Topic: ok,..guys,..this one`s for yu
IamMewhoRU's photo
Mon 05/19/08 08:33 AM
<<dial tone>> I think she just hit the **** You button!huh

IamMewhoRU's photo
Mon 05/19/08 08:34 AM


ok.....you must mean without blowing the stack right? ok...well, most guys can't "Hold on" to "it" because they are not having sex that often.As you have sex less often the "natural feel" goes away and the sesativity rises. this causes the infamous"early blowing" syndrome. I hope that helped


Thankyou,..you`ve answered my question,..:smile:


very welcome.Glad to help.bigsmile

IamMewhoRU's photo
Mon 05/19/08 08:34 AM
Edited by IamMewhoRU on Mon 05/19/08 08:35 AM

Well..they have these thingies....you squeeze them and they make your hands stronger....


stress balls not guy balls dear.....I honestly can say.........you might get hit for that! sick LOL.....no matter how much he tries to stop it.

no photo
Mon 05/19/08 08:35 AM
he's lost interest in you.......or in pleasing you




what does it mean if you can`t hold on and that`s never been a problem before ?? :tongue:

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 05/19/08 08:35 AM

i thought she was talking about premature ejaculation..noway


Humm you mean what happens if they can't get it up or keep it up?



Well it is one of these things I would guess.

IamMewhoRU's photo
Mon 05/19/08 08:36 AM
handled

May777's photo
Mon 05/19/08 08:37 AM

he's lost interest in you.......or in pleasing you




what does it mean if you can`t hold on and that`s never been a problem before ?? :tongue:



then why consent in the first place :cry:

no photo
Mon 05/19/08 08:40 AM
men are pigs...selfish...and well...don't want to pass up an opportunity.....because we don't know when we'll get another one...

talk to him....you know out loud!!!flowerforyou



he's lost interest in you.......or in pleasing you




what does it mean if you can`t hold on and that`s never been a problem before ?? :tongue:



then why consent in the first place :cry:

IamMewhoRU's photo
Mon 05/19/08 08:41 AM
huh

OHMALIK's photo
Mon 05/19/08 08:45 AM
lol, well there's several things one can do. "oh boy" 1 your partner has to let you know when he's about to humm "let go"you both stop you can squeeze just below the hummm hat lets say countinue to repeat as need before explode smokin :tongue:
countinue to do so every time you will and he will find he's able to last longer 2nd there creams ointments that also can do the trick desynthesize that area hope I'm on track in your question have fun whippy

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Mon 05/19/08 08:47 AM

ok.....you must mean without blowing the stack right? ok...well, most guys can't "Hold on" to "it" because they are not having sex that often.As you have sex less often the "natural feel" goes away and the sesativity rises. this causes the infamous"early blowing" syndrome. I hope that helped
WOW they should of named u dr.ruth..lol

IamMewhoRU's photo
Mon 05/19/08 08:49 AM
LOL Silntstrnger...................Silly

grkboy's photo
Mon 05/19/08 08:58 AM
I'd say men and women should just take advantage of the idea that men can go more than once, and the second and third times will last much longer than the first.

Easiest thing women should do is give the man oral and let him blast quick, then he can pleasure you while his "soldier reloads". When he's ready for action again then he'll last much longer than the first time.

Plus regular sex with the guy will get better...so if maybe the first few sex sessions are "eh", there is a good chance things will improve as you both become more comfortable with one another as well as learn what gets the other person off.

Marley's photo
Mon 05/19/08 09:10 AM



what does it mean if you can`t hold on and that`s never been a problem before ?? :tongue:


Could be the first signs of a mental collapse. Might want to get some professional advice.And then try letting go. :wink:

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Mon 05/19/08 09:25 AM
Well, I've known guys who can last 12 seconds every night or twenty five minutes after getting none for six months.

Each guy is individual and just needs to tell you and be open and up front.

Personally, I like the hot sexy, wham bam push/pull fiery passion five minutes the first time and the lazier having fun with it get to know each other better 15-20 minutes I get later on. [For example] But that is just me.

lilith401's photo
Mon 05/19/08 09:33 AM


Well, I've known guys who can last 12 seconds every night or twenty five minutes after getting none for six months.

Each guy is individual and just needs to tell you and be open and up front.

Personally, I like the hot sexy, wham bam push/pull fiery passion five minutes the first time and the lazier having fun with it get to know each other better 15-20 minutes I get later on. [For example] But that is just me.


No no, i wish that was what this is about...we are talkin bout the loss of the hard on. Not the preemie.


Ahhhh....Thank you!

Well the only experiences with that I have had have in that regard have been a guy who had blood pressure "health" problems, and another with severe stress alcoholism issues. Both were in their thirties.

Usually though, if it is not health related, it is psychosomatic. Mind over matter, literally.

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Mon 05/19/08 09:37 AM



Well, I've known guys who can last 12 seconds every night or twenty five minutes after getting none for six months.

Each guy is individual and just needs to tell you and be open and up front.

Personally, I like the hot sexy, wham bam push/pull fiery passion five minutes the first time and the lazier having fun with it get to know each other better 15-20 minutes I get later on. [For example] But that is just me.


No no, i wish that was what this is about...we are talkin bout the loss of the hard on. Not the preemie.


Ahhhh....Thank you!

Well the only experiences with that I have had have in that regard have been a guy who had blood pressure "health" problems, and another with severe stress alcoholism issues. Both were in their thirties.

Usually though, if it is not health related, it is psychosomatic. Mind over matter, literally.


That's right! If you don't mind, it doesn't matter! ohwell

lilith401's photo
Mon 05/19/08 09:38 AM

That's right! If you don't mind, it doesn't matter! ohwell


Yes....

However I am 33 and in my prime. I mind, and it matters. It matters a lot, as it is always on my mind. laugh

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Mon 05/19/08 09:43 AM
Lilith, I think you hit it on the head, so to speak. Mind over matter. And they are the only one that matters sometime.
And I don't think it does get better with time. Don't waste yours on that guy. There are good ones that make sure that you are there first. Those are the ones to keep!drinker

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Mon 05/19/08 09:45 AM

Lilith, I think you hit it on the head, so to speak. Mind over matter. And they are the only one that matters sometime.
And I don't think it does get better with time. Don't waste yours on that guy. There are good ones that make sure that you are there first. Those are the ones to keep!drinker


you should be telling this to my baby momma's LOL huh noway grumble