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lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Wed 05/14/08 11:11 AM
No. I am not in a position to support anyone else financially. Period.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Wed 05/14/08 11:11 AM
been there done that,and as long as they didn't sit around on the couch all day everyday and actually went out and did something then sure. what if with his medical condition, he had to lie down a lot??

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Wed 05/14/08 11:11 AM
yes if they had big boobs ive got big boobs

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Wed 05/14/08 11:12 AM
Yes, I wouldn't care as long as they could hold a conversation / my interest. thankyou, best answer

adj4u Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 21254	Wed 05/14/08 11:13 AM
No. I am not in a position to support anyone else financially. Period. i did not see the would support in the opening post asking the question why do you feel you would have to support them

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Wed 05/14/08 11:14 AM
No. I am not in a position to support anyone else financially. Period. i dont need anyone to support me financially, i get plenty money

wendynhouston Joined Sat 08/18/07 Posts: 708	Wed 05/14/08 11:14 AM
If we hit it off, that wouldn't keep me from forming a relationship. As long as the person didn't just sit around all day. Depending what the condition is, they could still help around the house (even if they had to do things slowly or only do part of the things around the house). No one knows what the future holds. You might form a relationship with someone, get married and start a family, then out of the blue an accident or something happens and your spouse is no longer able to work. Would you end things then after establishing a great life? I know I wouldn't. Things might be difficult, but you don't throw it all away because some unforeseen event happens.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Wed 05/14/08 11:14 AM
No. I am not in a position to support anyone else financially. Period. i did not see the would support in the opening post asking the question why do you feel you would have to support them esactly, sick people get benefits like me, and i get a good amount of money, i wouldnt need any finanical help at all

jedigirl Joined Fri 02/02/07 Posts: 1070	Wed 05/14/08 11:15 AM
you met someone, and they couldnt work due to medical reasons, would you still date him/her?? as long as they didnt have a false body part...false body parts freak me out...

hauveralan Joined Mon 04/07/08 Posts: 2827	Wed 05/14/08 11:15 AM
been there done that,and as long as they didn't sit around on the couch all day everyday and actually went out and did something then sure. we could do anything you wanted

hauveralan Joined Mon 04/07/08 Posts: 2827	Wed 05/14/08 11:16 AM
you met someone, and they couldnt work due to medical reasons, would you still date him/her?? as long as they didnt have a false body part...false body parts freak me out... i think they are cool.....i want to start collecting them

FaithfulOne78 Joined Mon 11/19/07 Posts: 15313	Wed 05/14/08 11:16 AM
been there done that,and as long as they didn't sit around on the couch all day everyday and actually went out and did something then sure. we could do anything you wanted

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Wed 05/14/08 11:17 AM
No. I am not in a position to support anyone else financially. Period. i dont need anyone to support me financially, i get plenty money I thought this was just a general question? Who is talking about you? If they were not working, then who is supporting them?

DebbieJT Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 10329	Wed 05/14/08 11:18 AM
No. I am not in a position to support anyone else financially. Period. i dont need anyone to support me financially, i get plenty money I thought this was just a general question? Who is talking about you? If they were not working, then who is supporting them? in this country you get finacial help from government for disability or prolonged illness

smilingeyes_976 Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 1152	Wed 05/14/08 11:18 AM
depends on the situation. it doesnt make them less of a person. what situation would you say yes or no too?? I would say no to someone that was using the system unfairly. Someone that was fully capable of holding down a job but used the system so they didn't have to. There are alot of people out there that really can not work. But there are alot out there that really can. I would say yes to someone that had a legitimate medical reason as long as there was a connection between us. I dated a guy that only had one arm. He didn't consider himself disabled. Neither did I. He was one of the sweetest people I know. He had a hard time finding work because he worked in construction. We're still friends and get together for coffee and to show off our kids photos when he's in town.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Wed 05/14/08 11:19 AM
No. I am not in a position to support anyone else financially. Period. i dont need anyone to support me financially, i get plenty money I thought this was just a general question? Who is talking about you? If they were not working, then who is supporting them? no ones talking about me, i just wanted peoples opinions on this because i cant work. i support myself finacially, i get a lot of money due to all of my illnesses.

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Wed 05/14/08 11:19 AM
No. I am not in a position to support anyone else financially. Period. even if I were in the position to support him, I wouldn't must have goals, drive and ambition to get my attention. Nothing wrong with those unable to work, just my preference.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Wed 05/14/08 11:20 AM
depends on the situation. it doesnt make them less of a person. what situation would you say yes or no too?? I would say no to someone that was using the system unfairly. Someone that was fully capable of holding down a job but used the system so they didn't have to. There are alot of people out there that really can not work. But there are alot out there that really can. I would say yes to someone that had a legitimate medical reason as long as there was a connection between us. I dated a guy that only had one arm. He didn't consider himself disabled. Neither did I. He was one of the sweetest people I know. He had a hard time finding work because he worked in construction. We're still friends and get together for coffee and to show off our kids photos when he's in town. i agree, if he was legitimate, it wouldnt bother me that he didnt work

adj4u Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 21254	Wed 05/14/08 11:20 AM Edited by adj4u on Wed 05/14/08 11:20 AM
No. I am not in a position to support anyone else financially. Period. i dont need anyone to support me financially, i get plenty money I thought this was just a general question? Who is talking about you? If they were not working, then who is supporting them? another disabled people are worthless thought

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Wed 05/14/08 11:20 AM
Well, if they had an income and did not work, then I'd say yes. It would depend on the disability, though, as I would not want to walk into a terminal situation.