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Edited by
No1sLove
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Sat 05/17/08 12:50 PM
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a - he seems to think this is a date, but that's not what I had in mind, situation and how did you let him down EASY!?
No rude stuff please, this is an old friend I asked out to dinner to "catch up" and to comfort after the death of his father, and now I find out that he's crushin' me. 
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kepp it simple, honest, and to the piont. He's a friend and should understand. Good luck
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Edited by
No1sLove
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Sat 05/17/08 12:52 PM
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kepp it simple, honest, and to the piont. He's a friend and should understand. Good luck
Maybe cause I've not even been anywhere someone might take for a date in like 8 or more years? 
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hhhhmmmmmmmmmmm bring up that you are crushing on someone that ought to give a hint
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That's a tough situation but I have always found that the best answer is straight up honesty. "Look, it was really nice catching up with you again,but, I don't see you that way, please don't push it because I don't want to lose the friendship." If he can handle it you'll still be friends, if not he'll be hurt but at least he won't be mislead.
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hhhhmmmmmmmmmmm bring up that you are crushing on someone that ought to give a hint 
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Always best to be honest...
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Well if you said to "catch up" maybe he understands it is just a dinner nothing more. I mean so what if he is crushing on you he can still be your friend and you two enjoy each others company.
If once you two are out and about and he mentions maybe going on a date then you can calmly explain that you do not want to date him and throw in the reason why you do not want to. Am I making sense? Ha ha... I am trying, Ha ha. |
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Sounds like it's your fault for leading him on.....ya need to make that clear from the beginning.....duh
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hhhhmmmmmmmmmmm bring up that you are crushing on someone that ought to give a hint
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hhhhmmmmmmmmmmm bring up that you are crushing on someone that ought to give a hint
Make sure he doesn't think you are speaking about him being maybe that crush! Ha ha ha 
Would suck though being him and knowing all that happen to him recently with the death int he family and then having that one girl ask him to dinner that he is "crushing" on and her to say she likes another, no? Maybe just let him know you would rather be friends right now with what he has been going through. |
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That's a tough situation but I have always found that the best answer is straight up honesty. "Look, it was really nice catching up with you again,but, I don't see you that way, please don't push it because I don't want to lose the friendship." If he can handle it you'll still be friends, if not he'll be hurt but at least he won't be mislead.  I think he's just rehashing an old high school crush, and this is more about his father passing than anything.
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kepp it simple, honest, and to the piont. He's a friend and should understand. Good luck
Maybe cause I've not even been anywhere someone might take for a date in like 8 or more years?
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Sounds like it's your fault for leading him on.....ya need to make that clear from the beginning.....duh 
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Are you to really good friends with a lot of past?
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kepp it simple, honest, and to the piont. He's a friend and should understand. Good luck
Maybe cause I've not even been anywhere someone might take for a date in like 8 or more years?
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Are you to really good friends with a lot of past? |
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If I could just show him this pic somehow before 6:30 tonight...he might not even show!!!
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Are you to really good friends with a lot of past? Well then you can always talk it up about ya'll's memories and put it in there how great of a friend he is and that you wouldn't want things to change that up. That you respect the friendship and yadda yadda yadda... you know what I mean. I know. |
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kepp it simple, honest, and to the piont. He's a friend and should understand. Good luck
Maybe cause I've not even been anywhere someone might take for a date in like 8 or more years?
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