Topic: Men, I will help you if you ask...
lilangel2's photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:22 AM

Hey lil!

My suggestion for help for some profiles is PUT A DAMN SHIRT ON!!!! huh ohwell


LOL that is what I tell them if they are seeking a serious relationship...if they aren't well...that might get what they want. :wink:

no photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:22 AM
OK, Angel, so I'm going along, checking out some of the profiles as you critique them. Knightwriter deactivated his profile!

lilangel2's photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:23 AM

OK, Angel, so I'm going along, checking out some of the profiles as you critique them. Knightwriter deactivated his profile!


LOL I hope not! bigsmile

auburngirl's photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:26 AM


Hey lil!

My suggestion for help for some profiles is PUT A DAMN SHIRT ON!!!! huh ohwell


LOL that is what I tell them if they are seeking a serious relationship...if they aren't well...that might get what they want. :wink:



Somehow I doubt that! laugh If you need a man bra, put on a shirt people!

wiley's photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:27 AM
So in short. B:heart::heart:bs, yes. M:angry::angry:bs, no.

auburngirl's photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:28 AM
Exactly!! laugh laugh

lilangel2's photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:29 AM

OK, Angel, so I'm going along, checking out some of the profiles as you critique them. Knightwriter deactivated his profile!


sandradee1961...the headline seems to match what you are looking for...so is good.

On the main pic...the cartoon is cute but you are much cuter and should flaunt that...in the forums the main pic is the first impression people see of you...it should be a good pic of YOU...not a dog, cat or cartoon in my opinion...Thos are fine for inside the profile. Like I told someone else...I put other pics up just cutting up at times...like my happy foot...but those don't stay up long as my main pic.

the real close up of you smiling would get you soooooooooo many emails!!!

Profile description is near perfect.. you might want to add more about the type of man you are looking for.

Great profile, Great pics! Why are you still single??? LOL

Have Fun!drinker

lilangel2's photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:31 AM

So in short. B:heart::heart:bs, yes. M:angry::angry:bs, no.


yup, if a man has a nice muscler hairy chest and he is looking for fun...by all means show it...if he wants a serious relationship or he just has not the physique for going topless...put on a SHIRT! bigsmile

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Fri 05/09/08 10:32 AM



Great profile, Great pics! Why are you still single??? LOL

Have Fun!drinker



Honey, you tell me and we'll both know!laugh

wiley's photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:32 AM
I hear pants are also highly recommended. :wink:

Lily0923's photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:32 AM

You mean

"Self Centered Poor Listener With Bad Combover Desires Subserviant Sex Parter With Excellent Domestic Skills"

doesn't work?noway


It did for me, don't you dare change it sugar.....:wink:

lilangel2's photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:41 AM


Poor dear men...I will help you if you ask...I see so many of you with profiles that just suck...pics that suck...no way you will get a girl...you need HELP! I will be brutally honest to help you catch the girl of your dreams...just let me know to look at your profile and I will scrutinize it when I have time and make some suggestions for you. bigsmile

k what is wrong with mine


hauveralan...uh oh...that headline will stop alot of women in their tracks...women like time!
Change it to "devoted dad" or something similar...you say you are wanting a relationship...that will take some time.
The pic is fine since you are a dad and that is what you are trying to convey to any possible companion.

Maybe you should change to "looking for friends" since your time is soo limited. that way, if you did meet someone you really hit it off with maybe you
could make some time for her. But the other ones will undestand you are just wanting friendship and do not have alot of time to offer.

Good luck in school
Cute kid:smile:

lilangel2's photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:41 AM

I hear pants are also highly recommended. :wink:


Not if you're a cat! bigsmile

lilangel2's photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:48 AM

When you're done, I'll help you with your profile.. tmi...


I am waiting!!!!!!!! bigsmile

A1SeekingU ...Get a little more creative with your headline..."Checking this out..." Sounds like , "checking YOU out"...How about, "Do you like Italian or Seafood?"

The pic is ok...would be bette rif you had a closeup with a smile...you need more pics...one is never enough!

The pic you have is good though because it shows you are active, appear in good shape and shows a little bit of what you like to do.

(I love to fish too ;)

"BLAH BLAH BLAH" is funny...I guess it could get women to email to fins more about you...

But, really your profile is sorely lacking in descriptions of what you are looking for and what you are like.

Cheers drinker

lilangel2's photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:56 AM


Poor dear men...I will help you if you ask...I see so many of you with profiles that just suck...pics that suck...no way you will get a girl...you need HELP! I will be brutally honest to help you catch the girl of your dreams...just let me know to look at your profile and I will scrutinize it when I have time and make some suggestions for you. bigsmile

dr. ruth will help us guys............laugh laugh drinker drinker



9CORNERPOCKET ...Ok, I guess that headline is ok

The main pic is perfect if you were after me!!! I LOVE POPEYE ! I used to hate Olive Oyl when I was small because she treated him so mean! I was sooo jealous of her LOL

But, for most women...a real pic of you would work better. If osmeone puts a cartoon or an animal...makes someone think they are either hiding something or unsure of themself.

I like the pic of you in leather vest and yellow shirt.

You have a variety pics on your profile which is good.

Your description is short , sweet but to the point and imformative...you added alot of interests...and some important details in what you don't want.

You are good to go...

If I were to go to indiana to visit my cousin, I wouldn't mind a ride.

Cheers...have fun.

drinker

lilangel2's photo
Fri 05/09/08 11:00 AM

I'm new here so I'll certainly be glad for some profile help.


Kuvan ...."Not sure what I am looking for" has got to go...would be ok if you were just looking for friends..

but , you are looking for a relationship...and if you don't know what you are looking for, how should we know?

Most people do have some idea of what they are looking for. Think about that and put it down...you can't get what you don't know.
Your main pic should be the closeup one...but you look soo sad...tray to take another with a smile...use my happy foot pic as an incentive to smile if need be :)

Beef up your description with more detail about you...and what you want in a relationship.

Have Fun!happy

lilangel2's photo
Fri 05/09/08 11:08 AM

this could be....fun........laugh


Ghostrider2u.. Your headline is ok...straight forward and to the point...

I like the "get r done" pic better than the one you have now...but then I am a country girl LOL'

As long as the pic is of your face and you don't look like you are fixin' to slap someone,,,then its ok...
You have a variety of pics on your profile,..this is good.
The clown pic is scary lol

The comedic poetry is cute...shows a sense of humor...now why don't you add some real stuff about your self...what you like to do?
What makes you tick? What are you looking for? What you aren't looking for...details...Hobbies...music..etc

Have fun!bigsmile

lilangel2's photo
Fri 05/09/08 11:18 AM

well thx angel i appreciate the offer but i want someone not for who i am but in spite of who a i am laugh


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adj4u ...You could work on your headline...


Pictures of waterfalls and greenmen are alright for inside of profile if they have special meaning to you, but nothign beats a pic of the actual person...no pic of the person generally sends up red flag warnings....

Your description leaves alot to be desired as well...tell a little about yourself...your likes, dislikes...what you want in a relationship etc.

Don't hide...be yourself...true friends will like you for who you are.

Have Fun!drinker

lilangel2's photo
Fri 05/09/08 11:21 AM

It's not my fault, everyone doesn't have to deal with these sharp pointy things sticking out of their head...makes it difficult to think of something clever.smokin


FearandLoathing ... "what the hell is a "Blurb?" lol I have no idea!

Funny headline..is ok.

Funny main pic...since you are looking for friendship...that is fine. If you were looking for a realationship...I would say...take a closeup of you smiling.

You profile looks fine for friendship.

Have Fun! drinker

lilangel2's photo
Fri 05/09/08 11:40 AM



Poor dear men...I will help you if you ask...I see so many of you with profiles that just suck...pics that suck...no way you will get a girl...you need HELP! I will be brutally honest to help you catch the girl of your dreams...just let me know to look at your profile and I will scrutinize it when I have time and make some suggestions for you. bigsmile




damn...................i need some help too...i cant find that military and noral guy....and im goin nuts


Both characteristics can be observed on a washing machine, assuming you mean normal and spin. laugh




Citizen_Joe ..I know you didn't ask, but im gonna critique you r anyway lol

"Seeking intelligent life in a small town "...kind of funny with maybe a little truth to it lol

"Looking for marriage" Honest- shows what you are after...

Nice pic...Very handsome man...you may want to add more later in your profile. Can't have too many pics.

Your description leaves alot to question...but that can be deliberate to invite questions in hcat or via email...
I am only speaking for myself, but when a man says he is spoiled in his lifestyle, it says to me UNFLEXIBLE , UNGIVING, Possibly SELF CENTERED and SELFISH...not that you are...
just that I have experienced that before...a man "set in his ways" never married...did not know how to share his life with someone. Perhaps you could convey this in other words, like "Secure in my life",
...just sounds better.

Also you might add more of what you are looking for in a woman.

Good luck
drinker