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Topic: trust prob...
redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Fri 05/23/08 04:02 PM
ok I have a huge trust prob.. I cant seem to trust mike(b/f) when he says hes at work he dont text as much which I understand cuz he at work but I cant help to think he is cheating on me... is there any way to get over this?

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Fri 05/23/08 04:03 PM
ok I have a huge trust prob.. I cant seem to trust mike(b/f) when he says hes at work he dont text as much which I understand cuz he at work but I cant help to think he is cheating on me... is there any way to get over this? yeah, dump him./ If you dont trust the relationship is over. I dont know if it is him, or you, but you guys got to quit before it gets ugly

soldierforamerica Joined Wed 10/24/07 Posts: 3813	Fri 05/23/08 04:04 PM
a relationship needs to be based on trust if you dont have it then reevaluate the relationship

ljcc1964 Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 8298	Fri 05/23/08 04:04 PM
Follow him around in secret.

AllSmilesInTulsa Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 1903	Fri 05/23/08 04:04 PM
Do you have this trust issue with just him or with all men you date?

CherrySparks212 Joined Mon 04/07/08 Posts: 964	Fri 05/23/08 04:05 PM
Follow him around in secret.

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Fri 05/23/08 04:05 PM
Follow him around in secret. are you kidding me?

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Fri 05/23/08 04:05 PM
its me, I dont trust anyone...not even friends... he knows I have trust probs

Jim519 Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 9203	Fri 05/23/08 04:05 PM
Follow him around in secret.

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Fri 05/23/08 04:06 PM
Grow up. If it is real,you have no worries. If he is cheating,it was never meant to be.

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Fri 05/23/08 04:07 PM
Grow up. If it is real,you have no worries. If he is cheating,it was never meant to be.

prettylady4 Joined Sat 04/19/08 Posts: 239	Fri 05/23/08 04:08 PM
trust is nice to have,but if you think he is cheating and you know when he is asleep hit star 67 then his cell number and as soon as his voice message comes on put in his pass code if you can find it out from him in secret and get all his messages to see if anyone else is calling. this only works if you know he is not going to answer his phone. but by hitting the srar button its blocks your nymber and he wont know its you, if he answers just hang up?

AllSmilesInTulsa Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 1903	Fri 05/23/08 04:08 PM
its me, I dont trust anyone...not even friends... he knows I have trust probs Since you recognize it is not him but an issue with you, you should seek help to get past these issues. We all, in some way have trust issues but if you choose to give into them you will never have a successful relationship.

hauveralan Joined Mon 04/07/08 Posts: 2827	Fri 05/23/08 04:08 PM
i put gps on cars and use my computer to track them

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Fri 05/23/08 04:09 PM
Didn't say it to be mean. Just the truth.

EtherealEmbers Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 6580	Fri 05/23/08 04:09 PM
I agree with Rob on this one. Dump him if you don't trust him. Try therapy until you're ready to grow past it.

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Fri 05/23/08 04:10 PM
its me, I dont trust anyone...not even friends... he knows I have trust probs Since you recognize it is not him but an issue with you, you should seek help to get past these issues. We all, in some way have trust issues but if you choose to give into them you will never have a successful relationship. I have started trusting him little by little but its hard for me to totaly trust anyone

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Fri 05/23/08 04:10 PM
its me, I dont trust anyone...not even friends... he knows I have trust probs Maybe it's time to step back and figure THAT out before trying to start something. JMO

Jim519 Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 9203	Fri 05/23/08 04:10 PM
Wow! Following him suggestions Checking his cell phone suggestions How immature...If I EVER found out someone I dated or was in a relationship pulled that even just one time? Your gone! Never another chance without looking back! If I distrust in any fashion there is something wrong, something has occured...if you cant get over it, get out of it

AllSmilesInTulsa Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 1903	Fri 05/23/08 04:11 PM
Grow up. If it is real,you have no worries. If he is cheating,it was never meant to be. Very true Sage. If he is cheating (which I think he is not) and it ends, learn from it and move on. No one has ever died of a broken heart.