Ok here is is a good example

When a new member post something and it a woman, saying how she is looking for someone that is honest, open, trusting etc etc. And she is very attractive. How man men will jump on that thread and say i'm looking for the same thing. And knowing that there is a good percentage of men that are just looking to have fun and there just agreeing to get her attention. Thats what i'm talking about, people that follow and do what everyone else is and not answering the question honestly of what there really thinking. The truth is. onn that thread. some are saying how can i get into her paints Tell me i'm wrong?

Ok here is is a good example

When a new member post something and it a woman, saying how she is looking for someone that is honest, open, trusting etc etc. And she is very attractive. How man men will jump on that thread and say i'm looking for the same thing. And knowing that there is a good percentage of men that are just looking to have fun and there just agreeing to get her attention. Thats what i'm talking about, people that follow and do what everyone else is and not answering the question honestly of what there really thinking. The truth is. onn that thread. some are saying how can i get into her paints Tell me i'm wrong?

Each of us lives with our own motives in life because our human experiences are all different. I am going to use an extreme example, if you were abused as a child (God forbid) you would approach others differently throughout your entire life. If your father told you how a woman's place was at home you would likely think that way too. If your friends thought picking up a girl by whistling at her is how it is done that is what you would do.

So if you see people all answering the same it is because at some point in their lives there was a similarity however small. Our brains all function the same way when it comes to releasing chemicals. The connections are basically the same with neurons. What's different is our experiences in life.

You are talking about a primtive signal which is the urge to reproduce. Mating habits are the same as long ago when we could be considered animals. I don't think your example is a good one for that reason. Sex for the purpose of sex is mindless, right? It's more of a primative urge.

There is a doe going through the woods who is in heat. What do your think most of the stags would do? The same thing happens here. If being horny didn't exist we would not be here as a species.

No, don't see all answering the questions the same. As your example, being a kid i can see that that you might of been brought up that way. But that only goes so far. When your an adult life changes. What your example was actually saying to me. Is i'm using my past for my actions today and there comes a point in life when you have to face reality. My example i gave you was for fun, just to make a point. I'm not saying all are like that but some are. See i did this thread to see the reactions i would get. I kinda knew what was going to happen, but i wanted to see if anyone would see past things and not many did. They were looking at the negative part of it. In all sense, it got them to answer the question honestly of what they understood of it... Thats the whole point of this thread.

Get honest with themselves when answering questions on the forum?


There have been so many topic's where people will follow what everyone else is saying. The ole high school thinking. I want to fit in


Example, lilangel just posted who is your favorite person on here and more then half will say. I like to many to answer that question. I know i'm going to hear it on this. But BS, everyone has one person they talk to the to above all others. This was just an example besids all the other topic's people will answer. Get honest with yourself when your answering a question on here. Just tired of seeing how people will follow others and i know what most of you will say. I don't want to hurt peoples feelings. Were not kids and some point in life people have to grow up! When your honest with yourself and what you do in life. You start to see who you really are and start to grow and others will see that to So why not start here?

This is not a drama thread unless you turn it into one. it's really not that hard to answer a question with out drama. it's how you people perceive things. you can take it serious if you want or you can answer it with an open mind

I have to run, but I disagree with you too. That's what makes us unique. Of course thats to be treasured also. I don't understand this: "there comes a point in life when you have to face reality." One day you wake up and suddenly realized you weren't living reality? I don't see how it relates to what I wrote.

Anyways being that you are taking the "I don't really care" approach now I don't either.

from the outside looking in it resembles drama to me....no offense

mmmm....its the internet...21 century version of OZ...who takes this stuff seriously????

This is a drama thread. I agree.

Asking people to post their favorite person is just so very high school. It means they must select one person they prefer over all else and exclude people who would like to think they are close with someone.

It is a good way to hurt people's feelings and for what purpose?

I think perhaps with your example you lost your entire point.

That thread was not representative of giving honest answers. People answered the way they did to prevent from hurting their friends feelings. JMO

I wish I had some profound thing to say, but lillith pretty much summed it up for me....as usual.

hence, ONE of my favorite people.

Careful... you are not agreeing just to agree?

Teasing you, lady!

Anyone who's seen more than one of my posts knows I'm not that agreeable....

I agree!!

I feel like Ive just eaten a box of Exlax....

Get honest with themselves when answering questions on the forum?

There have been so many topic's where people will follow what everyone else is saying. The ole high school thinking. I want to fit in