just be patient someone will come into your life unexpectingly. You
sound like you were a faithful and trusting spouse, she will
regret losing you probably as soon as you meet someone else, she will
want you back

Thanks PMS I hate to say it but I do think Gentleman is right, it's real
hard to tell fantasy from reality these days. Believe me and I know ur
not doubting me but I'm for real. I feel like part of me is slowly dieng
where I'm at and the other half says everything will be all right. I
know god put me on this earth for a reason I just wonder what it is and
when will I be content. I guess like gentleman said I really do need a
gut check for one and need a lot of soul searching right now.
Bobby

Hello Bobby,
Welcome to the site! I am sorry to hear about your situation, I left my
husband after 10 years of marriage and it was not easy. There are 2 kids
involved and I took that into a lot of concideration and thought about
how unfair it was them living in a home that was full of drama. I did
leave and it was hard on the kids but they are much better now after the
transition and so am I.
SOmetimes we cant stay just for the kids, You have to decide what YOU
want as if you are not happy no one elce can be in the family either,
Sex is a important part of a relationship and without it, it can be
straining on one or both the people involved.
I dont think cheating is a solution, if you are not happy darlin it is
time to move on. Good luck with what ever situation you go with.
You are a DOLL and I wouldnt see you having a problem finding a nice
lady.
To bad I moved away from AL.

43Bobby1963,
you are not alone in this. After 18 years and 4 children I was told one
day, without prior warning, “I don’t love you anymore”. That hurts like
hell. So I know what you are going through. After a lot of confusing,
depression and being sorry for myself, I realized that it was the best
thing that he could have ever done for me. I am a better person today
and it is not thanks to him. It is his loss and my gain. So be happy,
things happen for a reason. If she acted in that way, she never deserved
you anyway. Look at things optimistically, because there are better
things in life. It is hard, I know, but there is a light at the end of
the tunnel and you will see it soon. Good Luck!!

set down have along talk about how each of you are feeling communicate
thats very important go from there if you love each other it will work