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Topic: A Nice Guy With A Kick
rebkel Joined Wed 10/24/07 Posts: 205	Mon 05/19/08 05:34 AM
I supposed what it comes down to is that I'm looking for a nice guy with a kick. Someone that will hold doors for me, buy me flowers for no reason, bring me soup when I'm sick, but also says "that's what she said" at borderline inappropriate times, be as competitive and feisty as I am at beer pong, and come right back at me with a witty response when I say something sarcastic. Just a thought.

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Mon 05/19/08 05:36 AM
Hope you find your hearts desire.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Mon 05/19/08 05:36 AM
Good luck with that.

Smokee Joined Thu 03/06/08 Posts: 584	Mon 05/19/08 05:36 AM
That sounds good...when you find him will you see if he has a brother?

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Mon 05/19/08 05:36 AM
good luck

rebkel Joined Wed 10/24/07 Posts: 205	Mon 05/19/08 05:40 AM
That sounds good...when you find him will you see if he has a brother? Haha, you got it.

bobdesigns4262 Joined Sat 08/04/07 Posts: 2127	Mon 05/19/08 05:43 AM
i dunno...being bad is way better and much more fun, and i don't need no stinkin brother

Flirtyvirgo Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 1937	Mon 05/19/08 06:01 AM
That sounds good...when you find him will you see if he has a brother? Haha, you got it. Yea and a cousin for me

grkboy Joined Wed 04/02/08 Posts: 244	Mon 05/19/08 06:07 AM
I supposed what it comes down to is that I'm looking for a nice guy with a kick. Someone that will hold doors for me, buy me flowers for no reason, bring me soup when I'm sick, but also says "that's what she said" at borderline inappropriate times, be as competitive and feisty as I am at beer pong, and come right back at me with a witty response when I say something sarcastic. Just a thought. That doesn't sound unrealistic. You just want someone fun, confident, and he treats a woman well. Rather than call them "nice guys with an edge" or "nice guys with a kick", just call them "decent men". I totally understand when women will reject guys who are overly sensitive, have no backbone, and work every moment of their lives worshiping the women they lust for. I imagined a woman like that and I will agree it doesn't seem fun. You have a house slave basically...not a partner. Not directed at you, but the only problem is when women see being mistreated as "strong" or "masculine". When they see his emotional unavailability or little games as "playing hard to get" or "being mysterious" as opposed to red flags that he won't give her the relationship she wants. I think you'll find your decent guy. Just make that clear out there that you want a guy who isn't afraid to crack a joke, be sarcastic and witty, but he is still a gentleman.

beachbum069 Joined Mon 04/07/08 Posts: 14325	Mon 05/19/08 06:29 AM
I knew I should've kept practicing my beer pong. Good luck on your quest for a man.

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Mon 05/19/08 07:53 AM
I supposed what it comes down to is that I'm looking for a nice guy with a kick. Someone that will hold doors for me, buy me flowers for no reason, bring me soup when I'm sick, but also says "that's what she said" at borderline inappropriate times, be as competitive and feisty as I am at beer pong, and come right back at me with a witty response when I say something sarcastic. Just a thought. That doesn't sound unrealistic. You just want someone fun, confident, and he treats a woman well. Rather than call them "nice guys with an edge" or "nice guys with a kick", just call them "decent men". I totally understand when women will reject guys who are overly sensitive, have no backbone, and work every moment of their lives worshiping the women they lust for. I imagined a woman like that and I will agree it doesn't seem fun. You have a house slave basically...not a partner. Not directed at you, but the only problem is when women see being mistreated as "strong" or "masculine". When they see his emotional unavailability or little games as "playing hard to get" or "being mysterious" as opposed to red flags that he won't give her the relationship she wants. I think you'll find your decent guy. Just make that clear out there that you want a guy who isn't afraid to crack a joke, be sarcastic and witty, but he is still a gentleman. Wow, "you hit the nail right on the head". And who says guys don't understand women???

ElaineSeekingJerry Joined Thu 05/01/08 Posts: 978	Mon 05/19/08 09:01 AM
I agree wholeheartedly with MsCarmen ... gkboy you really seem to have a good grasp on what women need/want and how a good relationship should operate. The one who captures your heart will be a lucky woman indeed! Three cheers for the mature, intelligent and articulate guys out there!

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Mon 05/19/08 09:13 AM
I supposed what it comes down to is that I'm looking for a nice guy with a kick. Someone that will hold doors for me, buy me flowers for no reason, bring me soup when I'm sick, but also says "that's what she said" at borderline inappropriate times, be as competitive and feisty as I am at beer pong, and come right back at me with a witty response when I say something sarcastic. Just a thought. I know that guy! He's so perfect that he would never upset his wife by joining a dating site though.

grkboy Joined Wed 04/02/08 Posts: 244	Mon 05/19/08 09:23 AM
Wow, "you hit the nail right on the head". And who says guys don't understand women??? This is why I tell all guys to make sure they have some good female friends. See what they do, learn from them, and also be their guide to men. The one who captures your heart will be a lucky woman indeed! Thanks for the compliment. One of these days she'll come along.