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Perhaps its easier to take things out of context...and thats ok. I see no need to defend myself as everyone has an opinion. I had been looking for more constructive replies as opposed to the negatives...and thats ok too. Thanks for your comments! Have a fantastic day! your great, your spectacular, your wonderful, your amazing...is that really helpful when you admit you need help in finding a mate? I find you to be a bit full of yourself, which may just be how you come across, and not necessarily how you really are, I'm simply pointing out where I find there to be an issue. It's funny when someone doesn't like what you say it is naturally "negative" If we don't toot our own horn, who will??? True, but the guy wants to know why he can't get a date, if you don't want an answer, don't ask a question... It's really that simple. |
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Perhaps its easier to take things out of context...and thats ok. I see no need to defend myself as everyone has an opinion. I had been looking for more constructive replies as opposed to the negatives...and thats ok too. Thanks for your comments! Have a fantastic day! your great, your spectacular, your wonderful, your amazing...is that really helpful when you admit you need help in finding a mate? I find you to be a bit full of yourself, which may just be how you come across, and not necessarily how you really are, I'm simply pointing out where I find there to be an issue. It's funny when someone doesn't like what you say it is naturally "negative" If we don't toot our own horn, who will??? what is this horn you speak of? opinions are like noses, we all have one. is she not entitled to share hers? just asking 
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well for me my age span has not been as high as yours... more often have i dated younger than older.. not really by choice... just guys my age never much asked me out... <or older> i think that only 3 times that i recall the guy was older... so i guess i got used to younger guys not that i wouldnt date older guys.. <when i was dating> i usually went with the 5 yr span.. older or younger so we have something in common.. if i had to pick id go with younger cause i notice that most older i studied dont have the energy level... so for me ive dated 6 yrs younger and 10 yrs older.. 8 and 10 yrs is a difference ive found from the 6 yr span... and honestly if i were dating now... im thinking i would change it to 3 yrs older and 5 yrs younger...
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Perhaps its easier to take things out of context...and thats ok. I see no need to defend myself as everyone has an opinion. I had been looking for more constructive replies as opposed to the negatives...and thats ok too. Thanks for your comments! Have a fantastic day! your great, your spectacular, your wonderful, your amazing...is that really helpful when you admit you need help in finding a mate? I find you to be a bit full of yourself, which may just be how you come across, and not necessarily how you really are, I'm simply pointing out where I find there to be an issue. It's funny when someone doesn't like what you say it is naturally "negative" If we don't toot our own horn, who will??? what is this horn you speak of? opinions are like noses, we all have one. is she not entitled to share hers? just asking She is definitely entitled to her opinion but she can only speak for herself. Even though we do not hold the same opinion, mixed opinions are a good thing; the OP can take away what he chooses to, or not to value. |
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Perhaps its easier to take things out of context...and thats ok. I see no need to defend myself as everyone has an opinion. I had been looking for more constructive replies as opposed to the negatives...and thats ok too. Thanks for your comments! Have a fantastic day! your great, your spectacular, your wonderful, your amazing...is that really helpful when you admit you need help in finding a mate? I find you to be a bit full of yourself, which may just be how you come across, and not necessarily how you really are, I'm simply pointing out where I find there to be an issue. It's funny when someone doesn't like what you say it is naturally "negative" If we don't toot our own horn, who will??? what is this horn you speak of? opinions are like noses, we all have one. is she not entitled to share hers? just asking She is definitely entitled to her opinion but she can only speak for herself. Even though we do not hold the same opinion, mixed opinions are a good thing; the OP can take away what he chooses to, or not to value. exactly, we can only share our own opinions which is one of the reasons I enjoy this site. Correct again the OP is open to interpret as he/she sees fit. thanks for responding
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I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 43... So hold out hope. There are still plenty of women out there looking for an older man!!!
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I'm a very youthful 53 year old male and have always preferred dating women usually within 10 years younger . Now that I've reached this age, seems the younger woman see me as too old and the women my age want younger men...have I reached that "no longer dateable" point and should just find a hobby instead. Its become frustrating to be turned down by every 42-52 year old I have contacted and be told I'm too old for them....So whats the opinion out there...just curious? Improve your odds, YOU be the younger guy!! Try 55+ ...we don't all want a younger guy....I've raised my son already 
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age in my book is just a number its the way people look at it You're a smart man....it's not in the numbers, it's in how it makes you feel 
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Dude, read your profile too..... Do I have to be the brains of this outfit??? No, but you're doing really SO WELL at it!!! 
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omg not another GYPSY!!!
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quote] Dude, read your profile too..... Do I have to be the brains of this outfit??? share lily - i dont wanna peek his profile "I am not MOST MEN...I'm a unique individual...someone who when you take the time and make the effort to know me...you will appreciate me for the man I am....think of me as someone worthwhile....interesting.... and fun to spend time with." spells arrogant to me.... I'm so different, I'm not like most guys, but.....I only like women younger than me...WTF?? Ya, that's pretty different... karma huh? lol I did not read it as arrogant, I read it as confident.... which to me is very attractive. |
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quote] Dude, read your profile too..... Do I have to be the brains of this outfit??? share lily - i dont wanna peek his profile "I am not MOST MEN...I'm a unique individual...someone who when you take the time and make the effort to know me...you will appreciate me for the man I am....think of me as someone worthwhile....interesting.... and fun to spend time with." spells arrogant to me.... I'm so different, I'm not like most guys, but.....I only like women younger than me...WTF?? Ya, that's pretty different... karma huh? lol I did not read it as arrogant, I read it as confident.... which to me is very attractive. Try asking yourself out.....see what the response is?? |
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Try asking yourself out.....see what the response is?? I go out with myself all the time and I have fun, if this was meant for me (not sure).
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So whats the opinion out there...just curious? I'm only 34, but in my opinion I'd say just live your life and enjoy it. Send emails, go on dates, but don't make all this a heavy priority for you. I've learned in life that one should never plan their lives around "having someone". They shouldn't think in terms of an "us" like a couple. Everyone is better off planning their lives around themselves, but writing these plans in pencil. What I mean by "in pencil" is that it's subject to change. So you might meet the right person and suddenly want to marry and spend your life with them...you can simply erase and re-write the plans in life. If not, then stick to them and live a fruitful life alone. I'd tell you to hold tight, keep trying, but don't make this the only thing you think about. Have hobbies, interests, travel, live your life for you. Make a significant other an ADDED BONUS, not a priority to acquire. |
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So whats the opinion out there...just curious? I'm only 34, but in my opinion I'd say just live your life and enjoy it. Send emails, go on dates, but don't make all this a heavy priority for you. I've learned in life that one should never plan their lives around "having someone". They shouldn't think in terms of an "us" like a couple. Everyone is better off planning their lives around themselves, but writing these plans in pencil. What I mean by "in pencil" is that it's subject to change. So you might meet the right person and suddenly want to marry and spend your life with them...you can simply erase and re-write the plans in life. If not, then stick to them and live a fruitful life alone. I'd tell you to hold tight, keep trying, but don't make this the only thing you think about. Have hobbies, interests, travel, live your life for you. Make a significant other an ADDED BONUS, not a priority to acquire. great response
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i don't agree with people that say it will just happen!!!!
like everything else you want out of life, you have to work at it
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I'm a very youthful 53 year old male and have always preferred dating women usually within 10 years younger . Now that I've reached this age, seems the younger woman see me as too old and the women my age want younger men...have I reached that "no longer dateable" point and should just find a hobby instead. Its become frustrating to be turned down by every 42-52 year old I have contacted and be told I'm too old for them....So whats the opinion out there...just curious? Find a Hobby instead.....here you can start with this
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