regularly. take your vitamins,
drink plenty of water...avoid cigarettes, drugs, alcohol, and
caffeine...get exercise if your doc allows it...

the truth is, more pregnancies than we realize end up going wrong, but
it happens before the person realizes that they are pregnant. it's
amazing that everything that needs to is able to just "click".

there's nothing more awesome than the birth of a baby. congratulations.

Like you, I lost a baby far into a pregnancy. It really hurt, still does
at times. The best thing you can do this time around is do as the
doctor tells you and try not to stress over what happened last time. The
less stress the better. I am wanting to try again and I know it will be
hard, but just remember that things happen in our lives for a reason.
Good luck to you and keep your head up!

Just relax sweetie and try not to stress fear is an aweful thing but to
a mother and an un-born child it can bebad so just look at the beautie
of it all in a few months you will have a beautiful baby looking up at
you with all the love in the world in their heart you look the positive
of things and keep all doctors appointment's and if you are to concerned
ask the doctor to do a ultra sound if they haven't yet that way if there
is a problem they should be able to find it now.god bless and
congrats

I know how you feel I just lost my baby 2 months ago. But just because
you lost your first one does not mean you will loose this one i have two
other wonderful kids.

well don't worry and stress yourself out about it, stress is not a good
thing for you at this time. Why did you lose the first baby would be an
important question at this point. If from a hormone inbalance and the
OBGYN you had with the first baby could not help you then I suggest
seeking another OBGYN with this baby, actually, whatever happened
seeking other doctors advice or help is not really a bad idea. My sister
lost a baby once and then got pregnant again, the samething statred
happening with the second baby but she switched doctors and the that
child delivered just fine.

well I became pregnet with twins and lost them at 6months into my
pregneny! so i know where your coming from! i got pregnet again and i
was scared to death the same thing would happen again! i started makeing
visets to the emergincey room regerley for no aperent reason becides i
wanted to know on a daily basis if the child i was careing was in fact
ok! I paranoyed and stressed my self out so much i started haveing
contractions and thats when the doc. said you being bedrested for the
reamader of my pregnacey and put me on medacation for the contractions
and reainshoured me every thing would be ok if i reamaned in bed with my
feet up- neatalis to say i did what the doc. said and comed down knowing
the reaenshernts he gave me! then i went into layber and had my little
girl! and after words the docter said to me-"it was not the bed rest
that saved your child it was that you finley comed down and realaxed! so
best advise coem down relax and in-joy your pregnacey! every thing with
be fine just sometimes in life things dont work out as we plan but the
things that happen always there is a reason behind it well thats what
people has always said to me!GOOD LUCK!

vanessa