Soo last night i get a txt from the guy i was with over five months ago..we broke up cuz of some things he did...and he's seeing some one new. well in the txt he tells me that he still loves me, wants to be with me, and i'm the only girl he would give his life for.......

the guy knows how i feel, i still care about him but i dont want to date him. he's made me cry soo many times senice we met that its not even funny... and now i dont know what to do...

on to bigger and better things i say, love....

Yeah..... you know what to do. You know. . . .

Yup you are too smart, way too pretty to take left overs. And only cry tears of joy from now on. If you need a pick me up I have a picture I can show you!

In your you know what to do...

Good luck!

Well...don't date him? I'm sorry but the answer just seems so blatantly there. You know it, I know it, anyone else that reads this knows it...now do it.

Sorry if I come off as cold, this is how I am in real life as well. At least your getting an accurate representation of who I am.

i've told him that i've moved on.
i even had a few boyfriends after him

it just seems ever senice i made the decison to join the army. my exes are coming out of the wood work, delcaring their love for me..

its getting stressful

well I say take him back as long as you are ok with setting yourself up for more heartbreak, and misery. Don't count on feeling any self worth or respect for yourself. Yeah, I say go for it

stand your ground....follow your heart on not dating him... a guy that hurts you over and over again isnt worth it...if he really loved you he would see always making you cry isnt love...please respect yourself enough to move on to better....thats hard for us all but well worth it in the end...good luck to ya...

lol...Rob, u always make me smile with the way u answer things

good, you deserve it and better. Don't settle, and give up on yourself. That perfect guy si out there somewhere, even if you have to beat him about the head with a cornstalk to see it

i know its stupid of me to even talk to the guy...theres only two exes i still talk to and he's one of them. and i made it VERRY CLEAR to him that i dont EVER want to be with him again. and if he can handle it we could be friends. and i dont think he gets it.

Going back to any relationship is the biggest mistake but up to you make the mistake and learn the hard way or walk away the choice is yours.

Alternatively use an standard issue rifle

well...i guess i'm just gonna have to take it instride...and maybe beat some one with a cornstalk...if i can find one up here..maybe one day i'll find what i'm looking for...and he can move on and be happy...

I will have to disagree with that statement, sorry. it depends on the integrity of the prior relationship, and the reasons for the end the first time around. Sometimes people do grow up when faced with reality. I don't think this is the case, this sounds like he feels a challenge to get her to against her resolve , but somtimes it is legit

he got dumped

And it took him 5 mths. to tell you this? And not even with a phone call? Sheesh.

do just what u r saying. keep urself away from him. u r saying he has hurt u big time, so it's not worth it. u have way more value than what he can offer u.

well...we were fine execpt for the fact that i was out of work for a bit...and we argued over that...and his drinking..and what i wore...what ened it all was when he kept drinking after i asked him many times to stop, he wouldnt so i got a little upset...he then grabbed my wrist, got in my face, bit me(almost drew blood) then was pushing me around. he yelled at me, and my best friends for stating our own thoughts, told me that what i've been through in life was nothing compared to his life, then walked out of the place we were in, and i decided not to go after him