how do you learn to love again after you get your heart broken over and over again?????

time heals all wounds..u will..give it time

still workin' on that one myself...

it isn't a thing of learning again, you always know how to love, it is getting over the hurt which allows you to be open to love again

well thank you ..

Great question. My friends tell me time heals all wounds, but exactly how much time is needed? For some it can take days, for some it can take months, and some can take years. It all depends on each individual situation. All I can say is yes, it does get better, great friends, and a few bottles of wine help!

You remember that you had ownership in those relationships and accept responsibility for your part. Then you change your mindset for the future and remember the women you meet from now on are not at fault for anything that happened to you in the past, and start fresh.

But if your behaviors and attitudes do not change, the outcomes might end up being similiar. Self-fulfilling prophecy, you know. We've all done it, I suppose,to a degree.

very well said.

On this shelf we also carry band aid though duct take is available as recommended by the government!

Sometimes you don't.

well thank you lilith that helps alot ..

oh yes wine helps but there are scars that won't heal as the song would say

a few times and after while we learn to notice some of the signs a man told me this weekend there are three types of women one that goes for anything two all you have to do is show you care like calling her for no reason listening will draw a women coser to you and the third is the one you cant have and she is the lonelyest womman because she isnt going to let you know that she is to independent i told him how can he say that he said we all are looking for something in this life whether its love lust we have to figure out which side we are really and truly on so love keep trying until we get it right i guess

so am i ..its been a rough road but it will get better some day..

You are such a smart woman.... ((((tanya))))

ty darlin'

wowthats so true ..

Anytime!

Absolutely. Remember, YOU picked her. Before you try to have a new relationship, work on YOU. No one person is at fault in any relationship problems. Depending on how long you were together, you may have damaged the relationship as much as she did. No one, man or woman will put up with things forever that they cannot tolerate.

Th trick is to really get to know people and to really let yourself get to know them. Awareness is the key. Notice any fears or anxieties you may have and deal with that. So many times we take whoever pays attention to us. Why? Who knows.

No one but yourself will know the answer to that one but many of the reasons are loneliness, desperation, fear, sexual need, money issues, insecurities, safety issues, need for attention. None of these are good reasons to get into a relationship. So, ask yourself WHY you want another relationship before really looking again and be honest with yourself.

The important thing about all past relationships is they are all opportunities for learning. Learn what you don't want then focus on what you do want and LOOK for that. Make the people you meet prove to you they are what you are looking for before you give your heart to them. Remember, some people are dishonest and it is up to you to become aware and conscious to what they are saying and doing. But that is just life in general. Wake up.

Remember, your life is all about you and everyone else's life is all about them. Find those people that are capable of sharing and are willing to share before you get back out there really looking. Until you let go of the fear of getting hurt again, you will draw that to you. ....Sorry. Stepping off my soapbox now...

and wounds all heels! That thought alone should pull you through!!