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Topic: he is just not in to you
Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Mon 05/19/08 08:05 AM
I am not that sort of girl. I totally don't do sex on the first date. Translation: I did not have time to shave my legs and I'm on my period. Dang! <----- guilty. (don't judge)

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Mon 05/19/08 08:07 AM
Is that supposed to be a deterrent ?????? This has NEVER happened to me before. I swear. I must've drank too much. Translation: Has severe ED and forgot Viagra. Oooooh! Low blow! Okay..... how about this one. I am not that sort of girl. I totally don't do sex on the first date. Translation: I did not have time to shave my legs and I'm on my period. Dang!

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 05/19/08 08:12 AM
Is that supposed to be a deterrent ?????? What, the woman saying no?

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Mon 05/19/08 08:14 AM
i meant the hairy bloody part no is just a request for more information... usually takes 6 no's before you get a yes....

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 05/19/08 08:20 AM
i meant the hairy bloody part no is just a request for more information... usually takes 6 no's before you get a yes.... Is that so..... well, usually I shave before any date, you never know, but no way I'm going to do it the first time in the second of those circumstances... Six or ten no's.... nothing will change the answer there, unless you change the question to when can I see you again?

grkboy Joined Wed 04/02/08 Posts: 244	Mon 05/19/08 08:38 AM
Sounds like you have a pretty good luck dodgeing the bullets. Yeah. I'm honestly not bitter or angry or anything, more laughing about some of the extreme lies I've been told when a simple "I'm very flattered, but I'm just not into you like that. Sorry." would be perfectly fine. Rejection is easy to handle, and yes many times you see that she (or he in the case of women who are rejected) was not right for you in the long run. Maybe I just wish people wouldn't be so afraid to just be honest.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 05/19/08 09:08 AM
Sounds like you have a pretty good luck dodgeing the bullets. Yeah. I'm honestly not bitter or angry or anything, more laughing about some of the extreme lies I've been told when a simple "I'm very flattered, but I'm just not into you like that. Sorry." would be perfectly fine. Rejection is easy to handle, and yes many times you see that she (or he in the case of women who are rejected) was not right for you in the long run. Maybe I just wish people wouldn't be so afraid to just be honest. Well, if people were honest with themselves, first, then others, and lived by the Golden rule we'd have so much less to bytch about.

ElaineSeekingJerry Joined Thu 05/01/08 Posts: 978	Mon 05/19/08 09:13 AM
Sounds like you have a pretty good luck dodgeing the bullets. Yeah. I'm honestly not bitter or angry or anything, more laughing about some of the extreme lies I've been told when a simple "I'm very flattered, but I'm just not into you like that. Sorry." would be perfectly fine. Rejection is easy to handle, and yes many times you see that she (or he in the case of women who are rejected) was not right for you in the long run. Maybe I just wish people wouldn't be so afraid to just be honest. You are so right ... and I will definitely think about how I proceed in the future. Have to say, for those of us just getting back in the game, it is really, really tough to navigate these waters - wow!