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| Topic: This is a rant....sorry, but I had too | |
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I don't get it. My ex is sleeping with a girl, has been for one and a half years, so I asked for a divorce, and he has done everything to drag his damn feet.
But the worst is .... HE gets pissed when I am out with friends. He won't be reasonable about the division of assets because .... he wants to take care of me. He wants me to learn to be responsible with money. Is it just me or should he just butt out? He was fighting for reconcilation measures. He had to waive those, and he was all, no we can work this out, then tells me that he likes waking up to her. I don't even find him attractive anymore. Why can't he just let me be? |
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It's a control issue. My X was just like that. Took a while
to get through |
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Because he still wants the control over you and have his other girl on the side. Have you talked to his gf? Maybe if you talk to her she'll get on his case too about getting the divorce done. JMO
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Sorry that you are having such a bad experience
He is using you as his mommy and her as his ****toy, basically. Drop him like a hot brick, don't be spiteful (but don't roll over, either), and move on. |
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A man will always get away with what we allow them to.
He is in a relationship, go thru mediation if you are certain that a reconciliation will not happen. Put yourself first by not caring what he wants, do what you want. good luck to you 
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Men are pigs
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Because he still wants the control over you and have his other girl on the side. Have you talked to his gf? Maybe if you talk to her she'll get on his case too about getting the divorce done. JMO She likes living in the house I pay for too much. |
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Men are pigs you are a guy aren't you? |
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Because he still wants the control over you and have his other girl on the side. Have you talked to his gf? Maybe if you talk to her she'll get on his case too about getting the divorce done. JMO She likes living in the house I pay for too much. |
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Because he still wants the control over you and have his other girl on the side. Have you talked to his gf? Maybe if you talk to her she'll get on his case too about getting the divorce done. JMO She likes living in the house I pay for too much. Oh f**k that, go get it done.... Take EVERYTHING you can get in that case. |
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Then my credit score 803 will drop.
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Then my credit score 803 will drop. |
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Men are pigs you are a guy aren't you? Last I checked |
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Because he still wants the control over you and have his other girl on the side. Have you talked to his gf? Maybe if you talk to her she'll get on his case too about getting the divorce done. JMO She likes living in the house I pay for too much. Oh f**k that, go get it done.... Take EVERYTHING you can get in that case. Honestly, I don't mind taking less than my half, I just want it done in more thant $200.00 payments. It will take him 12 years to pay off the sum I requested. |
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Because he still wants the control over you and have his other girl on the side. Have you talked to his gf? Maybe if you talk to her she'll get on his case too about getting the divorce done. JMO She likes living in the house I pay for too much. Oh f**k that, go get it done.... Take EVERYTHING you can get in that case. Honestly, I don't mind taking less than my half, I just want it done in more thant $200.00 payments. It will take him 12 years to pay off the sum I requested. |
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Sounds like he has quite the ego - he wants to make things 'right' with you, but still keep the gf.
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Men are pigs you are a guy aren't you? Last I checked I don't think you checked well enough... here, let me help... 
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Men are pigs you are a guy aren't you? Last I checked I don't think you checked well enough... here, let me help...
Seriously to the OP some people are like that and many times it's a man being an asshole. I don't have any good advice for you but there is enough scorned women on here I'm sure you'll get plenty.
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Men are pigs you are a guy aren't you? Last I checked I don't think you checked well enough... here, let me help...
Seriously to the OP some people are like that and many times it's a man being an asshole. I don't have any good advice for you but there is enough scorned women on here I'm sure you'll get plenty.
I hope so, I cant take ne more of this **** |
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there is a little story here in Argentina that goes like this...a man starts dating a woman, he asks her about her marital status. Im getting a divorce, she tells him..
who left who,? he asks.. I left him...she says Oh...he says and never comes back.... the point is, when a man wants to leave you, he's gone, but when you want him to leave he sticks around like gum to the bottom of your shoe until he's ready...sounds like your dude isnt ready to leave you..so you better be ready for a long, difficult battle. sorry for you..
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